Genuine question for everyone who did read My Beloved Opressor, do you consider Annette Rosenberg morally grey? A lot of debate been sparked about Annette and that she's ignorant (true)/knowing of her father schemes (she didn't like at all at the time when those crimes happened) therefore she's morally grey which I personally don't understand why and I disagree
At least to my understanding of morally grey it is a character who understands their choices and actions are not morally correct but take it anyways, they understand the disparity and the unfairness on a primary level and continues to the perpetuates their ignorance. Ignorance itself isn't the issue, the world (and especially the setting of MBO being the 1910s-inspired) is designed to make you ignorance and therefore individuals need to deconstruct their worldview constantly in order to progress as people and society as a whole. It's the fact if one person were made light on the situation being told personally of what is wrong and still continues to do the wrong thing just because they don't care and they're just a bigot, that's when it's a morality issue on that person.
Annette was like a teen/YA when the events went down, heavily indoctrinated and dumb but not someone aware of what's truly going on and continues to let it happen. The proof people were saying to deny is that she knew of what her father, Dietrich Rosenberg, was torturing Katherine's brother - a revolutionary force's member but that isn't true, even her father wanted hide that side of his from her.
He was talking about Katherine who rejected the verdict to her brother and wanted to personally come and have it turn but got detained. When Dietrich, got to that piano competition he just brushed aside Katherine's situation as something easy to understand and even told Annette thats not something she should worry about, which is why she reacted initially to the situation like that.
A young lady raised to be a good wife and obedient daughter reacted accordingly, as she is also indoctrinated simply by the system. It's repeatedly shown Annette is someone who's very simple minded, ignorant and followed the system until she realized the truth and express the want to actually self realize and judge herself correctly in present time when she remembered what happened (due to her PTSD causing her temporary memory loss)
And when she did meet Katherine in the flashback, her thoughts did have a deeper feel but the situation happened all very fast and she once again returned back to her easy thoughts ("She was just making a fuss...," repeating what her father told like a parrot).
When they (A&K) sat down speaking face to face and then we have Annette fully break down crying apologizing even when she was described being extremely overwhelmed at that moment. She didn't want to be there but she knows she needs to and she didn't allow her own wants to win the necessity of what's right, Annette is very clear on what she needs to do morally and she did so even with discomfort which frankly to me won't happen if she were to just indulge in her comfort and consider it a day and can just have Katherine away
Her biggest crime was being uneducated which is explained by the patriarchy she's living in indoctrinating her and her age as well. Even Katherine doesn't even know if she's considered guilty and she just wants to let her know what happened. And even so, in the end Annette apologized tearfully to make up for the lack of justice her brother had even though the apology wasn't from who Katherine expected from
Once Annette realized what's the reality is for the mass, she's constantly apologetic and wants to fix it, not just ditch it all for a self pity show. She wrote a plea to drop the case on Katherine's younger brother before committing and saying apologies (which we know from Heiner that she only does when she's really sorry since she isn't one to say it simply known) to Heiner and everyone. We also see her express empathy towards the revolutionary force too and understand why they did what they did and held no resentment in the early chapters with Heiner's assistant.
Annette to me has been fairly morally white with her course of action. She's not very smart, said so herself and that's conditioning from the patriarchy as to why she's ignorant but when she learns of the truth we can see Annette is very prone to do what's right morally for the unfortunate even though she was still in a position of power over them. Imo, she's fairly easy to understand but if I did miss a few details here and there please do let me know to see my opinion again