bullshit brigade

just to vent xox

[ghostlytalkin]

the reverse racism and weird vibes towards black muses specifically (full body cringing just reading that one ask about the group chat) is sounding very ariel of her, them both having blond white muses named axel(le) is just icing on the cake

I'm sorry but who is Ariel? Is that another rper that believes in reverse racism? Trust me I have full body cringe at that as well. And well... of course they do.

[clvwnery]

oh, this one i can easily answer. ariel is an mgk stan who has a preferred character like cody named axel jameson, exclusively played white muses in every rp i've seen her join and was the person who infamously complained about a comment involving white people not seasoning their food in an rp i mentioned further down on this blog.

i wish i was kidding about all of the above.

[ghostlytalkin]

Hi! So I'm someone who adminned a group that ash joined. We called her out on her ignoring POC characters and she said that she felt pressured to interact with POC characters and she "talks to blacks in the group chat"

What the fuck? That... that is so racist that I am stunned. What the hell Ash? Mixed with the things I got told already adding this to the list. That's so fucked up

[clvwnery]

i audibly gasped reading this.

[stormscbrewing]

Where have you been Cody?

Well. If I were to put it in short answers, strictly discord. But there are answers as to why I've mostly or completely reverted to discord roleplay. I've been writing on tumblr since 2015, and what I've seen from the community this year is one thing: toxicity in several forms.

A) The return of elitist, snobby writers.

B) A lack of communication result in soft and/or hard blocks.

C) A LACK OF RESPECT FOR AUTISTIC WRITERS IN THIS COMMUNITY!!!!

When will you return?

I don't know. I don't think I want to in regards to several people I've dealt with in the community this year. In case you're wondering, no, it's not you. Those people don't even follow me/blocked me. Why? Your guess is as good as mine. The biggest issue here is lack of communication. Being autistic and a writer in this community is hard. We don't get context. We don't know when we have crossed social boundaries. That's an issue we can't compute often at times, which is why I and other writers have asked people SPECIFICALLY in our rules to tell us if we have. Some of those people pushed us away. Some of those chose not to follow those rules, which frankly, I'm at a point where I'd call it ableist behavior. If you don't like us? That's your issue. But we have rights just as anyone else in this community, and we deserved to be treated with the same respect and dignity. Anyone who doesn't show us that courtesy doesn't belong here, and I could name a few people who haven't.

But I won't. I don't want to fight. I as a disabled individual would like two things, that are basic human decency: respect and accomodations. You are obviously not required to accommodate me for my disability, but it would be nice if you were just honest. We're on the spectrum. We hyperfocus and get excited about things we love really easily. It's not our intention to overwhelm you, but if we are, make it clear. Some of us don't know social boundaries.

I'll repeat it again.

SOME OF US DON'T KNOW SOCIAL BOUNDARIES!!!

I hope that I've made my point clear. As I mentioned before, it's not my intention to upset anyone. I just want this place to be a place of love and acceptance. I've said what I needed to say.

[transxual]

proof cody has been at this for ages and refuses to take accountability for his actions....

[ghostlytalkin]

Here is a list I've complied of Cody-Ben issues for anybody confused, also to answer a ton of the asks in my inbox, also collected from anons on @rpsense (which they are lovely I adore them go look at them)

Likes to harass women or female looking people.

Low/high key, made a fetishizing comments about muns to said muns

He plays one character primarily which is Ben Winters, Dylan O'brien fc. Ben is the worse, very much has main character syndrome.

He has to be involved in any major plot or be the center of attention. Throws a fit if somebody doesn't like him.

Tricks people into joining servers under the guise of them plotting for whatever group. Once in the server starts pressuring them about doing 1x1 plots and gets upset when they don't want to do it

Always does body switching plots. Which can be fun but then expects that the characters fuck

Doesn't take no for an answer, and bullies to get his way

Uses his autism as an excuse when people confront him about being uncomfortable with his actions.

Has lied and called people ableist for confronting him. Even those that are also neurodivergent

He hides behind being autistic to get away with things

Gets mad at people for playing autistic characters, especially if they are women

Believes that all female characters want to fuck Ben winters

Serial harasser of muns, muses, and the works that present as fem.

Had some weird ass competition with male muses and curses them for "starting shit" when he wasn't doing anything

Just really skeezy and likes to harass fem looking people and muses

Throws a fit if Dylan O'brien isn't allowed in groups and also will try and force people out if somebody else is playing him

Acts like this character is the most powerful and desirable, gets upset if he's not

Told a mun that he wishes he was a woman so he could date and fuck their female muse

Asked a lesbian character if he was the exception to her not saying men. Didn't see a problem with it when it was pointed out that wasn't cool

When a character expressed she wasn't interested in Ben, he made a text thread flirting with her. Then when that didn't work thought it was a good idea for Ben to break into her house and make her dinner from her groceries. Again, saw no problem with it and thought it was a romantic gesture

Got angry with a character saying that she and Ben were dating. Threw a massive fit about people knowing for literally no reason. Jokes on them both characters suck and the girl was a copied character

(ALLEGEDLY) Sent confessions about Ben in servers confessions channels then got confused, upset, annoyed, Ben was mentioned (actually I remember seeing him botch a confession about ben once and he posted it without confessions. He disappeared offline for three days)

Tried to take over an event in a group to make Ben the center of attention, was told no, tried anyways

Went on snapchat and burned a picture of a girl, cursing about her because she rejected him

A manipulative, controlling edgelord that expects people to bend backwards for him

Hides behind his autism to escape being held responsible. Making it seem like those with autism don't understand or care about boundaries and will disrespect them

Complains nonstop if you are even slightly snarky towards cody ben. If you play a man character like I do expect to be complained about and told to be nice

Joins and ghosts servers until an event or he wants attention. Directs convo to him each time

Cannot take no for an answer, EVER

[ghostlytalkin]

Adding more cause some people came forward:

Was in a supernatural group and Ben nearly killed a werewolf by stabbing them with a silver blade. Group was not pleased, Was gonna have him on trial and Cody 10/10 was not a fan and wanted people to see his human side and tried to justify what he did

Uses objectifying language of women

If you've shipped with him then he feels entitled to that character in all future groups. And if they are with somebody else expect Ben to be passive aggressive about it

Possessive over characters, as in "this is mine and nobody else touch."

[clvwnery]

the collective trauma of the rpc regarding cody and his self-insert ben winters shouldn't have taken so long to come to light, if i'm being honest. it's a bonus that some of his rp friends and other weirdos are also being exposed, though, because these morons make me sick.

[clvwnery]

i see transphobia and outdated perceptions of homosexuality are alive and well with an aptly named blog, i find it curious how they seem to get the same two or three anons sending complaints to their inbox and think it makes their terrible opinions gospel. my personal favorite is them thinking lesbian = "biological women" only, your cyst het badge is showing

[rpclowns]

watched an entire group get demolished for "transphobia" because a character said lesbians don't like dick.

the wonderful aftermath of adding 47373838 letters to the lgbt group because everyone needs to feel special and unique and wonderful and beautiful and biological men feel entitled to women in every space even if those women only desire other biological women 🫠 my heart goes out to all lesbians right now, for real

[takeshelters-deactivated2023072]

trans women are women ! lesbianism has and always will be inclusive of trans women ! to say that lesbians don't like dick is a gross misrepresentation and generalization but of course i wouldn't expect an internet edgelord calling people "socially autistic" to have the critical thinking skills to understand that. i hope you die 💖💖💖

[rpclowns]

of course someone with zero socialization skills would think i’m sending this content to myself lmao. news flash, not everyone thinks and believes the same as you. the level of mental illness you’d have to have to genuinely believe lesbians “like dick” is just….wow, good luck to you. the “most tolerant and accepting group” is back at it again with the death threats 🥰 get well soon, lesbians don’t want your crusty, dusty dick lmao

[transxual]

hi. i recognise you’re a troll account so this will do little to deter you, but first and foremost, it is crucial to recognize that gender identity is deeply personal and profoundly affects an individual's sense of self. transgender women are women, regardless of the sex they were assigned at birth. their gender identity aligns with their innermost sense of being, and denying their womanhood undermines their experiences, struggles, and achievements.

lesbianism, like any sexual orientation, is based on emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attraction to others. it is not solely defined by specific body parts or genitalia. attraction and love are complex, multi-faceted aspects of human relationships that go beyond physical characteristics. just as a cisgender woman can be a lesbian, so too can a transgender woman. their identity and attraction should be respected.

it is worth noting that countless lesbian individuals and organisations have voiced support for transgender women, recognizing their experiences and contributions. you dismissing their identity neither detracts nor adds to the validity of the lived experiences of trans people.

tl;dr, you are either woefully uninformed on this topic.

[clvwnery]

PSA

until tumblr takes action, block and report qwnmv for leaking private information immediately.

these transphobes aren't above the harshest displays of online harassment and don't deserve mercy.

update: tumblr already handled the matter, but knowing these people are capable of legitimate doxxing, definitely keep an eye out for similar posts from bullshit accounts.

[clvwnery]

i know one of you bastards didn't just dox someone. actually dox them on your troll alts vs someone posting your discord screen name.

get.

fucked.

[ghostlytalkin]

I'm willing to bet you're the one who has been sending threatening anons to everyone to make it look like the elysium people are doing it. The text patterns match and you were a witch blog until this happened and now you're having fun getting attention and stirring the pot.

I'd never send death threats or threatening anons to anybody. I've never seen the point, if I don't like you I'll tell you. I actually have massive respect for Neo even before this having been in rps with him and his amazing characters. And Bien because it takes a lot to come forward about shitty people fuckin you over. And tbh, yeah it was but I switch up my blogs a lot, my og blog changed so many times over the years. And my text pattern isn't unique???

If any anons I send its loving ones or I've sent stuff to rpsense as well.

Elysium people are shitty, fact. I've personally seen Ari go off about people leaving her rps and acting psycho. But you know you're sounding like an Elysium person, sus af.

I'm having fun sure, stirring the pot? Yeahhhh seems that way. Tbh, wasn't expecting the attention but I've got it and I'm sure it'll fade away. Much like the Elysium crew from the rp community <3

[clvwnery]

a bold accusation coming from a troll when they're also typing like the other anons. and i'm sorry, but the "witch blog" point was supposed to do... what, exactly?

people already believe you over any of these scorned admins typing furiously in a dark room, they're just giving you more content at their own expense lol.

[clvwnery]

i'm still laughing at the transphobes' definition of doxxing, they obviously haven't been formally dialed into the discord rpc to know that still sending hate further seals their fate.

[clvwnery]

can you link the callout you're talking about? i don't see it.

for the unseasoned food comments? right here bestie

[clvwnery]

re: visitelysium & rebrandedfm

there isn't much that i can speak on that hasn't already been said regarding elysium, nor do i want to speak over the discussions surrounding transphobia and diversity as that is a priority right now, however i've seen and heard comments regarding the problematic nature of the admins and figured i could speak on my experience with one in particular from last year. seeing someone state that of course the admins wouldn't magically become better in the course of a few short months reminded me that, in instances even before elysium 1.0 existed, there were rancid vibes surrounding admin ari in january of 2022 with a discord rp called rebrandedfm.

reminder: i do not want to distract from the conversation about transphobia, especially towards trans poc, especially as the hateful rhetoric isn't slowing down. this is simply to show the character of one of the admins in a past admin role for intolerable behaviors allowed in another group.

rebrandedfm was a reality tv group set at a rehab facility or villa of sorts, focused upon celebrities and influencers in a variety of scandals that, from what i remember as a former member, were largely about their attitude (sometimes while under the influence) damaging their reputation. before my departure which will be explained shortly, they had already been in hot water due to the removal of two muns for comments regarding (and i wish i was joking) white people not seasoning their food. this was done while the number of muses of color were outranked by white muses, but i'll break down those stats in a moment. if you search for the group, screenshots of this issue are still posted in at least one call-out so you can see for yourself.

one reason for my departure, which also was mentioned in the tags at the time (though there is no mention of it when searching now), was the allowance of a physically abusive muse (with an xavier serrano fc, are you starting to see a pattern too?) into the group and that mun's history of their muses being generally gross to women. mind you, i haven't seen this mun for some time and do not know if they still go by gaya, however i still have a copy of their google doc for this muse that i can share if necessary and i discussed this with a friend when i took notice of this.

similarly, a diversity rule - or just a clear stance on diversity - was nonexistent until i was taking my leave, and it was established after someone had already taken up three muses who were all white. at the time i left, i and others took note of the following:

then comes the diversity rule being implemented the day i left:

the admin i spoke to? ari, who went by a different alias as not one of the muns on the taken list a year on has her name:

note: i have her muse's name blocked as this is a different group from elysium and, frankly, the muns there shouldn't be dragged into elysium's mess.

this is excluding instances of exclusion by the admins and their inner circle towards other members, mostly because i don't have screenshots to back it up despite this obviously being a pattern. 16 months later and she's caught up in another group where derogatory behavior, favoritism, questionable diversity rules and misogyny still exist, but she added another despicable trait to her resume: transphobe apologist, if not a full-blown transphobe. she didn't just learn nothing from elysium 1.0, she learned nothing from rebrandedfm and that is why she has yet to take proper accountability in these instances.