Desiree Marie Howard @dezibaybee - Tumblr Blog

“I can’t fucking do this” - I mutter for the twentieth time as I continue to fucking do it

PAY ATTENTION! This is how you weed out the men who deserve your time and the ones that don’t. These dudes are literally telling you who they are, but y'all refuse to listen. Your safety comes first.

dynastylnoire

I’m in a FB group where dudes 30 and older were having full tantrums over this post. These are the same guys that admit:

Not deleting nudes post break up

Not believing when women that were sexually assaulted

Not believing sex with a partner that is sleeping is rape

Etc.

Please do not date people that take issue with your protecting yourself.

adreamdeferred

i deadass took a picture of my dates license and sent to my homegirls in the gc. and turned on my location. yea you cool but it’s always about me and my safety.

dandridgegirl

Men who aren’t trash should already know this is commonplace. One of my last dates even offered to take a picture together for my safety text.

furbytheminx

Men who get mad when women try to protect themselves are just telling on themselves, nothing more.

on-your-knees-darling

All you people out there talking about “spreading my private information” like you don’t drive around with your liscense plate out there for everyone and their mom to see all day every day. Sit down. Shut up. She didn’t ask for your social security number you absolute acorn. Your plates are public knowledge.