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need a hat that says I WONT SPEAK UNLESS SPOKEN TO AND ITS NOT BECAUSE IM DISINTERESTED AND DONT LIKE YOU I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND SOCIAL INTERACTION AS WELL AS MOST PEOPLE AND ASSUME BY DEFAULT MY PRESENCE IS UNWELCOME AS A PRECAUTIONARY MEASURE SO I KEEP TO MYSELF BUT I DONT MIND IF YOU INITIATE so i can wear it to work

swagophile

important reminder that most people you follow online are significantly lamer than you think they are including me. and if you feel insecure comparing yourself to someone online: DON'T. theyre probably also lame and weird. most people on the internet are

most-sane-classicist

reblog if you're also lame and weird.

incohorace

(consumed with lust voice) omg what a fucking weirdo

thoughtcascades

every time i get close to someone i feel like a stray dog trying to live in a house. like i don’t know where to put my body or how loud i’m allowed to be.

emotionalsupportdaddy-deactivat

Aftercare ideas that aren’t just “cuddle”: presented by yours truly:

• Give each other back scratches/massages, bonus points if you hold each other and scratch each others’ backs at the same time.

• Have one partner lay on the others chest and let yourselves both decompress.

• Tell each other your favorite part of your special time and give them reassurance that it felt good.

• Play a game that can be played together in bed (do not nut in her and get up to go play val.)

• Make a shared playlist you can both add songs to and listen to it together.

• Have water/snacks on hand before starting so neither one of you has to get up and you can cuddle n recharge.

• Hair play!! Run your fingers through their hair, scratch their scalp, ruffle it gently, etc. hair play is one of my favorite forms of physical affection ngl.

• Give each other your clothes to wear (bonus if you’ve been wearing them so they smell like you).

• Taking a shower together where you help the other person to wash back, arms, not sexual, just romantic, and you tell them how pretty they are or hug under the water.

Never forget aftercare is NECESSARY, prolonged or not. dom drop is real, comedown is real, and aftercare will never be an optional thing.

olderbootbutch

nobody is out of your league by the way. not everybody will be into you obviously but thats not because they're better or more valuable than you in any way its just the way things go. you never know who's gonna be into whom. there is literally no such thing as leagues.

bodegaowner-deactivated20190930

my kink is when people tell me they were thinking about me

velvetys

Everything used to be 20 dollars and now that I finally have 20 dollars everything is now 200 dollars

sugar-petals

modern media in a nutshell

manu-script

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

manu-script

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

smadsel

would be remiss not to mention that the rainbow notably straight up just removed the trans flag colors from it. like they’re gone. it’s the progress flag minus the trans flag colors.

smadsel

that’s not the whole flag, now is it

manu-script

hey staff what the fuck

creatingblackcharacters

what are the correct uses of people of colour and which ones are to be avoided?

Okay. Grammar lesson!

"People of color" is a noun. So use it as a noun.

"I am speaking about people of color."

People who are of color. People. People is a noun.

It is not, as the Internet likes to use it, an adjective!

"POC characters!" is the color blind racist equivalent of "colored characters!"

Do you want to call me colored? Is that the racism we really want to use? Old 1960s racism? Shall I go to the colored water fountain next? I'm sorry- the POC water fountain?

If you are talking about all non-white people as a group, use "People of Color".

"White people are used to being the default- which is why they get to be White and the rest of us are People of Color. The Other."

If you are talking about a specific group of people, and you KNOW that, then SAY their group and NOT "people of color".

"I am not just a person of color, I am Black. Antiblackness is about Black people, not all people of color. Otherwise, I'd just say racism. Words have meaning!"

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