Crista

You know me?

[cristasfangirlfever]

You into fanfiction? Read mine: https://www.wattpad.com/67508426-loving-raph-is-red-tmnt-%E2%9C%94-1-pizza-blunder Story description: A girl accidentally sees Raphael and his brothers along the sewer while she was casually hanging around her apartment's rooftop. Raphael being himself, tries to scare Alice to make sure she doesn't say a word but he discovers she's a tough one, too.Despite Leonardo warning him about the danger of what he just did, Raph secretly returns to see Alice to threaten her--UNTIL HE SEES HER DANCING IN HER UNDERWEAR INSIDE HER APARTMENT ROOM.

[cristasfangirlfever]

MEETING MY ONLINE BOYFRIEND | Storytime

Storytime with me! Finally, after months of praying and hoping, God allowed it to happen.This is by far one of the best and memorable days of my life. I have...

WE JUST MET ON OMEGLE AND WE FINALLY MET--AND NOW HE MET MY WHOLE FAMILY. 

This year has been a roller coaster ride.

[cristasfangirlfever]

I asked my boyfriend deep questions, then I secretly recorded his answers.

We have been together for a while, and I just realized when I needed help or when I was going through crappy situations, I come to him for advice. He knows so much and thinks differently. His ideas opposes the norms. With this blog, you’ll see how.

The first question I asked Cleveland was how to be happy (for people who are going through heartbreak and the like). At first, I thought that was the easiest question I could ask and that I would get a short answer–like ‘aw babe youre my happiness’ or ‘you just smile and i’ll be happy or some shit’ but I was wrong. He did not give me one-liners or anything, but he enumerated everything. Enumerated it. On top of that, he had an explanation.

And because he enumerated ways on how to be happy, I had to compose a verbatim. Hence, this blog.

According to Cleveland, in order to be happy, you need to go through steps:

1. Understand how you feel

2. Study the situation (Understand why this is happening)

3. Figure out what else will make you happy

4. Find a way to get that happiness

[To be happy, you need to understand first why you’re sad in the first place.That way, you’ll know how to be happy. This is important especially for those who are stubborn and keep saying they don’t have any other way to be happy.]

[You have to] study your situation…First, you wanna [know] the reason [behind it.]

*He then asked me to give him a sample situation, so I did: a guy I loved for a long time broke my heart. 

You gotta understand why he broke your heart.  You gotta understand your situation out of perspective…and you would have a better idea, a genius idea to make it better. [Think about what you would say to another person if they were in your position.] You have to apply yourself in your own beliefs.

With me, I apply myself. If I know what’s right–I do what’s right. Like I don’t go with my gut.

[You can also prevent] negativity from a negative situation. You need to distract yourself because, honestly, you’ll forget you were even in that situation. The more you distract yourself from a negative situation with a happy situation, the easier it is [to move on] because you were so happy that you would not even care about the negative.

There’s just so many [examples] from my experiences. Sometimes I could distract myself from the situation, like “Okay fuck this situation, I’m gonna go play basketball.”

Honestly, I think [moping around when not necessary] is the right thing to do because you don’t solve anything. 

The key to happiness is doing more things that can make you happy. [Minor or major things, whatever, it really helps because there is no such thing as ‘it’s impossible to be happy without him/her or this/that.]

[You know how] you’re going through so many doors that are closed, but you know there’s a way out. You gotta think. You gotta have a strategy how you get out. That’s when you gotta use your mind. Because when you’re on a maze, you wanna find the right way…people these days keep saying that there’s no way out. But there is a way. You gotta figure [it out.] Understand every single option [you have to be happy.] There is always a way to find happiness. 

Soon as you feel [sadness], you think of how you can make yourself feel better. 

[cristasfangirlfever]

I asked my boyfriend deep questions, then I secretly recorded his answers.

We have been together for a while, and I just realized when I needed help or when I was going through crappy situations, I come to him for advice. He knows so much and thinks differently. His ideas opposes the norms. With this blog, you’ll see how.

The first question I asked Cleveland was how to be happy (for people who are going through heartbreak and the like). At first, I thought that was the easiest question I could ask and that I would get a short answer--like ‘aw babe youre my happiness’ or ‘you just smile and i’ll be happy or some shit’ but I was wrong. He did not give me one-liners or anything, but he enumerated everything. Enumerated it. On top of that, he had an explanation.

And because he enumerated ways on how to be happy, I had to compose a verbatim. Hence, this blog.

According to Cleveland, in order to be happy, you need to go through steps:

1. Understand how you feel

2. Study the situation (Understand why this is happening)

3. Figure out what else will make you happy

4. Find a way to get that happiness

[To be happy, you need to understand first why you’re sad in the first place.That way, you’ll know how to be happy. This is important especially for those who are stubborn and keep saying they don’t have any other way to be happy.]

[You have to] study your situation...First, you wanna [know] the reason [behind it.]

*He then asked me to give him a sample situation, so I did: a guy I loved for a long time broke my heart. 

You gotta understand why he broke your heart.  You gotta understand your situation out of perspective...and you would have a better idea, a genius idea to make it better. [Think about what you would say to another person if they were in your position.] You have to apply yourself in your own beliefs.

With me, I apply myself. If I know what’s right--I do what’s right. Like I don’t go with my gut.

[You can also prevent] negativity from a negative situation. You need to distract yourself because, honestly, you’ll forget you were even in that situation. The more you distract yourself from a negative situation with a happy situation, the easier it is [to move on] because you were so happy that you would not even care about the negative.

There’s just so many [examples] from my experiences. Sometimes I could distract myself from the situation, like “Okay fuck this situation, I’m gonna go play basketball.”

Honestly, I think [moping around when not necessary] is the right thing to do because you don’t solve anything. 

The key to happiness is doing more things that can make you happy. [Minor or major things, whatever, it really helps because there is no such thing as ‘it’s impossible to be happy without him/her or this/that.]

[You know how] you’re going through so many doors that are closed, but you know there’s a way out. You gotta think. You gotta have a strategy how you get out. That’s when you gotta use your mind. Because when you’re on a maze, you wanna find the right way...people these days keep saying that there’s no way out. But there is a way. You gotta figure [it out.] Understand every single option [you have to be happy.] There is always a way to find happiness. 

Soon as you feel [sadness], you think of how you can make yourself feel better.