[psikonauti]

Paco Pomet (Spanish, b. 1970)

Our Dusk, 2022

Oil and acrylic on canvas

[kitsunetsuki-deactivated2026051]

Masao Yamamoto - Nakazora #1139 (2002)

[nocturnalx8]

[ufansius]

Lampara de Mesa (Table Lamp) - Los Carpinteros (Alexandre Arrechea Jesus Zambrano, Marco Antonio Castillo Valdés, and Dagoberto Rodríguez Sánchez)

[erymanthian]

The ice palace from David Lean’s 1965 film, “Doctor Zhivago”

[portal2myfantasy]

currently experimenting with taking my orchids in with me when i shower/bathe (for Humidity&Companionship). it seems to make them happy…

[kimpauls]

___uncafe

[teammanchild]

So breathtaking

[holyfriend]

[dozydawn]

[matchagirl]

my room

[unusual-suspects]

[zegalba]

Ludwig Rösch: Stephansdom, Pilgrim's Pulpit (1936)

[gallarie]

pinterest

[huariqueje]

Unknown , Morning Coffee - Kaoru Yamada 

Japanese , b. 1975 -

[teaboot]

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

[teaboot]

Alternatives to experimenting on me like a lab rat when you suspect me of being inconsiderate:

"I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"

"I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."

"It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"

"I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"

"I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."

"When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."

"I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"

"I'm burnt out and need help."

"I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."

"Do you notice this?"

"Are you bothered by this?"

"I am bothered when this happens."

"X habit of yours bothers me."

"When X is like this, I feel bad. Can you [action] when you notice X?"

[hug-your-face]

[soulmaking]

Grietje Postma, 1992-I, woodcut