A guy from 5 to 6 years ago approached me last night. He said things like girl, I missed you and how we used to call each other back then. He and I were friends.
He then told me he wants to take me out o a date, give me princess treatment and stuff like that. Which, was pretty sweet of him. I then told him, let's do it on my terms. To which he said, "Alright. What are your terms?" So I sent him this list:
1. We take our time and get to know each other properly.
2. No sexual calls, sexual videos, or anything like that while we're figuring things out.
3. Consistency matters more to me than words. I'd rather see effort over time than hear promises.
4. If we're serious about exploring this, we should be willing to eventually meet in person when the time is right.
5. I want honesty. If you're curious about me, interested in me, or change your mind, just be straightforward about it.
I feel like the terms were quiet doable (correct me if I'm wrong). He agreed to those terms. Continues going on about how it was such a shame that I'm still single. He also said, "Too bad, I was going to take you out and give you princess treatment."
To which I responded, "Bro, I've been single for two years now. I think I can survive without it." (Mind you I warned him before that, that I was going to be straightforward.)
The next morning, I woke up and he blocked me. My first reaction was, okay he probably couldn't keep to the terms so, it's a good thing. At same time, it hurt. It got me questioning myself this, if my terms are so low and easy to achieve, how am I still not lovable? Like, was I making it too hard for a guy to like me? (Keep in mind that I never did ask for money, expensive gifts, princess treatment, nothing. I'm too independent for that)
So that's my rant for today. Tell me your thoughts...
