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Hello everybody! Welcome to my blog :3
Apologies for the humorous/semi-serious intro chart, it's an older one I filled out and I couldn't find the usual intro template everyone seems to be using 😂
My name is Ben and I have been into tickling for as long as I can remember. After recently turning 30 and having a... 1/3 life crisis? 😂 I made a decision to start living more authentically and embracing who I am and what my desires are. For the longest time I was ashamed of my tickling kink. I just tried to pretend I didn't have it, I thought it was weird etc. but the reality is it is such a core part of my identity, in fact it's been with me longer than any of my beliefs, morals, ethics, knowledge, views of the world etc. so in a way it truly is one of the centers of my very being. And repressing such a core part of myself was, for lack of a better word, soul sucking.
So I told myself I was going to embrace who I am. Yeah, I'm into tickling. Ok, so what? Everyone has their thing and, as long as you're not harming anyone, there's nothing wrong with that. If someone thinks it's weird that I'm into tickling, then let them think it's weird. The pain of living inauthentically is far worse than the potential pain of ridicule. And the thing I've learned on this journey of authenticity is that it's not as scary as I thought it would be. In fact, it's substantially better than I thought it would be and my life has improved significantly since I started living more authentically, not just in the kink world but in my regular every day life.
So if you've read this far, thank you for being a part of this new chapter of my journey 😊 if you want to know a little more about me, here are some fun facts about myself 👀
I'm currently 30 years old (👴 dinosaur 🦕)
I'm in the sunny state of FL 🐊
I'm of Italian descent (mama mia 🍝)
I am a HUGE music junkie
Favorite music genres are indie, alt rock, post rock, shoegaze, idm, experimental
Favorite bands are Radiohead, Geese, The Killers, The Black Keys, Cage the Elephant, Phantogram, The Strokes, Modest Mouse
I love to talk about deep stuff that probably doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things
I like to make people laugh (in more ways than one 😉)
I'm a big fan of any kind of art, whether it be drawings, paintings, music, movies, tv shows, video games (yes I consider video games art and I will fight you on this)
Hobbies I enjoy are swimming, traveling, camping, hiking, birdwatching, stargazing, creating art, writing
I'm originally from the New England area
Favorite movie is 127 hours (not everyone's first pick but I thought it was so good, I loved the cinematography. also james franco)
Favorite TV show is reaaaaaaaaaaaallly hard to choose, it's gotta be a tie between the og last airbender or breaking bad (yes I know, two wildly different shows)
I'm a ler-leaning switch
I love to ler, so watch out lees 😈
That being said, I'll get super flustered when someone targets my lee side… not sure if revealing that is a good idea but oh well 👀 yolo
I used to play music and I'm going to start getting back into it, so who knows maybe I'll share some tunes and other art I make here 🎵
I'm pretty sociable but I can also get shy and worry about imposing on others
