ABDL : How to end Locktober for your Baby
My Daddy Tips posts aim to give you insight, ideas and information about living ABDL 24/7. The commitment it implies but also all the fun and imagination that goes with it. I hope you find them useful.
Find my other “Daddy Tips” below:
Daddy tips - 1 - ABDL : How to make your little crave for their diapers (click here!)
Daddy tips - 2 - Diaper Chart : How to keep your little obedient and motivated (click here!)
Daddy tips - 3 - Baby food : A gourmet journey (click here!)
Daddy tips - 4 - ABDL : How routine makes it work ? (click here!)
Daddy tips - 5: ABDL 24/7 : Is it the right thing for you? (Click here!)
Daddy tips - 6: Organizing your little's wardrobe (Click here!)
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October is a month I look forward to every year, even more since I have been living with my little guy. Last year was his first Locktober and the least I can say is that I was way too flexible and did not really pay attention to it. Big mistake! Those kind of moments help reinforce who is in charge and who makes the rules in the house. If Daddy wants to do Locktober, then we will do it and under my rules. After all, I am the only key holder.
If you have been following us for some time, you will know that Baby’s little willy (as we call it…) is locked up 24/7 all year long with some exceptions for stickies granted when he reaches enough points on his Weekly Diaper Chart. However I slightly changed the rules for this month of October, which you can find here if you are interested.
By doing so, Baby’s routine got a bit shaken up and the goal was for him to be locked even more than usual (difficult, I know). And it worked! Only one stickies during the month, which were done very quickly if you ask me, but let’s keep it a secret. We wouldn’t want Baby to be embarrassed… would we ? 😉
So, in order to celebrate the end of a successful Locktober, I once again tried to imagine something a bit different for my baby boy.
“One full hour of uncaged time on November 1st!”
This is how I described it to baby at the end of October, as an incentive to keep him motivated (and mostly stop his whining because the month was getting a bit long from his point of view…)
You know me, there had to be some additional rules for this exceptional special hour:
- pajamas, pacifier and bib would have to be worn,
-a diaper would have to be worn (obviously),
- this diaper would have to be soggy and messy for the cage to be unlocked,
- several stickies allowed but no diaper change in between,
- no touching the diaper allowed,
- everything happens under Daddy’s supervision.
I can still picture Baby’s face after the announcement of the rules, a bit of blush from embarrassment but also determination to make the most of this hour. After all, he is used to those rules and making stickies in a messy diaper, but a full hour? Several stickies in the same diaper? Never happened!
In anticipation for this exciting show (Daddy also deserves to have some fun), I stocked up on fiber food for Baby a few days before. Veggie or prune baby food jars are ideal for this. It’s important to make sure this is part of the daily diet for your little one, but especially for such a cause. A packed Pamp was necessary!
November 1st comes in and Baby can’t wait to be unlocked. One problem: he rarely goes “boom-boom” in the morning and it does not seem to be happening for the first half of the day. Until, 1:30pm after lunch...
I always let him play in his playpen for a bit and this is usually when things can get a bit stinky, if you see what I mean.
As expected, I hear him call me half an hour later with a big smile, waiting for something.
“What’s up baby boy?”, I say clearly smelling something in the air.
“I went boom-boom!”, he proudly replies.
“Great job Buddy, just like yesterday and the day before and before…”, I say ruffling his hair. “Now daddy needs to go for a run, will you be a good boy until I’m back?” I say as I start leaving the room.
He frowns and I can see disappointment on his face, “b…but Dadda we said willy would be unlocked”. I had planned for this joke to go a bit longer but I cannot resist seeing my little guy this sad, so decide to cut it off right away.
“Ohhhh of course, how could I forget!?”, I reply playfully. “I’m just messing with you baby, of course you’ll get to make your stickies in a bit”
A sigh of relief can be seen on his face.
“Just play a few more minutes and I’ll unlocked the cage, okay?”
He nods and gets back to playing, probably not even paying attention to what he’s doing. I wanted to make sure he could have some time to really feel what’s around his bum for a bit of time.
I come back 15 minutes later, and lay him on his play mat, simply opening the diaper and unlocking the cage from a very full diaper already. ***Any caregiver reading, this is another proof gloves are a necessary part of a Daddy/Mommy changing kit***
I quickly tape the diaper back on very tightly and can tell that someone is already VERY happy. Zip his pajamas back on, pop his paci back in his mouth and take Baby on my lap for some bouncy bouncy time while giving him some very gentle diaper rubs. I can tell he's impatient to join his favorite plushie back in the playpen, so put him back in there and watch him get his “big boy time”, as he likes to call it.
Good thing his plushie loves him very much because not a lot of people would agree to being humped by such a little stinker.
I sit on the couch and enjoy the show, very content of my Locktober strategy.
Unfortunately for me, the show lasts about 90 seconds before the humping stops abruptly.
“Uh oh, someone is making his first stickies in three weeks?” I say.
“Mhmm”, he moans biting onto his pacifier.
“Good boy, what a big and strong man you are humping your plushie wearing a very soggy and messy diapee, sucking on your paci, all of that in front of Daddy”, I say teasingly.
I know this is a crucial time for me to keep him in Baby mood and the best time to make him embarrassed as the post-stickies reality strikes him.
“Now I wouldn’t lose too much time if I were you baby boy, you still have 57 minutes without your pee-pee cage and who knows when it’ll be uncaged after that!”
“I know Daddyyy”, he mumbles, probably in a mix of emotions between the mushy back and the sticky front of his padding.
He lays there for a few minutes and suddenly starts rubbing his diaper against his plushie again.
“Round 2, here we go!” I tell myself.