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How to be a fantastic housewife to your husband and make him feel cherished & loved

Taking good care of your husband as a housewife is so important! Not only does paying attention to your relationship strengthen your marriage, but making your husband happy is something that’s going to make you feel fabulous too. There’s nothing I love more than making my man feel loved and cherished, and it brings me great joy!

It goes without saying that healthy relationships are a two way street and your husband should be caring for you too, both emotionally and physically.

Whether you’re married or not, these tips can apply to anyone in any sort of relationship on how to make their partner feel cared for and cherished.

#1. Feed him!

You’re probably thinking, well duh! The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well this may not be entirely true, but it does make a man feel appreciated and loved to have a woman he loves cook for him. Prepare his favorite meals often and try to have something good for him on the table when he returns home from work. Bonus points if you’re wearing a cute vintage dress and apron while cooking for him. Extra bonus points if you make him a meal from a family recipe that he grew up with.

#2. Surprise him with meals

Men love to know you appreciate them and are thinking about them. Surprise him by bringing him a home-made lunch to work, slipping his favorite dessert or candy in his lunch or bring him a cup of his favorite coffee or tea. Pick up his favorite take-out for dinner when he arrives home or surprise him with a meal theme night of his favorite type of food.

#3. Appreciate him

Let him KNOW he’s appreciated! Be sincerely thankful and appreciative of all that he does for your family and let him know often. Thank him for all his hard work and compliment him on the things he’s good at. Tell him what an amazing father and husband he is and thank him for the blessings he brings to your life.

#4. Dress up for him

Take extra time in your day to dress up for your man in dresses you know he loves and appreciates. Pay a little more attention to your hair and makeup. Change your clothes daily and make sure you are fresh and showered. Valuing yourself, and taking care of yourself is so important and men appreciate a woman who takes time out of her day to look her best for him. There’s nothing better then coming home to a beautiful woman who adores you. Bonus points if he comes home to you in his favorite t-shirt or apron... and nothing else.

#5. Support his friendships

Give him time to himself to unwind and spend time with his friends. Support his friendships by offering hospitality to them and supporting their hobbies together. For example; On a Super Bowl night you can host gatherings with his friends and provide delicious snacks and drinks for them. Then hang back and give them space to spend quality time together.

#6. Plan regular dates

Surprise him with a years worth of planned dates and spend quality time with him often. Plan at home date nights and watch movies or binge watch a TV series together. Take walks and hikes together and hold his hand or wrap your arm around his. Play board games together, or plan a surprise day that he would love. Make sure you unplug and put your phone down during your dates to give him your complete attention.

#7. Greet him!

When he comes home from a long day at work, greet him at the door to take his jacket and belongings and be genuinely happy to see him. Surprise him with an unexpected passionate kiss, and offer him a drink or have a pot of coffee ready for him when he comes home. Depending on his line of work, you could also have a bath and fresh clothes ready for him to come home to.

#8. Pray for him

Pray for your husband or partner every day! Believe in him and encourage him always, even when it may be difficult to do so. Make him a top priority in your prayers and in your days.

#9. Take care of his body

Let him know you care for him by cherishing his body as well as his mind. Surprise him with a nice shoulder or neck massage after work or on a car ride. Run your hands through his hair and stroke the sides of his face. Hold his hand in the car and massage his fingers and hands. Give him a head rub when he’s relaxing with you or massage his feet with oil or lotion and make him feel genuinely appreciated. Kiss him when he leaves for work and when he arrives home and never underestimate the power of a warm full body contact hug.

#10. Family first

It goes without saying that one of the most attractive things to a man is taking excellent care of his family and children. Make the time to get to know his family as well and get along with them. Invite his family to your home often and encourage relationships with his family and friends. Surprise him with a framed family photo that he can use at his office or workplace.

#11. Create a morning routine

Get up earlier then your man so you can freshen up and look your best for him. Put on a pot of coffee and have it ready for when he wakes up. Set out his vitamins for him and consider surprising him with a gift like a monthly subscription to The Dollar Shave Club so his mornings go more smoothly as he heads to work. Greet him with a kiss and kind words when he wakes up and ask him if he needs help with anything. Pack a lunch for him and have a healthy breakfast for him that he can eat at home or take on the go if he’s in a rush.

#12. Create an evening routine

Make an evening ritual for the two of you that you’ll both come to look forward to and enjoy. Always go to bed together and wear things that you know he’ll enjoy. Read in bed together from one of his favorite books or a book you decide on together and read to him, or watch a TV show you both enjoy together before bed. Make your bed everyday and change the bedding often so it’s always fresh and inviting for you both. Set out cups of water on your bedtime table and any medications for the morning.

#13. Think about him

Let him know you’re thinking of him by sending him an encouraging text during his work day or a funny joke/meme to get him laughing. Slip a cute little note in his lunch or jacket pocket and write him a love letter for a special occasion. Make him a custom playlist for his drives to work and call him sometimes just to say hi and let him know he’s on your mind. Surprise him with a super sexy text (bonus for photos) during his work day and actually follow through when he gets home.

#14. Trust him

Let him know you genuinely trust him by asking for his advice and actually taking it. Ask him to teach you something he’s knowledgeable and good at and give him your complete attention. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and trust his leadership in your home. Believe in him and encourage him always. Be there for him and always listen to him, especially when he’s particularly stressed. He will appreciate it and feel like a true priority in your life.

#15. Save money

Men absolutely love a woman that knows how to be thrifty and save money. Take the time to sit down and budget together as a couple and create a savings plan for a vacation together or something exciting you can both work towards. Shop frugally and live minimally to save your money and consider learning a new skill that will help you save money in your daily life.

#16. Take care of your home

Keep a clean, tidy and organized home! There is nothing worse then coming home after a long day to a mess or chaos. Make your home into an inviting, warm haven for you both, where you can relax and enjoy the time you have together. Create a cleaning and laundry schedule that works for you and make sure he always has fresh clean clothes for his workday.

#17. Let others know

Never compare your man to others and let him and others know how attractive he is to you. Slip in casual humble brags about him and build him up in front of other people. Tell your friends and family how amazing he is and how much you love him. This will make him feel so incredibly valued. Flirt with him often, both publicly and privately and display small affections. Do NOT overdo social media posts and tagging, a simple photo of the two of you every once in awhile will more than suffice. When a couple is truly happy and in love, they do not need to prove it to the world. Your friend and family circle is far more important.

#18. Help him

You should be your man’s best friend. You are in a partnership and you should treat it that way! Help him work towards his goals and dreams, and always ask what you can do to make things easier or better for him. Get a gym membership and work out together to keep yourselves healthy and fit. Take care of things he might be dreading and help him with his household chores like yard work or garbage.

#19. Laugh!!

There is no better medicine then laughter and this is especially true in relationships. Try to find the humor and brighter side of any situation you’re in and laugh with your husband often. Share private jokes and get to know his sense of humor and what will bring a smile to his face. Send him things that you know would make him laugh or smile, and do things together that will encourage laughter and playfulness.

#20. Be yourself

There is nothing more unappealing then someone who is fake or pretending to be something they’re not. Be YOURSELF, because he loves you and let him know you love him just the way he is too.

©️The Best Me 👑 Mrs Perkett

subfemthingsss

Wow so many things to remember and work on as a future bimbo wife 💕

mindless-toy2-deactivated202304

♥️ Reblog and follow to see me uncensored ♥️

romanianbimbo

Task:

For 7 days from the acceptance of this challenge by your followers you must suck off 1 man per day. Letting him cum in your mouth and swallowing it.

You will go to a bar outside of your local area dressed in a tight short dress and heels. Nothing else.

You will edge but not cum at least once before you get to the bar, once in the bar and once after.

The Challenge:

Day 1 you can pick any man you like.

But for every day after you must pick another man at least 5 years older than the previous man. You can only ask his age after hes cum in your mouth.

If he is younger than the previous mans age+ 5 years you fail.

If you cum during the week you fail.

Punishment:

If at any point you fail you will stop edging until youve been fucked in the arse by 7 men. And each day you will give your cunt 200 slaps. You will go out and offer men of any age a blowjob or your asshole. Not your cunt.

If you want me to perform this challenge please like or reblog this post.

More info: Free use slut challenge

Follow @romanianbimbo

controlyou1st

I wonder how old a man you will get to. I would say even if you fail you still have to continue with the task as well as doing the punishment.

deniedpet

My task for you.

Put your tack bra on.

Put numbing cream on your cunt

Put your Dolce in your ass and turn it up.

Stuff used panties in your mouth.

Lay on your back on the floor and hump the air like the pathetic anal only edge slut that you are.

Use your hands to press and slap your udders.

Just completed this task and the person who sent it in knows quite well how it went - amazing. There was a lot to this task and that was really nice. My uddees hurt so nicely right now. The tacks did their job and when they didn't then my slaps or my woeght on them did the rest. It was great. The numbing cream made it a bit more frustrating and allowed me to focus more on important features like my better hole and my udders. And my mindset was largely influenced by the humping... humping air, feeling even less than I normally do as Miss used the dolce in my ass. Thank you so much Miss! 🥵🥺🙈☺

ultrafacts

Source

hellkatsally

These dudes are fucking legit. They don’t just show up one day in court, either, they actually make friends with the kids and let them know they have a support system and that there are people in the world who care about them and will always have their back. And less important, but also cool, is that the few times a couple of them have come into my cafe, they’ve been super friendly and polite and when I told one of the guys that I noticed his Bikers Against Child Abuse patch and wanted him to know how awesome I thought he was because of it, he got kind of shy and blushed and said, “The kids are the awesome ones, we just let them know they’re allowed to be brave.”

bebinn

The source is long, but so, so good. These men and women are available in 36 states, 24 hours a day to stand guard at home, in court, at school, even if the child has a nightmare. Many of them are survivors of childhood abuse as well, and know what it’s like to feel scared and alone.

In court that day, the judge asked the boy, “Are you afraid?” No, the boy said.

Pipes says the judge seemed surprised, and asked, “Why not?”

The boy glanced at Pipes and the other bikers sitting in the front row, two more standing on each side of the courtroom door, and told the judge, “Because my friends are scarier than he is.”

lesbian-moon-gf

Actual tears.. hnngh

bee-whistler

Show me more of people like this, world. I give up on humans too easily.

groovypirate

where do i sign up for this,i want to be in this gang

ultrafacts

haydengisearchive-deactivated20

This is fucking amazing. It may be out of character for me to say this but rock on

clatterbane

Bikers Against Child Abuse was founded in 1995 by a Native American child psychologist whose ride name is Chief, when he came across a young boy who had been subjected to extreme abuse and was too afraid to leave his house. He called the boy to reach out to him, but the only thing that seemed to interest the child was Chief’s bike. Soon, some 20 bikers went to the boy’s neighborhood and were able to draw him out of his house for the first time in weeks.

Chief’s thesis was that a child who has been abused by an adult can benefit psychologically from the presence of even more intimidating adults that they know are on their side. “When we tell a child they don’t have to be afraid, they believe us,” Arizona biker Pipes told azcentral.com. “When we tell them we will be there for them, they believe us.” ( Article)

More about BACA, from their site

uriesays

My parents are a part of this organization and they are metal af

They go on runs to protect the child if they feel even the slightest threatened no matter where. If the child needs them to go on vacation with them, they do. Bikers come from across the nation to watch over and take shifts for these kids. And the best part is once you’re adopted into this family as a BACA kid, you’re always one. Even when you’re 40 and the perp gets released from jail, they’ll come meet with you and find your best options for avoiding the person and maintaining the life you’ve built for yourself. Once a BACA child, always a BACA child. In Florida, there’s 100% rate for identifying the perp based on the child’s testimony. Why? Because BACA stands with the child and supports the child so they feel comfortable enough to point out their attacker.

What’s better than a badass biker gang being on your side???

kikithegirl

NATIVE AMERICAN CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST WHO IS A BIKER AND NAMED HIMSELF CHIEF HELL YES I’M HERE FOR THAT AND BIKERS BEING BAD ASS TO PROTECT KIDS. HELL YEAH.

birdungehrl

it’s back! I will always reblog BACA

your-uncle-dave

Damn good people.

rowsdower-saves-us

I know they wouldn’t consider themselves such, but these people are freaking heroes and the world is a better place because of them.

racethewind10

Hey folks, it talks about this in the article but its not mentioned in this post, BACA is a 501 © (3) charity that depends in part on donations to help pay for stuff like gas for their bikes. If you want to help, consider donating.

drgaellon

@copperbadge You like posting about heroes, Sam. Seems like this would be up your alley.

copperbadge

I love these folks! I’ve reblogged them before but it’s wonderful to see the donation information has been added.

galaxy-of-stories

Always reblog. Keep doing what you’re doing y'all.

hurtlittleboy

Guys? This post changed my life. I saw this post. Forever ago. And thought it was only in america… and wished desperately that they could help me. But then I saw it again, during a bad episode, and checked their site. They aren’t just in the USA

They’re in Canada as well and probably other countries. I met and talked with a native guy who runs the place near me. His name is Shaman. I got in, and I’m considered a BACA child now. Despite being 17, turning 18 when I talked to them. They spent time with me when my abuser was over, they gave me therapy resources. They give you something called a ‘level 1′ where they go to your house with as many bikers as they can, i shit you not a solid 20-40 bikers came from even out of province, and met me. I got to choose my biker name and I got a vest with patches on it and my name on it. They all hugged a Teddybear before giving it to me, and told me if I ever felt the BACA bear was running out of love, to give them a call and they’d refill it for me, and then I got a ride on one of their bikes. Just a day or so ago I went to an annual party with them and they we ate food one of them cooked and had a lot of laughs.

I’ve never felt as loved as I did being a part of the BACA family. They also gave me dog tags with the names, and phone numbers of my 2 workers. So I can call them whenever I feel scared.

BACA is an absolutely wonderful group that will do everything in it’s power to help any child whos been abused.

And it doesn’t end when you’re 18 either. As long as you get in contact/get your level 1 before you’re 18? you’re ALWAYS a BACA kid. I’m 18 now and they still invite me to parties, ask me if I’m okay, and are there for me. They’re still trying to find me resources for therapy.

BACA has changed my fucking life.

I hope you all can read this, and reblog it knowing from someone who fucking been with them, that they are absolutely amazing.

feanor-the-dragon

If I ever don’t reblog this, it’s because I am physically being restrained against my will.

gasdiver2

Supporting your local hero’s.

darkangelfoundmyway-069

FUCKEN AMAZING what these Bikers do!!!! This is why I don’t give up on humanity…

💞🖤💞 Carpe Diem 💞🖤💞

instructor144

pottercastleminds

Links the International BACA Chapters:

United States

Canada

Australia

Belgium

Denmark

Germany

Spain

France

Italy

Netherlands

Iceland

Austria

Greece

New Zealand

Portugal

Sweden

United Kingdom

Switzerland

B.A.C.A’s Byline: “Keepers of the Children.” B.A.C.A.’s Motto: “No child deserves to live in fear.”

Not all heroes wear capes, some wear biker vests.

humanjoy

Had seen this before, but never realised that this is on an international level - there’s even a contact address close to where I live (in Germany), very cool (though hoping the only use I’ll ever have to make of it is for donations) ❤

sug4rplumfairy-deactivated20240

i am that type of girl who sends you porn i like while having dinner with my family

controlyou1st

Now that sounds like fun

tightshinemodels

another-asian-4-white-deactivat

Girls are made to be able to be sexually pleasing to men. Our bodies are designed to give great pleasure. We should not be ashamed of that. If I can make a man happy using my body and giving him great sexual pleasure, what better thing could i do? What better thing could any girl do? Men are smart and they don’t need our help with that, but we can be sexual and make a man happy, there is nothing else really we need to do

controlyou1st

This is so true

o-1968

REBLOG IF YOU LOVE “STORY OF O.”

controlyou1st

Great story

veronicathegoddess

i want you to show off how obedient i am to all of your friends. invite them over and make me sit in the middle of them. let them grope my tits and run their hands all over my body. when i don't complain, tell them to continue. let them flip up my skirt, push my panties to the side and slip their fingers inside of me. let them to shove their cocks inside my mouth and watch how i suck them until they cum because i know it's what you want. let them use all my holes however they want because you know i'll never say no cause i want to be a good girl for you.

controlyou1st

Would be more fun to invite your friends to let them see what you have become.

o-1968

REBLOG IF YOU ARE A FAN OF STORY OF O

dominantlife

If I can get an adult version of something kinda like Tumblr up and running, would you guys be interested?

Mostly same features but with extra features like…

No bullying.

No kids.

No one under 18.

Stronger blocking tools.

All the female associated nipples you can handle.

Please let me know and PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD!!!

ultrafacts

Source

hellkatsally

These dudes are fucking legit. They don’t just show up one day in court, either, they actually make friends with the kids and let them know they have a support system and that there are people in the world who care about them and will always have their back. And less important, but also cool, is that the few times a couple of them have come into my cafe, they’ve been super friendly and polite and when I told one of the guys that I noticed his Bikers Against Child Abuse patch and wanted him to know how awesome I thought he was because of it, he got kind of shy and blushed and said, “The kids are the awesome ones, we just let them know they’re allowed to be brave.”

bebinn

The source is long, but so, so good. These men and women are available in 36 states, 24 hours a day to stand guard at home, in court, at school, even if the child has a nightmare. Many of them are survivors of childhood abuse as well, and know what it’s like to feel scared and alone.

In court that day, the judge asked the boy, “Are you afraid?” No, the boy said.

Pipes says the judge seemed surprised, and asked, “Why not?”

The boy glanced at Pipes and the other bikers sitting in the front row, two more standing on each side of the courtroom door, and told the judge, “Because my friends are scarier than he is.”

lesbian-moon-gf

Actual tears.. hnngh

bee-whistler

Show me more of people like this, world. I give up on humans too easily.

groovypirate

where do i sign up for this,i want to be in this gang

ultrafacts

haydengisearchive-deactivated20

This is fucking amazing. It may be out of character for me to say this but rock on

clatterbane

Bikers Against Child Abuse was founded in 1995 by a Native American child psychologist whose ride name is Chief, when he came across a young boy who had been subjected to extreme abuse and was too afraid to leave his house. He called the boy to reach out to him, but the only thing that seemed to interest the child was Chief’s bike. Soon, some 20 bikers went to the boy’s neighborhood and were able to draw him out of his house for the first time in weeks.

Chief’s thesis was that a child who has been abused by an adult can benefit psychologically from the presence of even more intimidating adults that they know are on their side. “When we tell a child they don’t have to be afraid, they believe us,” Arizona biker Pipes told azcentral.com. “When we tell them we will be there for them, they believe us.” ( Article)

More about BACA, from their site

uriesays

My parents are a part of this organization and they are metal af

They go on runs to protect the child if they feel even the slightest threatened no matter where. If the child needs them to go on vacation with them, they do. Bikers come from across the nation to watch over and take shifts for these kids. And the best part is once you’re adopted into this family as a BACA kid, you’re always one. Even when you’re 40 and the perp gets released from jail, they’ll come meet with you and find your best options for avoiding the person and maintaining the life you’ve built for yourself. Once a BACA child, always a BACA child. In Florida, there’s 100% rate for identifying the perp based on the child’s testimony. Why? Because BACA stands with the child and supports the child so they feel comfortable enough to point out their attacker.

What’s better than a badass biker gang being on your side???

kikithegirl

NATIVE AMERICAN CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST WHO IS A BIKER AND NAMED HIMSELF CHIEF HELL YES I’M HERE FOR THAT AND BIKERS BEING BAD ASS TO PROTECT KIDS. HELL YEAH.

birdungehrl

it’s back! I will always reblog BACA

your-uncle-dave

Damn good people.

rowsdower-saves-us

I know they wouldn’t consider themselves such, but these people are freaking heroes and the world is a better place because of them.

racethewind10

Hey folks, it talks about this in the article but its not mentioned in this post, BACA is a 501 © (3) charity that depends in part on donations to help pay for stuff like gas for their bikes. If you want to help, consider donating.

drgaellon

@copperbadge You like posting about heroes, Sam. Seems like this would be up your alley.

copperbadge

I love these folks! I’ve reblogged them before but it’s wonderful to see the donation information has been added.

galaxy-of-stories

Always reblog. Keep doing what you’re doing y'all.

hurtlittleboy

Guys? This post changed my life. I saw this post. Forever ago. And thought it was only in america… and wished desperately that they could help me. But then I saw it again, during a bad episode, and checked their site. They aren’t just in the USA

They’re in Canada as well and probably other countries. I met and talked with a native guy who runs the place near me. His name is Shaman. I got in, and I’m considered a BACA child now. Despite being 17, turning 18 when I talked to them. They spent time with me when my abuser was over, they gave me therapy resources. They give you something called a ‘level 1′ where they go to your house with as many bikers as they can, i shit you not a solid 20-40 bikers came from even out of province, and met me. I got to choose my biker name and I got a vest with patches on it and my name on it. They all hugged a Teddybear before giving it to me, and told me if I ever felt the BACA bear was running out of love, to give them a call and they’d refill it for me, and then I got a ride on one of their bikes. Just a day or so ago I went to an annual party with them and they we ate food one of them cooked and had a lot of laughs.

I’ve never felt as loved as I did being a part of the BACA family. They also gave me dog tags with the names, and phone numbers of my 2 workers. So I can call them whenever I feel scared.

BACA is an absolutely wonderful group that will do everything in it’s power to help any child whos been abused.

And it doesn’t end when you’re 18 either. As long as you get in contact/get your level 1 before you’re 18? you’re ALWAYS a BACA kid. I’m 18 now and they still invite me to parties, ask me if I’m okay, and are there for me. They’re still trying to find me resources for therapy.

BACA has changed my fucking life.

I hope you all can read this, and reblog it knowing from someone who fucking been with them, that they are absolutely amazing.

bowtomypointlesswords

This is truly amazing, I’m so glad people like this exist

instructor144

This needs to be reblogged. Because.

mjaydziarand-deactivated2018121

Always reblog BACA.

macgyvershe

Signal Boosting because the world needs more biker angels.

lovetheirloves

I met one of these guys on a human sexuality panel recently. He’s currently getting his psychology degree so he can become a child advocate and work within the system to provide support for child victims. BACA is what made him decide to pursue this as a full-time career!

no-right-to-shoes

15 days.

Following up on my post from yesterday: it’s been 15 days into my edging-and-denial “challenge” that @trappedinnow has made me do.

She decided that I don’t deserve to cum yet :( and that the best way to see how much time I need to still spend without cumming is by asking you… which made me even more horny.

She got the idea from @hypnokittymaid (here is the original post). So, to extend my sentence, you can like, reblog or reply to this post. In this case, each counts only once since @trappedinnow decided to be merciful (thanks!)

Like: 3 hours Reply: 6 hours Reblog: 12 hours

no-right-to-shoes

17 days in. Yesterday, I was going to be allowed an orgasm in about a week’s time. Today, the release time moved to 3rd August :( I’m not sure I can handle that much!

controlyou1st

To make it more fun for you