Welcome to my corner of the internet. I'm sure you are dying to get some details, but first some boundary setting.
This is an 18+, often NSFW, blog. If you are a minor, please make your way out, or silently lurk, your active participation in this blog is inappropriate.
I welcome asks, comments, reblogs, and messages. Be respectful and things will go along swimmingly. If you are rude or presumptuous I will post our interactions for all of Tumblr to see, so behave.
This is my place to explore things that bring me pleasure. Things that bring me joy. That brew in my brain until perfect. A place to explore myself while being open and vulnerable to help others discover themselves.
Now for the juicy bits. I am a kick ass relationship & intimacy coach. I help people learn to embrace their authentic selves to build deeper more meaningful relationships and sex lives. I'm a sex and alternative lifestyle educator as well as an intuitive healer. I believe that knowledge is power, and self knowledge is the pinnacle of that. I believe pleasure, love, and connection all come down to knowing who you are, what you want, and how to express that in the world.
I'm a 36 (2022) year old cisfemale. Pansexual and polyamorous. I'm a parent of two. My eldest is trans. I've been out in the LGBTQIA+ community for 22 years. For my witchy/ metaphysical folx I am an intuitive healer, reiki amature, experienced tarot reader, and energy enthusiast. Gemini sun, scorpio moon, sag ascendent. Black lives matter. Humanist/Feminist. Hippy/witchy adjacent. I am a giant nerdy geeky human. My nerddom spans many genres, areas of life, and intensities.
As far as the bd/sm lifestyle goes I am happily owned by my Master (@welcometomyoubliette), extend your respect accordingly. I identify as a sub heavy switch. That means that I rarely Top unless your energy calls to me in that way. As an educator I teach on anything from body basics, to deep dark S&M play. I've been in the lifestyle for more than 10 years, and active in the community for about 10. I am a tumblr veteran, but lost access to my previous account. You may recognize posts from @colormecurvy, she is me.
There is your little taste of me. Please do savor it. Feel free to come back often, and to interact to your hearts desire!
I hope everyone who had a very specific fetish before they even knew what sex was has a very good day. The isolation you embody as a child because of some innate sense that there's something in you that is Wrong and Gross and Different is deeply traumatizing but I promise you are a full human being deserving of love, healing, and happiness.
having a best friend who meets your level of freak is unmatched. you present them with the most unhinged, deeply buried thought from the depths of your psyche and instead of blinking blankly they just go "oh absolutely"—and I think that mutual brain rot like that is the highest form of intimacy actually.
