Diary Of A Sensitive Bad B

︎ ☆ creative visionary ☆ twenny seven

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[jussanother]

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[lobstabear]

To my 25 - 35 year olds, you've reached the age where people around you are starting to give up on themselves because they think it's too late. Don't let that energy rub off on you. It's not too late.

[grandestrology-deactivated20150]

I don’t wanna get involved in the drama I just wanna know 103% of the information on what happened

[riotd]

you liked 4 of my posts in a row, you may as well just confess your undying love and devotion to me

[hellyeahrihannafenty]

[jussanother]

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[aetas-aurea]

One of the most useful realizations I have come to about people and relationships generally is this: when someone reveals an ugly part of themselves in response to something you said or did, the temptation is to make yourself the subject of that sentence. If I hadn’t said that. If I hadn’t done that. If I had just been different in that specific moment then none of this would have happened and they would still be here and everything would be fine.

No. What you actually did was hand them a situation that required them to show you who they are, and they did. The insult, the retaliation, the disappearing act, the ghosting, the cruelty, the punishment, whatever form it took. That was already inside them fully formed and patient, waiting for a moment of sufficient pressure to make itself known. People are not driven to their worst behavior by the specific trigger. If it wasn’t this it would have been something else, a different day, a different disagreement, a different version of you doing a slightly different thing, and the outcome would have looked essentially the same because the outcome was always going to be determined by their character and not by your conduct.

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