France. Lebanon. Iraq. Facebook.
Not many of you are going to like what I have to say, but I will say it. I am not here to argue or debate this, but welcome and acknowledge your points of difference, comments and opinions. Know from the outset I am reading them but will no longer engage.
Over the weekend we were all horrified to the attacks across the world by terrorists. Awful stuff. We all agree. Then something weird happened. Facebook activated their safety feature for Paris (only). They produced an overlay French flag (only) to allow people to update their profile pics. Western cities across the globe (mostly) started flying French flags lighting up their monuments in the tricolours of the French flag and news stations around the world dedicated 24 hour cycles of the attacks in Paris (mostly). Now here is where it got interesting. There was an outpouring of anger across the planet as to why western media or peoples were not dedicating monuments, news time, social media real estate to all countries outside of France. And to be frank, rightly so. I am 100% in agreement with a lot of this commentary. We are all in agreement that ALL terrorist attacks are equally horrifying.
Somehow from this – everyone started arguing, fighting and debating one another.
Mourning and grief are such deeply personal emotions, that it is from my perspective, very difficult to understand how two or more people would feel the exact same thing. Collectively we are sad, but your sadness is not the same as mine. It never will be. Some people’s sadness is reflective of their connection to the emotional event itself – over the weekend a lot more people felt more connected to Paris vs. anywhere in the Middle East because it is a place they have been / lived / experienced as opposed to countries like Syria or Lebanon of which all we know is what we hear on the news or through word of mouth. For me personally, someone with who’s family is a Christian minority deep within Iraq (Assyrian), I personally don’t know the Middle East – having lived in Australia – and western society all my life. Does that mean I feel any less for them or more for Parisians? No. If there was a Lebanese or Iraqi flag overlay would I put it on my profile? Absolutely.
Facebook took a step that I thought was interesting. They activated the ‘safety check’ feature for people in Paris, during the time of the terrorist attacks. Why was this not activated in the Middle East anywhere? Why choose a western society over others many asked? In Facebook’s defence, this feature has only ever been used for natural disasters. France was the first time it was used outside of a natural disaster. Facebook has recognised this and will now be using it for incidents outside natural disasters. But I guess that answers why. It was a first.
Facebook then took another interesting step of allowing people to update their profile pictures with an overlay of the French flag colours. Many people quickly adopted. As this happened, many others opposed. In one instance a well known blogger started calling readers ‘selective racists’ for adopting the French flag overlay. Others started calling for Facebook to build the Lebanese flag. Then the Syrian flag. Then the Kenyan flag. As mentioned, I am in agreement here – I think this was a mistake on Facebook’s behalf to build only one flag. It’s all or none here.
People didn’t have the option to choose anything more than the French flag, but the condemnation and judgement still came from others. Why not just let people be? Why not, allow people in a time of horror – feel as though they can connect globally with something, anything to help them process their own personal grief.
Recently Facebook added the LGBTIQ rainbow pride flag as an overlay and tens of millions around the world changed their profile. Yet, thinking like the above – we should have all been up in arms about overlaying the Trans* flag instead of the pride flag – as members of the Trans* community are many times worse off than LGB’s, as are middle-eastern people relative to Parisians when it comes to terrorism. Trans* people suffer higher suicide rates, higher unemployment, higher discrimination, higher violence, higher drug addictions – don’t get me wrong, I am in no way making comparisons of the LGBTIQ community with terrorists and the suffering they bring to many – rather just stating that when Facebook created their pride flag overlay – all those condemning Facebook for the French flag should have been beating their chest for the Trans* community. But we didn’t see that happen with the masses.
Coming back to the issue of terrorism. Let’s look at some data. For the period 2003 – 2015, here are the numbers of deceased due to terrorism related incidents (not counting the wounded):
France – 161+ deceased
Lebanon – 267 deceased
Iraq – 166,291 deceased
Note – I am not pitching these awful events against each other – each and everyone of these events is horrific, despicable and deplorable as any act of terrorism. There are many others, but I am highlighting these three in particular because for all those condemning others on Facebook for the Facebook French flag overlay not being a Lebanese flag, it sounds rather hypocritical that you would not choose to fight for the Iraqi flag instead. France is to Lebanon what Lebanon is to Iraq.
Someone asked me what I was doing about all of it myself yesterday, because I was calling people out on calling others ‘racists’. Many think pieces revolved around how we choose to concentrate on western societies and not others, yet for all the feelpinions none actually offered any solutions of links to how people could help.
Why not share articles of heroes from Lebanon like this man, who sacrificed himself to save many others?
Why not make your complaints about the safety feature directly to Facebook? They need this feedback to grow their products and tools
Why not hire a Facebook app developer or use an online tool to generate the flag of your choice, as I started to see people do?
Why not speak to your local member about your countries involvement in wars and economics with other nations?
Why not donate directly to charities to help civilians caught in these horrors? (France charities; Lebanon charities; Iraq charities; Syria charities to name a few)
The object of terrorism is to cause terror. Planes flying into buildings; bombs detonated in busy marketplace; mass shooting; missiles bringing passenger aircraft down; beheadings – the list goes on – we are terrified.
But we are not losing this war because of that. We are losing this war because ISIS and other terrorists now know how to divide us amongst each other. We reject refugees, our young men are detached from our societies so much they join the jihad and once friendly nations are on the brink of war with each other over this.At a time when we should all be united – we are fighting over Facebook profile pictures.
If only we could all see the world that Carl Sagan saw.











