Venus in Aries - Baby Spice
Wine red dress with blood lips glisten like rubies,
‘Catch me, hold me, and release me and I will stay by your side. Keep me captive and I will burn you from the inside,’
touch the flame until it blows out suddenly, prepare to be beaten
at your own game
The surface impression of Venus in Aries is a girl on fire. The battle is fought for the heart of true love, but the real battle is trying to maintain it. Truly, she is just seeking someone who will show her the way that love is meant to be. And the simply painful and wonderful underlying reason is because she grows out of people.
The Venus in Aries love potion is the spark of chemistry between Ares and Aphrodite. Her birth was the declaration that love has won the war and victory to the people. Yet now she is here, so far from home, defenceless without her weapons and the Gods of protection. She fights in her own combat zone, negotiating the sense of being inherently exposed, vulnerable, or even prone to target because she fears these qualities will be easily detected as weakness by opportunists. And it’s another historical recital, confronting the battlefield of love and war. Capturing this heart is attempting to tame one of the most perilous zodiacal creatures, like trying to capture a tiny fire fairy moving like lightning in your bare hands. She is rarely flattered by compliments of appearances, appeals, and ideals- she is unruly, chaotic, confused, brave, broken, raw, and real natural beauty. The daintiness of Venus and Aries fire mixes into a coquettish or innocent seductiveness that others commonly mistake for flirtation or suggestiveness. This may be quite challenging during the early years, though she eventually develops a firm enough self-awareness to assert herself, and make her intentions covertly or overtly clear.
People with Venus in Aries are exhilarated by the adventure of self-discovery. It’s like reading a book and writing further chapters at the same time. Turning every page offers a new spectrum of colours, questions, answers, interactions, and dimensions of her character. Eventually, she is the author of a tremendous trilogy and the absolute authority of her own life.
The individual is deeply loyal, invested, and becomes deeply attached to relationships. She knows nothing else than pouring her heart, soul, blood, and guts into everything. Friends are adopted as family members, a group of comrades that support and energise one another.
The condition of Venus in Aries sculpts the attraction to people that challenge and push her comfort zone beyond limit. The thrill and the risk is that she is still establishing what her comfort zone even is. Venus in Aries is generally coupled with inflammatory, stormy, and unstable people and relationships. Though it’s also possible for the individual with Venus in Aries to form relationships with grounded, nurturing, and introspective types. Such qualities can provide the nurturing and space that she needs to make mistakes, fall, regather, and try again. However plenty of Venus in Aries individuals would still be painfully bored and stir crazy in such dynamic. Both extremes push her comfort zones. In the case that she is motivated to do her best everyday, everything is a grand competition. And also in the instance of being exposed, removing the shame of being emotionally and intimately exposed with another person. She tends to have a skill for counselling and de-escalating the masculine, so it’s also possible that the finds the boisterous and dominating types to be intimidated by her. For Venus in Aries, sometimes an ‘equal’ is someone challenging her in unexpected ways, someone who shows her how to be ‘strong’ in a different way.
Venus in Aries love affairs can be intellectually based, playful, tense, explosive, and filled with lessons. Friendships outside and within the relationship are important. Aries is a sign that operates very instinctually, and she has always had this ability to immediately discern if a person should be present in her life. It’s like a radar that reads someone’s importance, purpose, and compatibility at rapid speed. If she’s not interested, she rarely pretends to be.
Power and control can become sore points in relationships. Her need for control can increase as the relationship develops as she feels a loss of control in herself. She is still learning about who and what to be, and how to be around herself, and now there is somebody else to learn how to be around too. Controlling behaviour tends to express from a deeply vulnerable or afraid place hidden inside. She is coming to understand her complex and volatile nature, along with the fallible relationships that seem to accompany it. It comes with developing the understanding of what she wants and needs from a relationship, and she fears her partner is the same. Because she is impulsively capable of anything, she fears her partner is too, and maybe she will be left just as she could leave. The fight for her life is finding and blooming who she is so that she can truly love you. It’s true when either lover say, ‘we will be together forever,’ disregarding she stays or she leaves, you will always remember her.
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