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DO YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THOSE DARKEST PARTS OF YOU?

BY Karen Dominque: Co-auther of "A Man for Every Purpose, My Naked Journey Searching for Love" This past week has been extremely rough for me. I have considered deleting all social media, including this blog. After a week of business travel, my body turned against me. And it has been tragic. I have felt

BY Karen Dominque: Co-auther of "A Man for Every Purpose, My Naked Journey Searching for Love" This past week has been extremely rough for me. I have considered deleting all social media, including this blog. After a week of business travel, my body turned against me. And it has been tragic. I have felt

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DO YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THOSE DARKEST PARTS OF YOU?

BY Karen Dominque: Co-auther of "A Man for Every Purpose, My Naked Journey Searching for Love" This past week has been extremely rough for me. I have considered deleting all social media, including this blog. After a week of business travel, my body turned against me. And it has been tragic. I have felt

BY Karen Dominque: Co-auther of "A Man for Every Purpose, My Naked Journey Searching for Love" This past week has been extremely rough for me. I have considered deleting all social media, including this blog. After a week of business travel, my body turned against me. And it has been tragic. I have felt

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FIVE THINGS TO NEVER TEXT!

“People have entire relationships via text message now, but I am not partial to texting. I need context, nuance and the warmth and tone that can only come from a human voice.” Danielle Steel Text messaging has become the easy go-to. After all, a little text can lead you to lunch with

“People have entire relationships via text message now, but I am not partial to texting. I need context, nuance and the warmth and tone that can only come from a human voice.” Danielle Steel Text messaging has become the easy go-to. After all, a little text can lead you to lunch with

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RETURNING TO MY PARENT'S HOUSE.

“Go big or go home. Because it's true. What do you have to lose?” Eliza Dushku I awakened at my parent's house in the room that was mine just seven short years ago. I jostle my mind from feeling like I have entered a time warp. Parents' home holds my mom and

“Go big or go home. Because it's true. What do you have to lose?” Eliza Dushku I awakened at my parent's house in the room that was mine just seven short years ago. I jostle my mind from feeling like I have entered a time warp. Parents' home holds my mom and

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ELIGIBLE BACHELOR OR A TOXIC BACHELOR; WHO ARE YOU DATING?

“A bachelor never quite gets over the idea that he is a thing of beauty and a boy forever.” Helen Rowland Are you looking for Prince Charming? You may want to look closer. I have done my share of dating and then some. The toxic bachelor has slipped into my naïve

“A bachelor never quite gets over the idea that he is a thing of beauty and a boy forever.” Helen Rowland Are you looking for Prince Charming? You may want to look closer. I have done my share of dating and then some. The toxic bachelor has slipped into my naïve

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ARE ABUSED MEN SILENT SUFFERS?

“Men must know their limitations.” Clint Eastwood Johnny Depp's trial with ex-wife Amber Heard brings the subject of abused men out into the light. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), one in four men will experience some form of physical or emotional abuse in a relationship during their

“Men must know their limitations.” Clint Eastwood Johnny Depp's trial with ex-wife Amber Heard brings the subject of abused men out into the light. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), one in four men will experience some form of physical or emotional abuse in a relationship during their

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QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR MOM ON MOTHERS DAY? #2

“God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.” Rudyard Kipling What questions can you ask your mother that may give insight into her and perhaps yourself? My sweet Mother is over ninety but as bright as a whip. The list of questions I will ask my Mother are

“God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.” Rudyard Kipling What questions can you ask your mother that may give insight into her and perhaps yourself? My sweet Mother is over ninety but as bright as a whip. The list of questions I will ask my Mother are

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HOW DID SHE CHANGE FROM A CRITICAL VOICE TO AN EMPOWERED VOICE?

“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results.” Willie Nelson It is seven fifteen am, early enough that the town is still quiet. She puts on a beanie and puffy jacket as the fog holds in the morning chill. She listens to the silence and takes in

“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results.” Willie Nelson It is seven fifteen am, early enough that the town is still quiet. She puts on a beanie and puffy jacket as the fog holds in the morning chill. She listens to the silence and takes in

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SANTA BARBARA CHEF GOES TO POLAND TO COOK FOR UKRAINIAN REFUGEES.

“If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one.” Mother Teresa Katie Teall of The Cookery Catering in Santa Barbara had just hosted a lovely brunch for a dozen fortunate women on a chilly Sunday morning. She decided quickly to get on a plane the following Saturday, flying to Poland

“If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one.” Mother Teresa Katie Teall of The Cookery Catering in Santa Barbara had just hosted a lovely brunch for a dozen fortunate women on a chilly Sunday morning. She decided quickly to get on a plane the following Saturday, flying to Poland

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FIVE THINGS TO LOOK AT: TO DIVORCE OR NOT TO DIVORCE?

“In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage.” Robert Anderson Marriage can be a battle between self versus us. Like all of life, marriage ebbs and flows. Meeting a person you want to be married to for many reasons may

“In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage.” Robert Anderson Marriage can be a battle between self versus us. Like all of life, marriage ebbs and flows. Meeting a person you want to be married to for many reasons may

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WHEN COMPLAINTS TURN INTO A BROKEN RECORD?

“In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage”. Robert Anderson Trapped in my home due to the pandemic, I headed next door to seek a much-needed break. My husband took over my once quiet cottage with his business

“In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage”. Robert Anderson Trapped in my home due to the pandemic, I headed next door to seek a much-needed break. My husband took over my once quiet cottage with his business

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YOUR HUSBAND'S EX, FIVE IDEAS TO DEAL WITH THE OTHER MRS.?

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu There she is, the first “Mrs.” larger than life itself. It has been over twenty years that they were married, but they had three kids together, two girls and a boy. These grown kids all live local and thrive

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu   There she is, the first “Mrs.” larger than life itself. It has been over twenty years that they were married, but they had three kids together, two girls and a boy. These grown kids all live local and thrive

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HER HEART IS KNOWING OF A VALENTINE ONE DAY…

“I love Valentine's Day! I love it, I love it, I love it. I like having doors opened for me. My favorite romantic comedy is 'When Harry Met Sally.'” Ginnifer Goodwin She dreams of horses, thunderstorms And meeting a man that can dance She collects heart shaped rocks Prays into the wind, is willing to take a chance. She always

“I love Valentine's Day! I love it, I love it, I love it. I like having doors opened for me. My favorite romantic comedy is 'When Harry Met Sally.'” Ginnifer Goodwin   She dreams of horses, thunderstorms And meeting a man that can dance   She collects heart shaped rocks Prays into the wind, is willing to take a chance. She always

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“I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.” Anna Freud Are you looking for love to fill you up and complete you? No, really, good luck in finding love! Love is not something you find, nor do you lose. Relationships can be found and

“I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.” Anna Freud   Are you looking for love to fill you up and complete you? No, really, good luck in finding love! Love is not something you find, nor do you lose. Relationships can be found and

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HAVE WOMEN OF A CERTAIN AGE BECOME THE NEW BATCHELOR'S?

“I'm not the girl who always has a boyfriend. I'm the girl who rarely has a boyfriend.” Taylor Swift The tables have turned. Women now hold the cards, why…because they can. Single is no longer a distant place for the unloved, the unwanted, rejected. Single is now celebrated, as it should be. When once there was

“I'm not the girl who always has a boyfriend. I'm the girl who rarely has a boyfriend.” Taylor Swift The tables have turned. Women now hold the cards, why…because they can. Single is no longer a distant place for the unloved, the unwanted, rejected. Single is now celebrated, as it should be. When once there was

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"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself." George Bernard Shaw   From the inside out, stop eating bad food. We all know the fast-food guilty pleasure and is cost-effective. We also know that fast food is terrible for you. Junk food, processed food, sugar, animal fat, fried food, packaged food, take a

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THIS IS NINETY-SEVEN, THIS IS MY DAD…

“Ninety-seven, closer to heaven. Ninety-eight I am sure will be great” Chris Lindley I've been married to my wife for nearly seventy-four years, coming up next month. We have raised five kids. I am not here to rattle off my list of accomplishments or failures, for that matter. However, I can tell you devotion has been the

“Ninety-seven, closer to heaven. Ninety-eight, I am sure will be great” Chris Lindley I've been married to my wife for nearly seventy-four years, coming up next month. We have raised five kids. I am not here to rattle off my list of accomplishments or failures, for that matter. However, I can tell you devotion has been the