Right, here’s just a little something about personal safety if approached by strangers. I’ll be the first to tell you that most of the strangers you come across day-to-day will be perfectly nice, kind and friendly. Every now and then, however, there’s going to one who just isn’t.
So, let’s go over the basics that every one already knows:
Don’t get into any vehicle with someone you don’t know — and if they even bother with the line “I’ve told you my name, we’re not strangers now,” feel free to roll your eyes before walking away.
Don’t accept drinks from people you don’t know.
When you’re out, don’t leave your drink unattended…and if you do, don’t drink it when you return to your table. Get a fresh one.
Don’t wander through empty or concealed areas while out walking (we’re talking alleys, parks, railways or abandoned housing).
Oh, and the most common one from the USA: “Don’t be takin’ candy from no strangers”.
There’s a few things, though, that people don’t always tell you:
Don’t walk with your head down. It gives the impression that you’re cowed; of vulnerability and it communicates to other people that you’re scared. Try to keep your head raised enough that you can scan the horizon for any oncoming issues.
If you think someone’s following you, don’t give in to the urge to peek quickly over your shoulder. Actually turn around and give them a good look; it gives you more details about them and gives them the message that you’re not afraid.
Don’t give out personal details.
Seriously. You’d be amazed at the number of people who think nothing of asking a stranger if they live alone. As far as any stranger is concerned, you have at least one roommate.
Make sure your answering machine or voicemail message is recorded by a male (human or robot, it matters not).
If your home has a secure door entry always make sure it closes behind you, whether you’re coming in or going out. Take the extra second to ensure it’s secure.
Keep your spare change in a separate pocket. If you decide to give money to someone in the street, do not open your purse/wallet in front of them.
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