Not Your Mother's Discourse

Just three dudes no longer interested in staying quiet with all the discourse going on. ALL MODS USE THEY/THEM PRONOUNS. We are against the gatekeeping going on in the lgbtq+ community and are avid SJW's. Queer and proud and our identity is not a slur. Mod Gem is 26, nonbinary (they/them and unaligned), neurodivergent, physically disabled, mixed race/black, and an aroflux aceflux lesbian voidpunk. Mod Spice is 24, agender/genderqueer (they/them), the only white person on this blog, neurodivergent, CSA survivor, and a queer voidpunk aroace. Mod J is an adult aspec-queer (they/them, TME), black, and Autistic. Don’t follow this blog unless you unconditionally support poc in the queer and lgbtq+ communities. This blog does not give a fuck about shipping discourse or fiction and if that bothers you then don’t follow. If you plan on using this fact to call us “pedo apologists” then please go step on a pile of legos. According to some users, this blog is lesbophobic (even though this blog’s creator is a lesbian) because we like to make sure we don’t interact with terfs, but if terfs come at us first we will publicly laugh at them until we get bored and then block them.

[diskhorsedudes]

Reminder that it really doesn’t matter what ways you’re marginalized, if you’re not black you’re just as capable of anti blackness as white cishet people. No amount of “but I’m gay!”, “but I’m trans!”, or “but I’m not white!” changes that.

And being neurodiverse/disabled isn’t an excuse for anti blackness either.

[diskhorsedudes]

Don’t like this post if you’re not gonna also reblog it.

Boost my voice, don’t just like it for woke points.

[diskhorsedudes]

I’d fucking love it if white people didn’t use this post to pat themselves on the back. I guarantee that no amount of “don’t people know this already?” or “isn’t this obvious?” will actually make you a good ally to black people.

The only things that will make you a good ally to us is listening to us, boosting our voices, defending us when we need it, calling out your fellow whites when they display overt and/or covert racist behavior, and checking yourself consistently.

[urgoodbabyboy]

Wanted to add your proximity to blackness doesn’t automatically make you incapable of anti blackness either. Just because you have black friends or go to protests doesn’t mean you don’t hold biases against us or use us to gain white savior points.

[weirdcheeks]

What about biases towards my people by BIPOC?

Not trolling, not joking - what about the disturbing trend of POC being openly and disgustingly biased towards other people of color, such as Latinos or Asians?

Boost my voice, and let's start a conversation about it. If we know how awful it is to endure racist behavior from others, why would we just turn around and do it towards each other?

And in this case, the power dynamic negating POC's language amd behaviors being considered racism does not count.

[diskhorsedudes]

1) Make your own damn post. The fact that you saw a post about anti-blackness and immediately went “but what about ME?” says a lot. Perhaps you have some things to work out on your own.

2) Talking about anti-blackness is not shutting down conversations about how black communities can have issues with Anti-Asian or Anti-Latin views

3) I know you aren’t trying to come onto DHD and make an argument when you are posting tons of transmedicalist bullshit and DEFENDING GRAHAM LINEHAM. Absolutely not. Get the fuck off this blog.

Mod J

Edit: OOF, AND THE HOMOPHOBIA! NO MA'AM.

JUST WEARING THE DELUSION LIKE A BADGE, GOODBYE

Absolutely not taking anything you say seriously, please go find someone else to try to whatabout at.

[diskhorsedudes]

"my DMs are open" anon sounds like they could be a child. There's no way an adult would send a post that stupid.

I honestly don't know. The childishness that some adults on the internet never ceases to surprise me.

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

I await your apology, but seeing as probably a yank (judging from your cowardice and inability to read), I assume you don't know the meaning of the word. If you'd actually like to talk rather than rage shit from a dark corner, I am willing to. My dms are open.

"My dms are open"

You're on anon, you fucking weirdo.

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

Holy shit, for real? For really real? Saying that a group of privileged, cruel white people from a formally rich nation allowing everything they are to slip away day by day so that a rich man can make a dollar and a brown man can go to jail - who are so willing to eat each other rather than accept the objective truth that they've always been terrible and anyone appealing to the past is lying to them - an illiterate 3rd world shit hole with some nice buildings disguised as a country - are you saying those things could be the same?

Holy shit? Really? The two things that are directly comparable to each other and are doing virtually the same thing as each other are the same? Holy shit. That's the point. Throw aussies in there, too.

[diskhorsedudes]

No. All of you scumbags rise up and fight. Every single one of you. Fight. Lose. Die. Actually die. The streets, gunned down like how you want so many others to be gunned down. You're not worth it.

[diskhorsedudes]

Reminder that it really doesn’t matter what ways you’re marginalized, if you’re not white you’re just as capable of racism as white people. No amount of “but I’m black I can't be racist,” or “but I’m brown and i'm more marginalized than whites!” changes that.

Aww, look, this guy thinks reverse racism is real.

I'm sorry that your life is lacking so much that you're desperate to be oppressed for attention.

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

I hope all y’all bitchass dies how y’all gonna make a post talking anti blackness then talking about y’all don’t care about fiction do y’all 3 brain cells not understand what anti black media does to black people do y’all not understand that romanticized pedo incest and more do for pedos and predators it helps them get their victims and no y’all bitchass csa survivor mod doesn’t get the right to approve this behavior y’all are pedo apologized

Come back when your dumb bitch ass learns the difference between fiction and propaganda

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

“Drug addicts deserve common decency no matter what drug they are addicted to, how severe their addiction is, and whether or not they are receiving help for their addiction.” Actually I think people who actively harm other people with their addiction deserve to be fucking shamed for it. DYPHUS or CPS, whatever they call themselves rarely help children of addicts and I think if someone is more inclined to go for a drink or a high rather than actually caring for someone they promised they would, they’re a bad person 👍🏻

-someone who is permanently fucked up because their mom decided alcohol was more important than raising a kid or staying sober during pregnancy 👍🏻

Hey, I get where you're coming from, but not all addicts are your shit ass mom and your mom is still worthy of basic human decency no matter how fucked up she is.

Dehumanization is the tool of fascists. Don't use it.

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

“You harassed me :’( so I’m gonna leave replies to every single post I see on your blog, delete my blog when too many people criticize me, make an entire hate blog about you, reblog with a response to every post I see on your blog, and screenshot your blog when you block me. I’m totally an innocent person here. This is karma for… *looks at post history* responding to my replies on your post.”

This is exactly what her logic is.

[nangbaby]

Normally, I would give you the benefit of the doubt for whoever you are talking about and wouldn't care, but this is what you recently told me is "criticism" when it came to me.

Besides, you and your friends tell people to delete their blogs and say they're pathetic if you drive them to suicide, police what people put on their blogs as criticism of you, and block them so you can reblog them with impunity.

If you drive someone to delete their blog, you are a bully.

[diskhorsedudes]

I...think you’ve got the wrong blog here, bud.

-J

[diskhorsedudes]

If you buy the new wizard game, you’re not a trans ally.

This is not a discussion.

[diskhorsedudes]

Drug addicts deserve common decency no matter what drug they are addicted to, how severe their addiction is, and whether or not they are receiving help for their addiction.

[igigix]

This is nonsense! Igrew up with a mother who's an addict. When a person is high or craving, they become aggressive and dangerous. They will make your life a living hell. They are destroying not only themselves, but also everyone around them. Imagine a 5-year-old girl is forced to sleep on the floor because her mom is intoxicated. What exactly is decent about that? And I’m not talking about weed, I’m talking about hardcore stuff.

[diskhorsedudes]

I’m sorry that you had to grow up that way, no one deserves that. Our point is that despite your mom being an addict, she deserves to be respected and treated with dignity as a person. 

Like, that doesn’t mean you have to forgive her for how she treated you. It’s not a dismissal of your abuse. We’re just saying that addicts are people and deserve to be treated like people. Your mom, terrible though she may be, doesn’t deserve to be treated as subhuman. That’s all. 

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

Once again.

To the anon in our inbox with accusations.

SEND. US. PROOF. OR DON’T FUCKING MESSAGE US TRIGGERING SHIT.

Suspect enough that you’re on anon, if you actually had any belief in what you were saying you’d tie your account to it. IF you have any legitimate proof of what you’re saying, fucking message it to us. 

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

Oh boy, do I love this blowing up my tumblr notifs on every blog I have but, for some reason, especially this one. 

Tumblr is such a good platform /j 

-Mod J

[liberalsarecool]

Corporate media fabricates a 'surge' of 'crime', yet fails to mention surge in police violence.

[particularj]

“The U.S. cages Black people at 6 times the rate of South Africa at the height of Apartheid.”

Let that sink in, and then don’t even come trying to say there’s no systemic racism.

[shipeveryonetogether]

Hi! Can I get any sort of source on that, or information about what metrics they're using? Are they accounting for the enormously higher population of the United States than South Africa? How about the increased percentage of Black people in South Africa compared to in the US?

Give me a reason to believe this beyond "you should believe everything about Black oppression in America because if you don't you're a racist denier" and I will.

[wetwareproblem]

This took 15 seconds on Google. Fellow white folks, please make even the slightest effort to do your own research on racism before demanding that someone spoon-feed you.

[shipeveryonetogether]

...Ash I'm not white and I don't think I should have to do research on every random person's claim just in case it's right. I don't think "cite your sources on things that aren't common knowledge" should be controversial.

[diskhorsedudes]

There’s nothing wrong with asking for sources. What you did was insinuate that they didn’t exist or that, if they did, they wouldn’t actually be relevant or correct. In relation to a topic that has been being studied for decades. 

You could have just said “Can I have a link directly to the twitter thread” or “What keywords should I use to find this information”. You could have browsed the notes. You could have sucked it up and typed less words than you used in your first response into DuckDuckGo. 

Instead you decided to type a sentence that basically translates to a condescending af demand to convince you that something racist is happening. 

So why, at this point, would I not believe that you’re an anti-black racism denier just based on how you decided to respond to this post.

Mod J

[gem-femme]

Hey, everyone! My partners @18-toe-beans and @well-you-see are in some financial trouble due to one of them getting their hours cut at their current job and they could use some help with rent and groceries while they look for a second/new job. They’re a queer trans couple living in Minneapolis, dealing with all the shit going on there, and they’ve been my safe harbor since I moved back here.

If you like and have been educated by my content, please help them if you can! They’ve been a major support system for me while I’ve been trying to fight against my oppression and they deserve all the kindness they can get. Thank you all so much in advanced 🧚🏾✨🏳️‍🌈

Here’s their paypal and here’s their cash app.

[18-toe-beans]

We are currently in the negative in our bank so any bit helps thanks! Still job searching and negotiating hours.

[diskhorsedudes]

Anyone else experiencing time distortion because it feels like the last post on this blog was like 6 months ago so when I saw the “18 days ago” and glazed out like the edibles just kicked in 

Mod J

[diskhorsedudes]

I.... Aren't all of the mods people of color? Not saying people of color can't be racist but like..... What? Can people on Tumblr learn to read please

What race we all are is literally in the blog description lol it’s easily available so it’s really dumb when people making assumptions. 

Mod J