The Need to Stay
(Thought I’d upload my recent comics to Tumblr! I totally forgot it only lets you upload 10 pics at a time, and this is 11, but fingers crossed it works!)
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The Need to Stay
(Thought I’d upload my recent comics to Tumblr! I totally forgot it only lets you upload 10 pics at a time, and this is 11, but fingers crossed it works!)
Lovely to see we have spaces where you can gain access to so much literature!
i'd also like to add on: the japan foundation
the queer liberation library (US only, doesn't verify your location however) literature translation institute of korea
I'm sure it's been added a million times, but that's not how you spell Gutenberg. Here's the correct link to Project Gutenberg: https://www.gutenberg.org/
What helped me write trauma better is remembering that the nervous system learns predictions. If danger used to come after quiet, calm can feel threatening. If kindness used to come with a price, kindness can feel suspicious. So healing is not just “they know they’re safe now.” Healing is the slow, annoying, deeply unfair process of teaching the body that the old prediction is not always the present truth.
There’s a liquor store near my house that seems to be run exclusively by frat boys. They lovingly curate these bags, which I browsed today while “Oops I Did It Again” played through the store speakers. This is art to me, there is beauty everywhere for those with eyes to see it
The update everyone has been waiting for….
everytime i see this it makes me want to buy from them exclusively
BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER | 1.11 “Out of Mind, Out of Sight”
#and if i said pride and prejudice 1st darcy confession scene #what then (tags via @figthefruitfaeth)
this is how new yorkers @ mamdani
IT’S LITERALLY HAPPENING LMAOOOOO
people reblogging this talking about the english language. fuck the english language. the fascinating thing here isn’t how you pronounce it, it’s his amazing teaching skills. monolingual people be quiet for once challenge
I really felt and shared her “Wow”
Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy being like, "I am 100% committed to respecting your 'no', but I heard you wouldn't promise my aunt not to marry me so I had to come and check just one (1) more time."
I feel like I am taking crazy pills
I designed a set of convertible floor cushions that turn into a footrest!
They can be buttoned together in a stack (footrest mode), buttoned together in a square (big floor cushion mode), or used individually (cushions mode).
I started off with this big 1-metre square foam floor cushion, which I liked but was hard to store when not in use.
I wanted to keep the option of a big floor cushion without it having to just lurk behind the sofa. At the same time, I wanted an extra footrest. So I decided to find a way to make the cushion convertible in some way.
For a while I toyed with having it fold up like a monopoly board. But I couldn't come up with a way to construct and secure the cover without bulky zips everywhere.
So then I considered just making four separate cushions that could be secured together in different configurations. For a while my best idea was to have something like a belt or strap, which could either go around the circumference of the 2x2 floor layout, or around the stack. But I didn't like the idea of having to deal with that band as a loose separate item.
@cassolotl had the genius idea to use loops to chain up the sides to keep the cushions together in a stack. I was doubtful at first because it didn't solve the problem of attaching them together in the floor layout. But then I figured out that adding buttons in the right place relative to the loops would make it possible to secure all three configurations. Which I'll demonstrate at the end of the post!
So the first step was cutting the big cushion down into four equal pieces. Well, the first-first step was trimming it down to clean up the section that was destroyed by my rabbit, who liked to burrow against the cushion and somehow managed to shred the foam *through* the cover.
I cut the foam with a hand saw, which was quite easy and satisfying.
Then making the cushion covers. I made strips of straight-cut binding and tucked loops into the corners while I sewed together the side pieces of the cover.
I decided to add piping to the top for aesthetics and structure. I've never done piping before but it wasn't too bad to get the hang of.
Because I dislike both zips and buttons (not specifically sewing with them, but just generally coming into contact with them in life) I decided not to bother making any closure on the underside of the cushions. Instead I just made the bottom piece of the cover in two triangles with a diagonal opening across the middle. A bit of strategic reinforcement stitching at the corners got the balance between making it possible to insert the cushions without the flaps flapping around too much.
Now for the details of the loop/button system. Each loop is positioned halfway up the height of the cover, at the corner. Each cover has two loops, at diagonally opposite corners. The loops extend 10cm, which is the exact thickness of the cushion foam.
Exactly 10cm to the right of each loop, I sewed on a big wooden button, also halfway up the height of the cushion.
For separate cushions mode, each loop is simply wrapped over its own neighbouring button to keep it from waving around or catching on things.
For big floor cushion mode, the cushions are butted together with their loop-corners touching each other around the perimeter of the square.
At each connection point, the loops from *both* cushions are wrapped around the button exposed on the perimeter. This holds all of the cushions together around the outside, and friction keeps them from slipping around in the middle.
For footrest mode, the loops are chained up through each other - the bottom cushion's loop is wrapped around the second cushion's loop, which wraps around the third cushion's loop, which wraps around the top loop.
Then, the top loop wraps around its own button to secure the chain.
I'm seriously SO proud of this system. It's so versatile and all three modes work perfectly!!!
rocky's crew dying from radiation exposure, something humans go to great lengths to prevent and are very scared of and grace's crew dying in their "sleep" with nobody watching, something eridians go to great lengths to prevent and are very scared of. cool book that is easy to read through your tears.
The Ojibwe nailed it. Wawa is exactly the right name for a goose.
Speaking of Ojibwe! There’s a new point and click game to help teach the language! It’s called Reclaim! Azhe-giiwewining, and is currently on sale on Steam!
person (non-practicing)
Oh sure I was raised a person but I haven't really connected to my personality in years.
So I got to see the Hadestown proshot with my partner and my BFF this weekend and one of the things that just kind of hit me like a ton of bricks was--
That the Fates might not be real.
Like, if you think about it a sec- Hades is unarguably real in the world of Hadestown. The story makes no sense if he's "just" a metaphor for death. He has to be a person that you can argue with and plead with and struggle against and maybe- just maybe- melt his heart. Same with Persephone- she has to be a real person who takes pity on Orpheus and Eurydice, goes to bat for them against her husband, has feelings and motivations about this whole mess.
But the thing the Fates do, within the story, is give voice to the characters' doubts, fears, guilt, and spite. When The Chips Are Down is as much Eurydice arguing with herself as it is the Fates bullying her with an accordion. Word to the Wise is as much Hades remembering that Orpheus is dangerous for his rule and he can't afford to be kind when he's been so cruel for so long. Nothing Ever Changes is Orpheus' despair. And of course, Doubt Comes In is exactly that.
The Fates do other stuff, but it's all stuff that could easily be read as a metaphor. It's bad luck that Eurydice's candle gets blown out, that the wind steals her jacket, and so on. There's a few points where they serve as a Greek chorus- Gone, I'm Gone being the big one. But there's no point where they talk to the other characters or have a human role to play in the story. There's no point at which Orpheus has to convince the Fates of anything.
And if you pick that apart, oh my god, does it play into the themes of the show so well.
In the world of Hadestown, Fate is your own blinkered worldview. It's your doubts, your fears, your petty human cruelty, your guilt, and your despair. If you can rise above that fear and that despair, you can change your fate. And Orpheus was able to, for a time.
The thing that makes this story a tragedy is that the characters weren't able to. Hades let his fear for the state of his kingdom take control of him, and Orpheus let his fear that Eurydice wouldn't be there make him look back. And there's a level on which this tragedy was inevitable. People are the products of their circumstances, and fear is a natural part of ~the human condition~- people are always gonna be scared of things and mess up because of it.
But if you can overcome that fear, if you can form a union!! connect with the people around you and grow stronger together, if you can believe in the people you love and the world that could be--
Maybe this time we can all get it right.
reblog if you too are bi and confused or support others’ right to be bi and confused
One of my favorite little bits in Hadestown is when Hades sings, "and I could use a canary" in "Hey, Little Songbird", because he sings it to Eurydice, but the thing is, female canaries don't really sing. They chirp and whistle, but its the male canaries that sing more elaborate melodies. So then, in "Way Down Hadestown Reprise" and "Flowers", when she's down in the mine, no one is listening to Eurydice (the female canary, down in the mine), but once Orpheus comes- Orpheus, who's gifted, who's touched by the gods themselves, who's a male canary in a mine- people hear and listen to him.
a fools guide to not wanting to die anymore
by me, a fool who doesnt wanna die anymore
never make a suicide joke again. yes this includes “i wanna die” as a figure of speech. swear off of it. actually make an effort to change how you think about things.
find something to compliment someone for at least 4 times a day. notice the little things about the world that make you happy, and use that to make other people happy.
talk to people. initiate conversation as often as you possibly can. keep your mind busy and you wont have to worry anymore
picture the bad intrusive thoughts in youe head as an edgy 13 year old and tell them to go be emo somewhere else
if someone makes you feel bad most of the time, stop talking to them. making yourself hang out with people who drain you is self harm. stop it.
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That’s some pretty good advice. I don’t know what’s left of my humor after ‘guess I’ll just die’ jokes but it’s worth a shot.
Personally i went from “guess I’ll die” jokes to “IF I HAVE TO BE HERE FOR 5 MORE MINUTES I PROMISE YOU I WILL BUY JUST, AN ARRAY OF CLOTHES.” and other wild hyperbolic stuff. Just replace the death part with something ridiculous and off topic. Its very entertaining
This also works with calling myself things like stupid, worthless, trash, etc. Even if you do this jokingly to yourself, your brain still believes it, and keeps up the cycle. Seriously, I found that when I stopped saying these things about myself, even jokingly, it made a massive difference.
Here’s a tip I picked up from a friend that’s helped me a lot — replace self deprecating jokes with ironically self aggrandizing jokes
Like every time I trip and fall, instead of saying “l’m just a disaster human” I say “I’m the epitome of grace and beauty”
Or like, when I draw a picture I’m not 100% happy with, instead of saying “my art is trash” I say something like “you know I think it’s time we replaced the Mona Lisa”
When you do that you get to make a joke, but you’re ALSO getting practice building yourself up, y’know?
And eventually it becomes a reflex and you get so used to it that you can say nice stuff about yourself even when you AREN’T joking
This is so important