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It’s very satisfying when a dom is standing naked and your sucking them off but you’re being a brat so they have to force you to look at them. Their voice goes deep as they say “look at me” and then it goes deeper “I said look at me!” And finally they turn your head and shove their cock deep down your throat. “If you want to be a brat then be a brat but you will listen!”

I share this to remind us all of what can happen when we are not safe, sane, consensual in our practices. No kink is worth your life and no one person, no matter if that person means harm or not, has the right to dictate what you do with your body. Always educate yourself on a practicebefore doing it and always know when enough is enough. Please do not let this be you. Someone loves you even if you think they don’t and someone will know/care if you die as horriblyas he did. (I’m not supporting everything the mother says in this article but I am supporting the warning it gives)

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6357387/Mother-Australian-man-died-injecting-scrotum-silicone-faces-bondage-master.html

Melbourne mother Linda Chapman has confronted 'master' Dylan Hafertepen, who she claimed coerced her son into injecting his scrotum with sil

After a few weeks, when the bruises have gone and the pain has subsided. I will still remember how it felt. Years later, when I am sitting in bed waiting for you to return, I will still remember the sensations you made me feel.

Hiiiii do you know of any discord server for littles 🙈🙈

nope. I didn’t even know what discord server was until now. If anyone does comment down below!

edit: So, someone has sent me this link. it’s a daycare type server for littles.

hi! I've known that I've been a little for a while and I had a daddy when I found out (he was really kind and understanding) but a few months later he broke up with me. It was really emotionally tough on me and I went through a really tough time afterwards. That was a few months ago, but recently I've been struggling being on my own. Do you have any tips that would make it easier for me to be a little on my own? I've found myself avoiding it recently which isn't really helping anything either

I suggest watching tv/movies that make you feel little, coloring, or cuddling with a stuffie. Most importantly allow yourself to be little. You may be subconiously stopping yourself but just let it through. It’s okay to be little and be sad as well sometimes as littles we need to heal our big selves as well as our little selves.

TAIL BUTTPLUG Maintenance!

A few months ago, my daddy and I purchased a tail from Vuzara.com (link to the one I got is attached). I love it! However, I was unsure how to clean it. I asked around and got the answer to my question. Just use warm water and hand soap and make sure to brush the fur!

I think I want to make a sex education blog. Not bdsm but sex in general. but I'm not sure. leave a note if you think I should!

Hi, so you seem to be pretty knowledgeable about mommy dom/little boy relationships. The guy i'm getting serious with drunkenly admitted to me the he goes through what he calls "little months" where he reverts to a little boy and its the only thing that gets him going. Like apparently he has to wear diapers at all times. At first this kind of freaked me out but I really care for him and want to be involved with this. Can you give me more info as to what I would have to do as a dom or any advice?

Okay, well, first I would always like you to know that just because you care for him doesn’t mean you have any obligation to be his mommy. It’s not for everyone and if you find it isn’t for you I’d discuss it with him openly. Second, different littles need different things so I’d talk with him about his needs; However, I will tell you some common things doms do. Depending on his little age and/or needs, you might need to change his diapers. Now, some people don’t USE their diapers and just like the feeling of being little with it on and being changed. Other people like to only pee in them and some go all out. You might also need to feed him and/or make his food (like a mother would a child). You may also need to dress him and do various things a mother would do with their baby or child. These things include: making rules, schedules, punishments, playtime (as in with actual toys), and just all around devoting your attention to him when you can. Now, all this might sound scary but that’s why you need to talk with him about it. Some people only like to be little during sex and/or sexual times. Others, like myself, are part time littles. We are little sometimes but not all the time. Then you have people who are little 24/7.So, to understand the level of time you will spend being a dom will depend on which “type” of little he is. As for advice. Research, research, and research. Research proper punishments for littles (there are multiple videos on YouTube with these type of subjects just search “ddlg”, “abdl”, “mommy dom” etc), go on Instagram and follow some littles/daddy's/mommy's and kind of pick and chose to take things from them, and research “normal” BDSM (this will help in the long run because in order to truly understand something you need to go back to where it originated). I also advise you to take it slow and have him know you need to take it slow. Start off with talking and seeing what his exact needs are. Then from there talk with what you’re comfortable with trying now, what you might be willing to try in the future, and lastly what you properly wouldn’t be comfortable with. Also, remember you have no obligation to anything and it’s your right to say “no” or “I'm just not into it”. Also, what you’re doing by asking me is amazing. Talk to some other mommy's and little boys. Just be respectful, tell them your situation, and ask if they have any advice. 9/10 they will be polite and talk with you. All in all being a dom is not that scary once you get into it (if you’re the type of person to be a dom). Just like anything new it’s scary if you don’t know but once you get into it you see it’s not. Just talk, talk, and talk. Your boyfriend is your major source of information.

If anyone else has any positive advice please leave it down below!!!!!

Can you feel a condom break?

My boyfriend is the only man I've had sex with so I was never sure that if a condom did break would I be able to feel it. Well, yesterday my question was answered. Yes, you can feel a condom break. I’d describe it as a rubber band popping. Imagine (or you can actually do it) placing a rubber band (for more accuracy do a black hair tie the thick ones) on your wrist and pulling it slightly back then releasing. It felt something like that. I just knew something wasn’t right because I felt that sensation and as I was about to tell my boyfriend to check the condom it..like...exploded and he was like “wait, wait, wait!” and pulled out. There were signs before hand like it would rise up on him and wouldn’t really stay at the base. We are still unsure why it broke. It could’ve been all the friction. We know it wasn’t too small because we’ve used that brand before and it’s been fine. Sometimes condoms just break. And as for the question “could your boyfriend feel it too?” Yes he could. He even slowed down when I felt the slight rubber band feeling (before it exploded) and was checking it while still fucking me so I know he could. So, anyway if you feel anything like that or if you just want to check and make sure everything is going well there’s nothing wrong with that! tell your partner you felt something weird (or just want to check) and it takes just a second to avoid a mistake that could last a lifetime! I just wanted to make a post because I know I was never told that when my brother told me about condom safety (my mom wouldn't do it and he wanted me to be safe). Stay safe and always use protection!

Patrick from American Psyco is a less tam less kinky Christian Grey. Tell me I’m wrong. I dare you!

Hi there.. so uh I'm kinda interested in being a little but I'm also really stubborn and independent. Like I know I like to be controlled during sex. Do you have to be into uh ageplay to be a little ? (I've tried to look through your blog but I'm honestly so lost) oh also could you maybe ask the guy looking for a little to turn on anon asks..? I'm really shy about this. Thank you so much , good wishes for you 😊

As to turn on anon ask, I don’t think that would be a good idea because I believe that if you want to talk with someone (to try and build a relationship like this) it shouldn’t be anonymously. As for being stubborn and independent that doesn’t hinder your ability to be little if anything you’d just be a brat (if you honestly want to try and be little but you’re worried about that). Also, as for being into age play to be a little that’s a very controversial subject. Some people would say you need to, others say you wouldn’t. Some people think being little HAS to be sexual and others don’t. Personally, I believe that being little has to be sexual. I believe that DD/LG must be sexual (when practicing with a partner) because it’s a d/s relationship and it’s more often than not the sub (little) getting turned on by the dom (daddy/mommy/cg) because of the position of authority they hold. I believe that if you aren’t sexual in DD/LG then you’re an age regressor (which is pretty much SFW DD/LG that is used as a help with PTSD usually but i’ve seen people who dont have PTSD use it. Ive also seen people WITH PTSD cope with DD/LG, so I guess it’s whatever floats your boat) that happens to like to call their CG daddy and there’s nothing wrong with that. If you want to try and be little that’s up to you but know there are other dynamics out there that involve controlment during sex other than just CG/L. There’s slave/master, pet/master, dom/sub (this is a very wide range and is the base of everything), servant/employer (different from slave/master because the servant is more free and it rarely involves punishment), rope master/rope bunny, and on and on. the list is endless. DDLG is more for those who liked to be taken care of and those who enjoy (mostly sexually) an authority figure telling them what to do. So, to answer your question “do you need to be an age player to be a little?” the answer varies on who you talk to and if you decide for YOU that you don’t need to be an ageplayer to be a little then that’s fine. I like to look at BDSM this way. Many, many, many years ago there were these people and they set the base for what we know today as BDSM (not accurate but stay with me). Kind of like they made a cookie recipe. Now, people like different cookies some like cholate chip, some like peanut butter, and so on. Well, lets say someone liked cholate chip cookies but didn’t like the fact it used eggs, so the took them out. The cookie is still the cookie but it just taste a bit different and that’s what they like. What I'm saying is there is no “one way” to do BDSM and you should do whatever’s comfortable to you (within laws and with consent that is). I hope this answers your questions to satisfactions

If anyone else has any positive advice for this person please leave it down below and if you have a question to ask don’t be shy!

Lost baby

Little: *stops in crowded place to check their phone

Daddy/mommy: *keeps walking because they haven't noticed little stop*

Little: *stops checking phone and just waits to see how long it takes until Daddy/Mommy will notice*

Daddy/mommy: *notices after two minutes or so because they were Literally talking to nothing. Turns around and looks at little who's 7 feet behind them. Puts on their dommy face and walks over to them quickly* Little one you do not do that! *dom voice in a hash whisper*

Little: I had to-

Daddy/mommy: you stay in eyesight at all times *reaches for littles throat inconspicuously* understand?

Little: *embarrassed. slips out of dommys light grasp* yes but-

Daddy/mommy: at. all. times

Little: yes yes yes. yeah yeah yeah

I tend to do this often because I'm so used to just stopping and daddy hates it or when I wonder off. usually we are in our small town so he never really disciplined me for it like the other day (we were in the city when this happened)

(Mature theme) Big Dick Energy

Little: *sitting on the lakeside with daddy as the dogs play* Sparky's (the obviously dominate dog) showing big dick energy

Daddy: *chuckles and pulls out his phone*

Little: Daddy...

Daddy: *raises eyebrow* hm? *texting*

Little: what's big dick energy?

Daddy: Big dick energy? *doesn't look up from phone*

Little: Yeah I've seen it online but I'm not 100% sure what it is...

Daddy: *plainly while still not looking up* It means...like...alpha

Little: Oh that's what I thought it meant

Daddy: mhm

Little: ... Daddy

Daddy: Hm? *still texting*

Little: you have big dick energy *smiles*

Daddy: *slowly looks up and then winks*

How to (maybe) make your little feel little #1

Have them hold your keys if you have a key chain with lots of keys. Daddy does this with me when we go into stores or when we’re out. He hands me his keys and I feel so little! plus they jingle!

I also got slappies on Saturday so that could be a major cause of my sore jaw too

I was panicked today because my jaw hurt like a MF and I was like “ why is it so sore?” and then I remembered getting face fucked on Saturday

Daddy Dom looking for Little Girl (read for information)

A few days ago, I received a message. This message was a very respectful message which asked if I had a dominate. Now, of course I don’t and stated so. They then politely said they were sorry for disturbing me and were willing to leave it at that. However, I was intrigued by this person and told them I was grateful they were so respectful. To which they said, “Loving someone is second thing, firstly one must know how to respect her.” This peeked my interest more. This guy seems respectful and all around good guy from the brief encounter in which I’ve had with him. I really feel like he deserves a little and I know a lot of single littles follow me. So, I asked him a few questions:

1 what kind of dominate are you?

2 are you a strict dom? a soft dom?

3 how long have you been interested/ practicing the lifestyle?

4 have you had a little before?

5 also, what could you do for your little emotional wise if you were to have one?

6 what sorts of rules would ou be interested in applying/negotiating?

These were his answers:

1 I am Gentle, Polite, Caring, Respectful Dom

2 when it gets to Rules, Discipline, obedience, behaviour, I could be stern & strict as hell who wouldn't mind turning her lil ass into Red Apple

3 I've been Caregiver, Daddy, Dom for around 4+ yrs

4 I never knew this side of me existed, but now I feel more of myself being a dom, (number four wasn’t clearly answered so ask him about it if you wish)

5 I like to be in charge, take all the responsibilities & have full power control & authority to take all her decisions

6 I'm open to keep improving & adding up new rules as my sub sees fit according to her comfort & submissiveness

But I'll like to keep some ground rules to keep her under control & improvement ^_^

Always Respect me & trust me above all, Address me as "Sir" "Dada" "Daddy" instead of "you" "him"

Shares all her random thoughts & keeps me aware of how she is feeling so I could keep track of her mental health as well :)

I usually don’t post things like this but this guy seems very nice and respectful and like he deserves someone to look after. Please keep in mind my conversation with this person was very brief so please talk with them and get to know them before establishing anything. He seems like an open book and if you have any questions he will answer them 😊 I really hope some lovely lady will be his little and they have an amazing dom/sub relationship! :)

His blog

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