i sincerely don't know.

A. Yup. the Tony to my Effy HUFFLEPUFF THE NINTH DOCTOR TEAM COOLLIKE

[doctorwho]

Ms. Whittaker “is destined to be an utterly iconic Doctor.”

Jodie Whittaker via Rozette Rago for the New York Times. 

[blkbruja]

y’all need therapy. not girlfriends

[yaheartchakra]

Or they need a girlfriend that doesn’t mind listening and trying to help them work through their shit and defeat their fucking demons without asking them to pour out their soul to a stranger who is only listening because it’s their job. That’s the kind of shit you do for the people you love.

[taxidermy-tits]

your partner is not your therapist. listening to your partner is one thing, but it is not their responsibility to help you work through your shit. that is on you.

one more time.

your partner is not your therapist.

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

also if I may hop onto this, I REALLY hate when people try to spin “therapists only listen because it’s their job” as a BAD thing. can you imagine if we tried to apply that to literally any other profession?

“why take your phone into the store to get it fixed? they don’t care about you, they’re only doing their job.”

“I don’t want to order a pizza. they’re not making it for me out of the goodness of their hearts, they’re only doing it because it’s their job.”

“why didn’t you just have your girlfriend do that surgery instead of going to a stranger who only saved your life because it’s their job?”

it’s their job because they are better equipped to do it than the other people in your life. jesus christ. 

[kendrickjunkie]

“No. She’s not my vibrator!” (x)

[gahdamnpunk]

This is why baby boomers think we can pay for school while having a part time job

[smoochuu-deactivated20181228]

im so mad

[cosmicallyavg]

the straights are at it again

[love-geofffree-deactivated20190]

Reblog if you are a greedy gay hoarding refracted light all for your greedy gay self

[october-rosehip]

I totally am, but also: I have a story. The time: 1995. The place: a small liberal arts college. We decided to participate in “denim day” which was a widespread event wherein on National Coming Out Day, you would wear denim to indicate SUPPORT FOR the LGBT community. Our support group made posters that were very, very clear about this. Wearing denim did not mean that you were coming out, it meant you supported anyone around you who might.

I have never seen so many suits and khakis IN MY LIFE. People who accidentally wore jeans went home and changed.

The community took it as a rebuke. We drew in closer to eachother, and felt unwelcome everywhere we thought we had friends before.

And I had people later tell me “You know I support you, just… I didn’t want anyone to think I was.” First off, I DON’T know you support me. Not if you refuse to, for one day, change nothing about your life to show it. Second off… why is that such a terrifying thought to you?

I remember before rainbows were a “gay thing”. They were everywhere. Church walls next to arks. School walls next to sunshine faces. People have VOLUNTARILY abandoned every other use. I have HEARD PEOPLE SAY they just couldn’t use rainbows anymore because people would think of “gay stuff.”

So I know this is a joke, and a stolen one at that, but you’ve done this to yourselves. If someone is so terrified of being perceived as queer that they will INSTANTLY abandon something they like if it has queer germs on it now or something, then they don’t deserve refracted light.

Maybe help us change the world into a place where being mistaken for queer would be just a thing to chuckle about and you can have refracted light back.

[aintnosintobefinallyclean-deact]

The LGBTQ+ community didn’t steal the rainbow. The straights abandoned it.

[on---purposeee]

Anna Kendrick Said “Fuck Heterosexuality”

I’m-

[dapperfuckers]

anyone else dead beacuse of anna? kthnxsbai

[wegifs]

[foodffs]

[foodffs]

Baking Basics: Common Baking Substitutions

Really nice recipes. Every hour.

Show me what you cooked!

[rosespell]

[you-make-beauty-from-these-ashes]

“It’s like your sadness is so deep and so overwhelming that you’re worried it will drown everyone else in your life if you let them too close to it.”

My heart and other black holes//jasmine warga. (via you-make-beauty-from-these-ashes)

[haleyincarnate]

Kathleen Glasgow, Girl In Pieces

[divedintothedark]

I just don’t understand how I can be so empty all the fucking time.

[real-demons]

[dapperfuckers]

[the-suicide-effect]

I’m getting bad again. But I’m too tired to care

(via the-suicide-effect)

[meme-gutter]