to be determined

Hey! I'm 25, live in Texas with my lovely fiancé, and love new friends. So shoot me a message and say hello! I don't bite unless you like it! :D But also...I do post some nsfw so please be 18+ if you're following me. Also if you like you can check out my other blog at cali-nicole-kittenic.tumblr.com.

[danpandev]

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[danpandev]

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[danpandev]

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[danpandev]

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[glumshoe]

A reminder that turning in assignments for partial credit is better than not turning them in at all. It is. Even if you think you’ve done a bad job and are ashamed of your work, or it’s way overdue, you take whatever you can get. Partial credit dramatically improves your grade over a zero, and I’m always astounded by how often even the smartest kids don’t really comprehend that. 60% is worlds better than 0%. Even 10% is going to help you. Letter grades are misleading and are not created equal. “F"s are mathematically valuable. Turn that late assignment in.

[sophygurl]

This goes for so many things in life tbh.

Can’t pay the full amount you owe on a bill? Pay as much as you can each month. Most places just wanna know you’re making a good faith effort. You can usually even call and ask for a smaller minimum monthly payment plan until you catch up, so that maybe you won’t be getting late fees added on to your balance. It’s worth calling to see. 

Third time you’ve had to reschedule that doctor’s appointment? Oh well. Your doc probably just wants to make sure you make it in to their office at all. Keep trying.

Half-assing is always better than no-assing folks. I know lots of us are anxiety-ridden perfectionists and it feels like if we can’t do everything exactly right on the first try we just shouldn’t bother. But that’s not true. 

My mom likes to say “anything worth doing is worth doing poorly” to emphasize that it’s okay to enjoy doing things even if you’re not good at them. The point is doing them. Make that shitty art project that makes you happy. Learn that new skill even if you suck at it at first. Make it to under half of the events of that club or organization you want to be a part of but can’t fully commit to. It’s okay. You don’t have to do it perfectly to do it at all. 

[mylittleredgirl]

anything worth doing is worth doing poorly.

[hatchetsandscars-deactivated201]

God i wish someone told me this in middle school

[danpandev]

Hey I taught high school and do you know how many kids were one 50% (instead of a 0 aka turning something in instead of nothing) on an assignment away from a C instead of a D or a B instead of a C....could have been the difference in passing or not. I even told them and they still didn’t.

[pinkmisspiggy]

being touchstarved makes u absolutely buckwild when someone does smth simple like .share a chair with u

[pinkmisspiggy]

like having someone touch your hand with the tips of their fingers shouldn’t feel like So Much it shouldn’t feel like your whole body is going into anaphylactic shock but here we are. here we are.

[pinkmisspiggy]

ok 2 many of u relate

[kaijuhearmenow]

Someone gave me a compliment and reached out and squeezed my hand and I fell in love and couldn’t speak for several minutes

[felesrubrum]

I was just gonna type this in the tags but I have to say this.

Growing up in North America is surreal.  Every tiny little blip of physical affection is deemed as sexual interest. Boys aren’t allowed to hug eachother because “that’s gay.” Girls can’t hold hands because “are they going out?” And GOD FORBID a female friend hugs a male friend.

Having lived in the Netherlands, and reading up about shit like this, Canadians and Americans are starving. 

I went to Japan for a school trip in 2012. I went to a highschool there. There were boys hugging, lounging on those blue gym floor mats, holding hands, trowing their arms around eachother. I was startled by how shocked I was.

This mentality of “if you’re touching you must have sexual interest in the other person” is so fucking disgusting. Hug your friends. Hold hands with them. Touch their hands when you want to reassure them.

[mataburt]

Americans are a bit weird. like in movie theaters I see people put a one seat buffer between themselves and other groups of movie goers, like who is that one seat for? 

[danpandev]

I relate so much to all of this post and as touch starved as I usually am I have to say in public places I 100% understand the one seat buffer. For me as a smallish youngish girl person most of the time when I don’t leave a one seat buffer and the person I’m sitting next to is older than me and/or more masculine than me (generally men...not usually masculine people in general but sometimes so I’ll leave that) what tends to happen is that the person will sprawl.

They will take up not only the entire armrest but push their arm over into my seat. If they are men, usually they will spread their legs (this is especially bothersome in smaller spaces like buses, airplanes, etc but still bothersome in movie theaters) and within about 20 minutes I’ve gone from having a normal sized seat to having half the size seat I should have.

This is not a person that I know. I don’t want to cuddle with this person I’ve never spoken to who is taking my space and hasn’t asked me if that is okay.

So now I’m left with two options:

1. Suffer in silence.

2. Try to tell them somehow in a nice way so that this older, larger, likely stronger person doesn’t get upset at me that they are being incredibly rude by being essentially LARGE and taking up too much room. Who wants to hear they are large? No one. There is no way to say this nicely. There is no way to say this safely.

So I’m left with option one.

Hence...once seat buffer. @mataburt does this answer your question?

[amyjacob]

(you can watch it on thursdays at 8:30/7:30c on nbc or on the nbc website, and it’s available on netflix in some countries)

[fakeeleanorshellstrop]

^^^The best description of this show I’ve ever seen

[itsmebabyarms]

But THERE ARE NO GAY PEOPLE IN THE SHOW in fact I think that the creators have decided that queerness basically doesn’t exist in the reality of the show. A woman making comments about how she thinks another woman is hot used as a quirky punchline every time doesn’t make up for the fact that no one talks about even the existence of LGBT people in a show that often discusses the idea of ‘soul mates’ (all soul mates proposed and all ‘hook ups’ depicted have been ‘straight’ pairings).

[danpandev]

I normally don’t reblog the same post twice in a row but @itsmebabyarms ...give it a chance because 1...the show is only 2 seasons in. And 2. That isn’t true.

**SPOILER**

During season 2 when they show reboot after reboot of the good place..Tahani is actually offered as Eleanor’s soulmate. There’s a clip of her standing in the door with her hair flowing back and light coming in behind her. So it’s implied that they had a reboot as soulmates.

The show didn’t explore it...but I think the pretty definitely confirms that Eleanor is bisexual.

Trust me, I’d love more explicit LGBT relationships too. But don’t discredit someone who is bisexual that isn’t in a same sex relationship even if it does seem like a cop-out from the writers.

It’s possible that they will explore the idea of an lgbt relationship somewhere later. We don’t know where the show will be taken yet. Personally I will hold out hope that they remain open to it. Other shows have waited until a 4th or 5th season to introduce an LGBT relationship.

[amyjacob]

(you can watch it on thursdays at 8:30/7:30c on nbc or on the nbc website, and it’s available on netflix in some countries. update: i’ve been informed that it’s also on hulu)

[dniudsnf]

I want a cottage with a stream behind it and a forest that goes for miles on and deer are seen peeking out from the branches. Tea is brewing and my garden’s flowers are blooming. I am at peace with the world and full of kindness.

[idinamenzl]

[teenagesophiebennett-deactivate]

you know parents make such a big deal about explaining homosexuality to their children but when I was a kid I watched a show where one of the villains was a satanic cross-dressing lobster and never once questioned it

[tate-iyohiwin]

I feared Him as a little kid, and for good reason, for Him was the most powerful

Like nothing tops those abilities, and now Him is literal goals

[danpandev]

Look at all those abilities but the weapon of choice is “Claws”. 😂

[tinyslutttt-deactivated20180226]

girls are still shaming other girls for masturbating…. like grow up and buy a fucking vibrator sarah it’s almost 2018

[fullpraxisnow]

[chica-cherry]

My exact thoughts when I heard this story. Regular guys are taught that being persistent in getting a woman into bed is totally normal and that she will genuinely want to, rather than feeling pressured, warn down, and afraid to say no.

[danpandev]

I hadn’t actually heard anything about this and after reading this post I went and looked it up and read an opinion post where someone tried to say that because the woman said she was giving nonverbal cues that wasn’t enough...

I felt so disgusted by that idea.

If you kiss someone and they turn their head that isn’t enough?

If you touch someone and they shrink from it that isn’t enough?

It’s like people want someone to yell no or kick and scream for it to constitute someone not consenting.

A lack of a denial is not the same thing as consent.

[ta-nehisicoates-deactivated2018]

my girl poured her diva cup out into her plant and now the plant’s alive again her pussy voodoo

[sungawddess-deactivated20180923]

I have questions…

[thatadult]

this is green consciousness and ecofeminism

[the-indecorous-flower]

Period blood is full of nutrients and can act as a plant fertilizer. Which isn’t much help if you use disposables like pads and tampons, BUT if you use moon cups you can pour them onto your plant OR if you use reusable pads you can soak/rinse them in warm water before you wash them and pour that water onto your plants.

[deebott]

Stop being scared of ya own blood 2k18. Do magic. Revive plants. Curse enemies.

[botan]

[danpandev]

I’m rewatching Gilmore girls and I forgot that when Richard collapses in the first season and tries to talk to emily about when he might die she tells him she didn’t sign on for him dying and she demands to go first and he says “Yes Emily, you may go first.” And omg I almost cried.

[ask-cloud-skipper]

[WHEEZE]

[catlips001]

Chaotic good.