im a switch personally, mainly a domme irl. but w a lot of my fantasies being explored here, you'll see more of a 50/50 split. kinks under the cut.
yes:
lesbians and sapphics - men (our system ids overall as lesbian but i individually sometimes fantasize about them) - med fet - cnc - rape fantasies - trauma kinks - sadism - masochism -older women - mdlg- some ddlg - being taken advantage of - some ageplay - being the older woman/mommy domme - transfem suprem - some misgen (as domme, very rare as sub) - sub4sub dynamics - snuff (domme) - some incest (lesbian) - some dykebreaking and acebreaking - knifeplay - gunplay - some objectification - feet - oral fixation - threats (giving) - bimbo - praise and deg - some humiliation - torture - consensual abuse - some consensual dv - piss - romance and love - free use - punching and kicking - slapping - impact play (esp on genitals) - choking and sometimes (only in very specific safe conditions) strangling - corruption - dick adoration - obsession - skullfucking - rimming - armpits - facesitting - somno - blood - bone breaking - inspections - groping - being fucked/raped along with my submissive/partner -
no:
vomit - sex acts which require athleticism (disabled) - small dick humiliation (i have one, i like it, my partners have loved it u can take ur hetero-normative body shaming and fuck off) - lack of communication - casual things - shit - self harm - raceplay - fatphobia - any kind of bigoted hatred - actual non-con or abuse -















