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How to prepare for divorce? Do you have the "proper" tools & strategies?
I learned through many, many trials and errors and many years of craziness and sagas that divorce is about four areas that you need to carefully analyze and carefully think about BEFORE you even make the decision to divorce.
To read more : How to prepare for divorce
One massive tip how to get though a divorce emotionally.
You should be treating your divorce like a business, what does that mean? If you’re to go into a business meeting and you’re not happy with your boss or what your colleague does or the next project, are you going to freak out and yell and scream and be hysterical and put all the whole big show?
To read more : How to get though a divorce emotionally
Do your friends give you the best divorce strategies and advice?
Whether you like it or not, your possie will make you or break you. The people you surround yourself with from the moment you decide to get divorced, from the moment you’re thinking about getting divorced, the people that you’re talking to, the people you surround yourself with…. will help you to create your future.
To read more : Do your friends give you the best divorce strategies?
Avoid divorce and save your marriage by doing this...
Having marriage problems can be daunting. Yet, there are solutions.
Do you want to know the secret to avoiding marriage intervention?
Do you want to know the secret to avoiding having to go to a therapist when things have exploded, when matters have gone way out of control? It’s very important to have goals that are aligned between you and your spouse and you and your other significant other and make sure that you’re always aligned.
How to deal with divorce pain? You learn more!
I know you probably haven’t heard this term before. But when I read this in Brian Tracy’s Book, Maximum Achievement, I was jumping for joy because this is exactly what I’m teaching in the Divorce by Rose app. This is exactly what I‘ve been saying all along in my coaching years and I want to read this to you because it makes so much sense that I want you to know about this.
Depression after divorce is real when you don't make proper decisions.
Making the decision to divorce is a very difficult and loaded decision. It requires a lot of thought and attention and focus on many different areas of your life. But one thing that I learned the very hard way is that procrastinating the decision also doesn’t help. And I was very good at procrastinating because I was really worried about many different areas. And a lot of my decisions were “Should I stay?” “Should I go?” “If I go…” “What about this?” and “What about that?” “How about this?” and “How about that?” And I was overwhelmed with fear, worries and anxieties- that my decision to divorce or not was more fear-based than anything else. I stopped thinking logically and I was full on emotions.
How to get a divorce without making mistakes
I will start off by sharing my story and the painful lessons I had learned after having spent $80,000 in legal fees and stressed for a decade over complete nonsense. I was really wrong about my divorce from the very beginning. Honestly, I was so naive, I thought “He doesn’t get along with me. We’re just not meant to be together. Let’s just each go our separate ways. He goes his way, I go my way. We each have our own individual lives.” I honestly naively thought that divorce was just about that. Little did I know from one ambush after another, after another, after another, after another, for years to come, that the divorce really wasn’t as easy as I thought it was going be.
How to survive a divorce as a man and a dad.
One of the biggest problems with divorce is that men and dads are trying to divorce alone. They’re trying to figure it out on their own. Divorce is not something that you can just YouTube about and just figure it out on your own. It’s not something where the answer will just miraculously come to you. You have to surround yourself with a good support system. And that’s one of the advantages that mothers have is that they are really resourceful, good at communicating and finding new friends and people to listen to them.
How does a divorced dad survive? Is the pain the same as that of the moms?
Men and dads have a very tough time post-divorce and the loneliness is a killer to many. The suicide rate is extremely high and the loneliness rate is also extremely high with men post-divorce. So, dads here is the ultimate platform that provides you a safe place to share, learn and explore more about yourself.
One HOT tip for the cheapest way to get a divorce.
Let me tell you a story about Sally’s pink shoes and grilled cheese sandwiches that cost $5,000.
So, I left Sally’s pink shoes at the father’s house and the father refuses to give me back the shoes. So, I argue back and forth and say, “give me back the shoes- I bought them”. And he says, “no, not giving you back Sally’s pink shoes”. So, I go to my lawyer and I say “he won’t give me back the shoes and I want the shoes back, I bought them, I paid them. Here’s the receipt and I want them back”. So, his lawyer sends my lawyer letters and his lawyer responds back and we go back and forth and back and forth and back and forth. And guess what happens?
How to restart life after divorce? Want peace of mind?
Here is a shout out to all of you parents who are already divorced. What tips or tricks or advice or suggestions would you offer a parent whose contemplating divorce or newly separated? And I know this is a loaded question because I’ve got a whole list of things that I would suggest to someone. But my point here is, that we all learned many lessons throughout our divorce… many things that we wish we would have done differently. Many things that we wish we would have done in a smart way, more cost efficient way. What would be your top pointer for someone who is thinking about going through divorce or someone who already started to go through it and is maybe feeling lost and confused? What words of wisdom would you share with them? Please post them below in the comments and the reason that I want to do this is because I want people- parents- who are in that stage of making the decision: “Should I stay or should I go?” or in the stage of making decisions on what to do with the kids and finances and this and that… I want them to learn from those of us who have experience.
Why? Because that is the power of community. And, that is the key ingredient we need in order to downtrend the nasty divorce epidemic.
Divorce tip for mothers: How to financially prepare for divorce
I share this same message every single day to women and mothers worldwide. And sometimes it’s hard to hear. At other times they’re really understanding the truth and validity behind what I’m saying. It is extremely, extremely important for women to become financially independent of the father or the spouse. And let me explain what I mean. If you are going to budget based on monies that he is going to give you every month, whether that’s child support or alimony, I have to tell you that you’re going to fall into problems. And the reason is because jobs come and go. Money comes and goes. Games are played on a regular basis. And we’ve all heard all the kinds of games that are being played by people who choose not to pay the bills.
Planning for separation and divorce can be simple or painful. The more prepared you are, the easier it will be today and tomorrow.
Let’s think outside of the box for a second here. And let’s look at divorce from a different perspective.
Why?
Because I want to help you make the decision “Should I stay married or should I get divorced” from a logical standpoint. I want you to remove the emotions from the equation at the moment and just think logically so that you can make a PROPER decision of what you should do from this point forward.
Is it normal to think about divorce?
Divorce and Enthusiasm go hand and hand and I know that sounds really weird so hear me out here. You are getting divorced. Conversation of divorce is happening because something is broken. Something is just no longer working anymore. Someone is just not feeling good about this marriage anymore. Someone is distancing themselves- whether it’s you or both of you, it doesn’t really matter. The bottom line is that something isn’t working. And so, if something is not working, divorce is your golden opportunity to REDESIGN your life as you want it to be. To HONOR yourself. To give yourself what it is you actually want in your life.
Divorce by Rose Community App
DbR is a Divorce Community App moderated by divorce professionals.
We are not pro marriage or pro divorce either.
Rather, we are here to help YOU make the RIGHT decision for you & your family based on facts & logic, rather than on your emotions.
In order to avoid ending up broke & broken- whether financially, emotionally and/or physically, you must first have the proper answers to your questions- such as:
” Should I be saving a marriage that makes me feel this way?”
“When is it time to divorce?”
“Why not to divorce?”
“Is there life after divorce?”
“Could I survive divorce?”
“How do I plan for divorce financially?”
“Can I restart life after divorce?”
“I can’t do this alone- I need divorce support”
“Separation or divorce- what should I do?”
“I’m certain I want a divorce- what do I do now?”
If this is your 1st time walking into this unknown territory, you don’t know what you don’t know. UNTIL someone neutral shows you the path.
Before getting divorced, it is most ideal to complete a divorce budget worksheet to help you remove the emotions from the equation and put things into perspective.
In this step by step analysis, you will properly review your finances and budget to realistically determine if you cannot afford your divorce or post divorce life or, when should you get a divorce. Whether you are contemplating divorce or newly separated, many parents are fearful and anxious about “not having enough money” when they don’t even know the “true” numbers.
You should logically & methodically plan out your divorce. Learn to think “outside of the box” and not allow your negative emotions to make big decisions for you!
With Ravit’s decade long personal divorce experience along with my experience in divorce coaching, she’s been helping mothers and fathers navigate through the unsettling emotions of separation, divorce, and co-existing, and teaching strategies and techniques to mend and repair, have better and more successful communication, and live happier lives.
She will help you understand how to get organized and plan carefully so that you are more likely to make an informed decision during this process and ultimately get the life that you want, rather than make an emotional decision that you will likely end up regretting.