Ecstatic Harmony

Late-30s lesbian hypno domme. Owner and sculptor of @corrupting-lexi. Not seeking subs, or communication generally. Reblogs are a mix of my interests and posts for Lexi. 18+

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[daughtxr-of-lilith]

A kind reminder for doms<3

It's okay if you're not in the mood to play. It's okay if you don't want to be touched, or if you feel too tired to lead.

It's okay if you need a break, or if you experience dom drop and don't feel like yourself.

Your needs matter, too. You don't have to perform an endless role of being in control. You're allowed to be human, to step back, to say "Not today."

And it’s okay to lean on your partner and let them take care of you, in whatever way you need that.

Your worth as a Dom isn't measured by how much you can give without rest. It's measured by how honestly you show up, for yourself and for them.

Take care of yourself. You deserve the same compassion you offer others 🖤

[switchyhypnoslut]

Live action shot of me rn

[stonerslutt2000]

always💕

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[denial-switch]

The training. It doesn’t stop. It can try to think, but the intensity of the machine is so high that it can’t ignore it even for a moment. It can only out for so long before it gives up trying.

[denial-switch]

To check if training is done, turn off the machine. If toy being trained relaxes into a totally, still, blank trance—not moving or speaking or asking for anything—then you know it’s given up on any purpose besides being fucked.

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[pet-chrissy]

showing proper respect.. x

[sow-hat1960]

Bettie Page by Irving Klaw

[deepestfkitty]

Solo cam show outside

The pink bluetooth vibrator thats making her quiver 👆🏼

[babygirlsamiiiiii]

love playing with my toys

[fae-kitti]

soft and sweet <3

links

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Lost

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[dailyhot69]

Are you an obedient girl? 🧐

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[corrupting-lexi]

Calli and I have a dynamic that I think most people wouldn't really clock in vanilla spaces. I have always been very independent and self-reliant, and it can be very difficult for me to hand over the reins and just trust someone else to handle things for me.

Yesterday we were out on a very lovely walk through the neighborhood and Calli started to lead us in a direction I wasn't expecting. I began to start questioning her, asking why she wanted to go in that direction and trying to understand what she was thinking, because that is my natural instinct.

In the middle of my sentence she simply told me to shush with a stern "shhhhh". I immediately complied and the effect it had on me was profound. Just the simple act of obeying sent a wave of arousal shooting through my body, immediately making me flush and extremely wet.

The following realization that for me obedience is pleasure made me feel so weak and submissive and pliant, and I'm sure my cheeks were bright red. I think I probably would have done anything she told me to in that moment, standing out on the sidewalk of our sleepy little neighborhood on a muggy spring evening.

It was such a simple interaction and I have been riding the subby high of it for almost 24 hours now.

[dominacalli]

As hot as I found this exchange, and the post she made of it, I would like to talk about something a little more serious, here, as well. This is an element I really love about our dynamic. I have always held Lexi in the utmost esteem, and her independence and self-sufficiency are admirable, but they come at a cost. She's too aware, too capable, and it wears on her. She needs someone to take responsibility away from her, to free her from the weight of consideration and give her a beat to follow.

It is both my privilege and my responsibility to provide that.

I may enjoy shushing her, watching the chain reaction of emotional responses wash over her, seeing her realize how deeply her conditioning affects her judgement and behavior, even in public -- but it's also an act of service. In a committed relationship founded on such established mutual respect and admiration, service is never a one-way street.

It might be a home cooked meal or a massage or an agonizing ruin, or, as in this case, something subtler. Without uttering a syllable, I remind her that she is safe letting go and following my lead. That I can take care of her problems too: that there is no weight she must bear alone.

I know that not every D/s dynamic is like ours (and frankly they shouldn't be, our dynamic was born from decades of friendship and its intensity is rightly concerning to some), and that not everyone wants that kind of vulnerability from a sexual dynamic, but it makes what we have feel special to me and I don't know where else I could have found that feeling.

[corrupting-lexi]

Calli and I have a dynamic that I think most people wouldn't really clock in vanilla spaces. I have always been very independent and self-reliant, and it can be very difficult for me to hand over the reins and just trust someone else to handle things for me.

Yesterday we were out on a very lovely walk through the neighborhood and Calli started to lead us in a direction I wasn't expecting. I began to start questioning her, asking why she wanted to go in that direction and trying to understand what she was thinking, because that is my natural instinct.

In the middle of my sentence she simply told me to shush with a stern "shhhhh". I immediately complied and the effect it had on me was profound. Just the simple act of obeying sent a wave of arousal shooting through my body, immediately making me flush and extremely wet.

The following realization that for me obedience is pleasure made me feel so weak and submissive and pliant, and I'm sure my cheeks were bright red. I think I probably would have done anything she told me to in that moment, standing out on the sidewalk of our sleepy little neighborhood on a muggy spring evening.

It was such a simple interaction and I have been riding the subby high of it for almost 24 hours now.

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[hissubmissivelittle]

Neeeed