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yuyuuyuyuu-deactivated20230726

what do you mean i didn’t reach out i literally thought about you

the wisdom ive learnt is that becoming part of a friend group 1) takes a long time and 2) involves a lot of feeling awkward and left out at first. there’s nothing terrible about this but if you grew up chronically lonely or have any kind of trauma relating to social isolation this likely feels Really Wrong and activates danger signals. but both fortunately and unfortunately it’s just how becoming close to new people works most of the time

caydencrypted

another thing that was not intuitive to me as someone who grew up an autistic loner: basically everyone on the planet is starved for connection all the time and almost everything people do is an attempt to reach out to another. most seemingly illogical interactions and behaviours can be explained by this. you have to take as many of these invitations as you can. even if you're wrong you still attempted to bring more warmth into the world

tinkerlock

Your stupid hair and your stupid eyes. And that stupid smile. Words of wisdom by Sophie, episode 5.

ceeyoutea

wtf-is-hockey

God sometimes I'm writing smut and I'll like, delete a sentence because I'm like, no, I can't write that. It's too indulgent. And then it's like. Girl, what the fuck are you even going to the candy store for if you're just going to buy raisins. Get real.

pseudospaceship

"what the fuck are you even going to the candy store for if you're just going to buy raisins" is honestly the thing I needed to hear today

yenvengerberg

"It is quite the fantastical tale. Maid… gentleman… in love."

gethprime

Kingdom Hearts Final Mix | 3 / ?

jacksally

BRIDGERTON 4.06 — The Passing Winter

dreadfulman

Placing misogyny as an inherent trait of men/masculinity is just another form of "boys will be boys" btw. You cannot ever meaningfully hold misogynists accountable if you treat it as an inherent trait of their identify and not bigotry they are willfully perpetuating.

mysharona1987

sophie-baek

BRIDGERTON 4.06 "The Passing Winter"

platonicsource

BRIDGERTON 4.07 – The Beyond

shooting-stars-andsatellites

Adult realization: you will make mistakes, you will act irrationally. You will commit some wrongs that cannot be fully righted. People will dislike you and misunderstand you for all sorts of reasons. None of these make you a bad person. All you can do is try your best to be kind and just to people, grow and learn.