welpppppp it’s been a year since me and my last serious relationship ended .. damn shit goes by fast lol. year reflection time :O
of course i was sad and shit, but i feel like i got over it pretty quickly? i think it’s because i was technically over the relationship a few months prior, but didn’t feel like i could break it off since we had a year lease we couldn’t break.
i feel like i haven’t really done anything “revolutionary” or “new” or “cool” in the past year, but i think it was good anyway
solo trip to taiwan/bali (was supposed to be w henry but i went anyway c: !!)
did a spartan race with coworkers
reconnected with old coworker who later became my bf.. :O
invested a LOT into this new relationship. we are the type that are good friends, but once in a relationship complete opposite.. im ENTJ, he’s ESFJ. im anxious attachment, hes avoidant attachment. im very verbally/physically affectionate, he isn’t at all. it has been very hard tbh, but i feel positive about how it’s going.
went to seattle + LA with bf
i got some serious speed gains in snowboarding. started to feel very comfortable going 40+ mph.. but that led to....
..breaking my ankle right before covid, but it helped me feel prepared for SIP and manage my emotions better during the pandemic (lowered expectations)
started drawing again BUT only posted 6 drawings LMAO. i have 3 more in WIP.... im so slow and unmotivated to finish drawings.. : (
biked a lotttt bc i have more free time without commuting. currently at 2.2k miles biked! (last year i biked 1.2k miles)
became a BWTM for cycling
educated myself a lot and much further about BLM and participated in a protest
started rock climbing (right b4 covid)
just got into roller skating (this week actually, and im obsesseddd)
started my bike specific IG and made some cycling friends in other countries! it’s rly cool to see their routes too. but i need to not get sucked in and care about likes and vanity shit like that lol..
started cooking more... im still bad but hey atleast im trying lol (but still suck ass)
started golfing again bc bf wanted to learn lol
oh duhh moved into a new apt!!! i love having my own place now, no stress from crap roommates loll. decorated it a lot and it really feels like mine ;_;
dived deep into genshin... LOL. but now roller skating is my new obsession so this kinda died. ima pick it back up in a bit lol
became a plant mom! my apt is rly dark/cold tbh so the plants make it feel x9000 more homey hehe. learning about all my different babies is exciting, i have like 22 lol. some are hard to keep alive though cuz my apt is very cold ;_;
work has honestly just been a grind since the start. i feel like ive learned more but also haven’t. trying to work on some stuff im not comfortable to write about yet but we’ll see..
i guess that was more than i thought. most of it is random side hobbies lol. i hope i dedicate enough time to one to get actually good at it instead of spreading myself too thin.
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