I'm Allergic To Gender

Links masterlist Diamoric: love, attraction, or partnerships that pass through, go apart from, or completely encompass the gender spectrum. This is a non-binary pride blog! It's okay to follow/interact if you're completely binary, but please keep in mind that you're not the target audience. Diamorics is run by Vesper/Tristen(/questioning a few other names). My pronouns are they/them or he/him!!!

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Queerbaiting wins pride flag

For when you really love queerbaiting.

As long as you're not claiming it as your own, feel free to use with or without credit! I'd love to see any flag edits though :]

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Red: Hazbin Hotel, where Castiel was sent after confessing his love for Dean

Pink: The pink stripe from Gilbert Baker's 1978 rainbow flag

Blue: The Dashcon ball pit

White and black: The heterosexual pride flag

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It's been a while since I posted here, hasn't it?

Gosh. Okay. It's been 4 years, huh. Where's the time gone? :P

I've had some of my lowest lows and my highest highs since I last posted... I'm. Basically an entirely different person now. I'm scrolling through my old posts on here and wow, I really have changed--

I never truly forgot about this blog, though. I kind of want to bring it back, but I don't know how to pick it up from where I left off... would anyone even be interested in this blog again? (Side note: liking this post will be taken as saying "yes")

Now feels like a more fitting time than ever to bring this blog back, though: today I took my first shot of testosterone!!!!!!!!!! I'm SO excited and I can't wait to see where HRT takes me :')

I'll think about stuff to say on here nowadays if anyone would want to hear it, but in the meantime, you can follow my (new) main at @lvitoula! I'm also making more art again after what was essentially an 8 year break from it, and you can find my art blog at @middlepath!!! I also run a blog where I tag my OCs in posts, which you can find at *remembers the url* ...............uh. @mpregsoleil. (Don't worry about the url.) But anyway if you want to ask me about my OCs PLEASE do not hesitate <- says this while frothing at the mouth and trembling violently (good thing)

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My gender can best be described by the phrase “Schrödinger's gender”

Whether my gender is alive or dead is up for debate, but at the same time it’s also in a weird state of both until proven otherwise

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Surprise surgery? If you don’t want to answer that’s 100% ok and ur right; just curious; if u think this is kind of invasive that’s valid have a good day/night

( In reference to the tags on this post )

Oh! I was contemplating mentioning it sooner, actually, but then I... didn’t

Yeah, turns out my appendix decided to get inflamed without (obvious?) prior warning symptoms and I had to get surgery to remove it

I’m absolutely terrified of surgery and recovery from that had some complications, but I’m doing a lot better now!!!

(Side note: by default, I’m horrible at getting around to answering asks... apparently this blog has 66 asks in its inbox right now??? So if you send me an ask and I end up forgetting to answer it, I just wanted to say real quick that happens a lot, but chances are it’s not me deliberately ignoring you!)

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1. Are you trans/non-binary?

2. Can your name be considered unusual?

If you fit both of these criteria: I will immediately love your name

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Someone: I'm non-binary and my name is Tick-Tock

Me, completely seriously:

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@alex-fenra (OP here) Hi!!! A couple days ago I added Marzipan to my list of names! Which is a confection similar to almond paste, but has a handful of key differences (such as tasting sweet, being smoother in texture, and is used for different purposes than almond paste most of the time)

Bolded for emphasis: Yes, you absolutely can choose an unusual name if you wanted to

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Hi everyone! With the current virus panic, I’m stuck at home with my parents, as is my sister, and things are a bit rocky. I’m trying to make some extra money so I can help support my sister if anything happens. That said, my commissions are open! 

I will do:

Fandoms/OCs

Humans/robots

Portraits/real people (with subject’s permission)

Body horror/mild gore

(music) character themes/plot themes/setting themes

I will NOT do:

NSFW/kink related content (I’m a minor)

Anything that promotes abuse/bigotry

Furries (I can try but I don’t think I’d be very good at it)

Overly complicated designs (feel free to ask!)

Please DM me if you’re interested, or boost this if you can! :)

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Okay I don't normally reblog stuff like commission info posts to this blog but I make exceptions if it's posted by my friends and Ink^^^ sure is a friend :flushedegg: :flushedegg: :flushedegg:

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When asked for my assigned gender at birth, I type F. People assume this is short for female but it's actually pressing F to pay respects

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Why do I use they/them pronouns, a pronoun set commonly associated with pluralized grammar?

Well, to give you some insight...

This is a robbery. Put your pronouns in the bag, they're mine now and I will soon merge them with my own. I AIM TO CREATE THE ULTIMATE FRANKENPRONOUN THAT CANNOT BE STOPPED

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1. Are you trans/non-binary?

2. Can your name be considered unusual?

If you fit both of these criteria: I will immediately love your name

[diamorics]

Someone: I'm non-binary and my name is Tick-Tock

Me, completely seriously:

[diamorics]

1. Are you trans/non-binary?

2. Can your name be considered unusual?

If you fit both of these criteria: I will immediately love your name

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While you shouldn't be stereotyping ALL non-binary people as cutesy... y'all... it's okay to let non-binary individuals be cutesy if they want to

If you're non-binary and want to be cutesy, go for it!!! It's just that you (=general you) shouldn't force cutesy stuff upon non-binary people without their permission!!!!!!

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Some of y'all don't bat an eyelash when people LITERALLY call their binary partners "baby", or any other cutesy nickname like "honey", but the moment certain non-binary people want to use "joyfriend" y'all go absolutely berserk

It's not even when you personally are being called joyfriend, it's when other people are using that for their own lovers

So yeah! It's okay for non-binary people to be cute if they want to! Just, as stated above, don't force cute stuff on non-binary people without their consent!

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While you shouldn't be stereotyping ALL non-binary people as cutesy... y'all... it's okay to let non-binary individuals be cutesy if they want to

If you're non-binary and want to be cutesy, go for it!!! It's just that you (=general you) shouldn't force cutesy stuff upon non-binary people without their permission!!!!!!

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One half of the cis fandom: This androgynous character is a boy!

The other half of the cis fandom: No!!! This androgynous character is a girl!!!!!

Me, a non-binary person: *sneaks up behind the androgynous character and aims my Nonbinaryifier-5000 with a condescending smirk...*

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...I had the “new post” screen open, intending to type out the very good post idea I got, but then I got completely derailed for who knows how long

Now I’ve completely forgotten what I was going to type, but I still want to update this blog, so uh

[insert either an insightful non-binary pride post or a funny joke post involving non-binary humor here]

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"Pronouns equal gender! Only men are allowed to use he/him and only women are allowed to use she/her!!!"

Sure would be dandy if this also meant you were willing to make people use my they/them pronouns, as someone who is neutrois with zero connection to the gender binary, and stand up for non-binary people who only use they/them or neopronouns... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

But alas, seems like this is about policing anyone who doesn't conform to a strict gender binary, regarding both presentation and gender identity

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While non-binary people absolutely do have access to the trans label (and I'm one of the non-binary people who calls themself trans too!), it also costs nothing in any currency to respect the non-binary people who don't want to call themselves trans

Dealing with internalized transphobia and/or exorsexism? I really do hope you can heal, and people shouldn't be an asshole to you for it! Yelling at you for having problems won't help mend things.

Feel alienated from the trans label from past experiences with gatekeeping, or even past experiences with a different topic than gatekeeping? I'm so sorry that happened, and I don't blame your reaction. People should respect how you deal with the aftermath of your experiences.

Just don't want to call yourself trans, even if you don't have any specific reason? That's okay too, and people should still treat you with respect!!!

Have any other reason(s) not listed here? You still deserve respect, and if it's from a personal issue, yet again I hope you can sort that out!!!!!

Obviously, you shouldn't generalize non-binary people as not being trans and shove out non-binary people who do call themselves trans, but seriously... there's a difference between not wanting to be invited yourself and excluding people who do want to attend. The first situation is perfectly fine, although the second is not.

So yeah, I say "trans/non-binary" not because it's a matter of me thinking being non-binary is completely separate from being trans, it's to still include the non-binary people who don't identify as trans.

(And like, even if the reason is currently coming from a place of misinformation about what being trans actually means... y'all... it's okay to correct the misinformation instead of being an asshole about it...)

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Life update: in an attempt at trying out the new group chat feature, I just made a group chat!!!

If you're not cis and you want a space to hang out, the group chat is titled "I can and will defeat my gender"!!!!!! I have no idea if you need more than titles to be located so if I need to add tags to it or something, please let me know,,,,,

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@echotheloser .........*remembers just now, after making the group chat, posts I make through diamorics don't seem to show up in the tags and haven't for over year now*

I added the tag "valsenco" (a fake word I made up one day) in case that'll help, but if it doesn't, tell me and I'll just manually invite anyone who wants to join!