I hate how attached to my hair I am….. when I was in college my godmother shaved her head in this weird ceremony (only weird bc her three boyfriends were there and it was. very charged LMAO) that was about drawing attention to how much women view their hair as their whole identity….. I love my mane I love being a blonde but I love not being dragged down by earthly attachments more…… notice I said being a blonde instead of being blonde…. It’s an identity…… problematic


















