Youre really talented, sharp, pretty and funny but your need for attention and validation will bring you down. How do you plan on dealing with this?
you're kinda right ngl
a lot of my self worth is dependent on how much others appreciate what i do. the biggest thing is i've started to distance myself from the validation i get from posting pictures. i post them because it gets me interactions (good for brand purposes) and i've stopped checking the comments to see what people think.
as for my commentary, that's a big issue. there, i'm quite literally performing to people. i've stopped checking twitch chats, youtube comment sections, etc. almost entirely, as well as namesearching myself. i'm cutting myself off from that.
it's a work in progress but i've made some good, tangible steps in recent months to try to work past that. i'm also trying to do more stuff that fits to my own standards rather than of someone else, which is very much so a work in progress.
this is a great question, ty for asking and is a good reminder to keep myself in check <3
