DDLG Playground

Hello and welcome to the DDLG Playground. This blog goes along with my Facebook group that goes by the same name. Feel free to check us out! If you are looking for advice, or have a question my ask box is always open.

[ddlg-playground]

Daddy and I was roleplaying in cnc. I was saying "Daddy please dont" Daddy knows all my safe words. And I never used them because I didnt need to. When we were finished Daddy told me if we rapeplay not to call him Daddy. I'm so confused cause I cant see him as anything else then Daddy. Is this normal for Daddies not want to be called Daddy during roleplay. I'm a little and daddy knew I was in my littlespace.

CNC/Rapeplay is not your typical roleplay, maybe your Daddy wasn’t comfortable being called Daddy while engaged in the CNC scenario. Before you engage in rapeplay again you should talk to him and see if there is something else you could call him.

[ddlg-playground]

Hi! Um, I’m new to the community and on a new blog (I’m a secret little and the people in my life besides my daddy can’t know), I was just wondering if y’all have any tips on making friends in the community! I’m a little shy

Check out our local dungeon or BDSM club, many of them have littles night or munches where you can meet other people in the community.

[ddlg-playground]

Can you give any advice for getting into littlespace/things to do while in little space by yourself?

When you are in little space alone you can:Color, watch cartoons, take a bubble bath, play with toys or stuffies, play dress up or dolls. Anything that brings you joy.

[ddlg-playground]

My daddy wants me to dress more like a little. I would love to get some nighties or pajama sets with princesses or that look like they are for little girls. I'm just not sure where to find any that fit me. Also do you have any advice on what to wear on a daily basis to look more little? I would say that I lean more toward the 9-10 age.

Littleforbig on Amazon, you can also check Etsy for custom made clothing.If you are looking for brick and mortar stores Forever 21 has a young vibe and you can find things like jelly sandals and childlike clothing. 

[littledollybelle-deactivated201]

There is no such thing as a minor who is mature enough for a kink relationship and that’s the fucking tea

You may think you’re the exception, I thought I was too, but you’re not. And any adult that tries to tell you that you are, is fucking dangerous, unsafe, and potentially predatory.

[ddlg-playground]

Hello, I just moved to Fort Worth and I'm looking for some little friends, as I don't have any. Do you have any tips on how to find littles in my area other than randomly asking around? (That can be kind of weird lol) Anyways, I would appreciate any advice you can give! Thank you!

Check out our local dungeon or BDSM club, many of them have littles night or munches where you can meet other people in the community. You can also try Fetlife.

[ddlg-playground]

Adult Content is leaving Tumblr

As we get closer to December 17th we risk our page being shut down by Tumblr. While we are not a porn blog we do talk about adult content. If you wish to keep in contact with the page we will be moving back to our Facebook group where we will continue to share posts, answer questions, and keep passing along lifestyle related information. Feel free to join us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheDDlgPlayground/

[ddlg-playground]

Adult Content is leaving Tumblr

As we get closer to December 17th we risk our page being shut down by Tumblr. While we are not a porn blog we do talk about adult content. If you wish to keep in contact with the page we will be moving back to our Facebook group where we will continue to share posts, answer questions, and keep passing along lifestyle related information. Feel free to join us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheDDlgPlayground/

[ddlg-playground]

Adult Content is leaving Tumblr

As we get closer to December 17th we risk our page being shut down by Tumblr. While we are not a porn blog we do talk about adult content. If you wish to keep in contact with the page we will be moving back to our Facebook group where we will continue to share posts, answer questions, and keep passing along lifestyle related information. Feel free to join us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheDDlgPlayground/

[daddysdlg]

👆🏼 This, guys…super important. Tell her when she’s been so good, love her with your words and your touch. Pull her close and show her that you’re there for her, even if she’s withdrawing a little. Be as “aggressive” in pursuit of aftercare as you are during play. ❤️

~G

More DD/LG advice & naughtiness on DaddysDLG.Tumblr.com🎀

[sir-daddys-fun-house-returns]

Punishments are necessary: This isn’t a post about how to punish, what punishments to use and when, but an opportunity for you to look at it from a different perspective.

From a D/s perspective, it helps them to not self punish themselves. It sets boundaries and helps them to not feel out of control. They’re already devastated for breaking a rule or whatever the infraction was. By punishing them it is helping them to feel that they have performed an appropriate penance.

It helps them to feel that they have paid the price for letting you and themselves down and a means to feel as though they have made up for it. It helps put them into a mindset that acknowledges that it is a learning experience. It helps them to move on afterwards. It is about rectifying an undesirable habit or behavior for the betterment and personal growth of the individual.

They might lash out at you, but that’s because they’re angry with themselves, not at you. Don’t confuse this with brattiness. It reinforces rules, protocols, structure, and your leadership. It promotes growth. It helps them to feel safe allowing you to help them control an otherwise hectic and sometimes unhealthy life. It is with your consistency that you prove this. It helps them feel and know that you care!

Quick Notes: Only use punishments that both parties have consented to. Never punish when you’re angry. Punish immediately or not at all. Make sure the punishment “fits the crime”. Always follow through. Aftercare IS required after each punishment.

And most importantly…

Do NOT dwell upon the infraction. Do NOT bring it up continuously. Do NOT rub it in their faces. Learn from it, reassure, and move on, period.

- Sir Daddy

[sir-daddys-fun-house-returns]

Aftercare doesn’t have an expiration.

Aftercare does not end when a scene is over. Aftercare is a continuous service that needs to be rendered until the person has stabilized physically and mentally! This means that some form of aftercare can be required for days. The chemicals flushing from their system requires your constant and genuine due diligence. Adapt the type and level of aftercare the individual requires to each circumstance because it will vary. Keep checking in and up on them until you are both satisfied that they have landed safely. Be safe, be sane, and all things consensual.

- Sir Daddy

[jennibellarella]

Here are some super, amazing things that are more Productive than Pouting when your Caregiver is away, working, or otherwise taking care of his or her responsibilities!

🌟Use that time to take care of your own responsibilities! 🌟Plan a surprise for them to come home to - like a party, scavenger hunt, or handmade gift! 🌟Tell them how proud you are of their hard work and encourage them to do a great job today! 🌟Give them a peptalk to motivate them when they feel burntout! 🌟Be supportive of your partner! 🌟Thank them for making great choices! 🌟Talk about the amazing opportunities your partner’s job/family/life brings that you wouldn’t have otherwise! 🌟Tell them you will be excited to see them later! 🌟 Tell your partner how great it is that you have an accountable person in your life! 🌟 Remind your partner how lucky they are to have a job/family/adventures! 🌟 Tell your partner you value their work! 🌟 Help your partner by packing their lunch - add a surprise note inside! 🌟 Make delicious food for your partner to take to work and share with co-workers/bosses!

When in doubt, don’t pout - DO productive things for your relationship. Your partner is working hard. Are you?

Why pouting is unproductive? Because it communicates to your partner that they should feel bad and guilty for having responsibilties and being away from you. It tells them that you don’t care about their life beyond the scope of how it affects you. It will drain their energy when they should be focused on high job proformance. They won’t be happy to come home because they know you are a sad and whining puddle and might even start a fight. It reinforces unhealthy co-dependance and communicates to your partner that they don’t have freedom to live their own life.

Remember - when your relationship is built on deprivation instead of fulfillment, you suck the life out of your partner.

[ddlg-playground]

Just a reminder:

We are not a dating or hookup page. We are here to give information, answer questions, and help others learn about the lifestyle.

[dadasdot]

Littlespace helps with..

💕 Anxiety

💕 Stress

💕 Depression

💕 Panic attacks

💕 Suicidal thoughts

💕 Anger

By.. 

💖 Having bubble baths

💖 Cuddling stuffies

💖 COLOURING

💖 Naps

💖 Cartoons

💖 Sucking on a paci

💖 Having someone look after you ( your CG )

💖 No responsibilities

💖 Having play time

[ddlg-playground]

What are your views on underage littles?

Because DDlg is apart of the BDSM community I always say 18 and older only. By definition littles are adults who retain child like qualities, such as curiosity, playfulness, the need for attention, protection and guidance. Legally, mentally and physically speaking anyone under 18 is still considered as a child. You are what a little can relate to, you cannot “retain” child like qualities because you are still one. It is natural for you to feel that you need a Care Giver because you do. If you have a S.O. who treats you like a little, it only means that he/she is treating you right because that is what you need. It is natural to be playful and curious and to have all the qualities that a little has. 

[ddlg-playground]

I have a daddy dom..but he has a girlfriend..we barely get to talk and he always puts his full attention on her.. what should I do?

Honestly, you should find someone who wants to be with you and only you, unless the girlfriend is aware that you DD has you aswell. Littles need attention and if you are not getting the attention you need you should have an open conversation with your DD about it. If he can’t make time for you it might be time to move on.