Wow I haven’t post anything for about a year now, I am back! Hopefully adding some new twist to my blog. Lots of changes, I am going to focus on motivational posts, health-related posts, architectural posts, as well as food posts :)
Been reading a lot lately and came across this really interesting article discussing about relationships. Some are wisdoms and really resonate with me, except it is not in English. So here is the translation of the article:
You didn’t ask, I didn’t tell, this is distance
You asked, I didn’t tell, this is barrier
You asked, I told, this is trust
You didn’t ask, I told, this is dependancy
Don’t force yourself to squeeze into a world you can’t fit in. Putting others in a hardship and making yourself cheap, why do that?
Sometimes when we accidentally discover the truths, we realize those “things” we hold on so tightly seemed so ridiculous
Who doesn’t fake? Who doesn’t change? Nobody is anybody’s possession, why so serious about some people and some things?
The truth is, the one who always seems happy is the one who needs love the most
Those who care about me, I will always care you more. Those who doesn’t, why should I continue?
Do not ever change for anyone, if they cannot accept the worst of you, they are not worthy to have the best of you
Most people would think life is long, there is always opportunity in the future… some-a-day. The truth is, life is all about subtraction, every time you see a person you are using up one opportunity to see the same person, hence one less time
How others perceive you has nothing to do with you, how you live your life has nothing to do with others
How much does a pound of “face” worth? Why should we concerned about what other people?
Someday you will realize, kindness is harder than smartness. Smartness is gifted, and kindness is a choice
Disconcern doesn’t necessary mean we forgot, but certainly mean we purposely distant from each other. If we kept quiet for too long, it will take a lot of courage to even make the first contact
Don’t use hurtful words when you are in a bad mood, especially towards people who love you
Sometimes, there is no next time, there is no start all over again, there is no pause and resume. Sometimes, when you miss it now, you will never ever have a chance
Use a “happy to-” attitude to live a peaceful and joyful life
Every problem is our own problem
Sometimes even when we forgive someone, we are still not happy. That is because, we forgot to forgive ourselves
People live and die, as long as we are alive, live at the best as we can. We can live without love, we can live without brands, but we cannot live without happiness
Most people are “hard-to-get”. We take granted of the ones who loves us, cares about us, and treats us nicely. And we go after the ones who are cool, and doesn’t care much about us. In the end, the we are the ones who got hurt badly
Things we no longer want are garbage, no matter how expensive or how good they are
If you are not blind, then use your ears to understand me
It’s not about how many people you know, it is about how many people are by your side when you’re in a bad situation
You lost the moment when you open your mouth to explain things that do not require explanation
A lot of people goes into your live just to teach you a lesson. Then they leave right after
Distance doesn’t creative beauty, it justified a beatable weak relationship
Life is all about this - can’t let go, stuck in my head, can’t see it right, can’t forget
Women feel insecure about guys because they are not seductive enough, Men think women are materialistic because they are not competent enough
Slowly, as we grow up we become more quiet. We understand more but we are not as happy as before
We are not strangers but we act like our relationship is worse than strangers
If we are above people then we respect people. If we are below people, we respect ourselves
The reason why God created fingerprints is because He wants us to know everyone has their own wound
Apologize to yourself for not loving you for all these years
Women doesn’t need to captivate everyone, she only needs one man to love her with his life
We only think about crazy stories when we care, if we don’t. we wouldn’t even think about it