useless at best

28 gaalee veteran drchickenslinger on a03

[drchickenslinger]

you know you’re suddenly a veteran of a ship when someone just takes your 12 chapter long fic from five years ago and basically just rewrites it with a few extra details

[rrdiner]

everyone is like "oh pop rocks would put a victorian in a coma" but i think the smells of 17th century europe would kill me on impact. did you know versailles originally didn't have bathrooms? they'd just piss on the floor or on a wall outside. id be dead in a day

[drchickenslinger]

you can tell a lot about someone based on who they ship

[krakene]

You can pinpoint the exact moment his heart bursts with happiness

[stinkbrat]

so no head?>

[alovelystrawberryy]

Somewhere not far

[drchickenslinger]

and just like that no one would care

i cared for all of you

why cant you do the same

[nflstreet]

[binghsien]

How to have a conversation about a topic you’re not interested in or don’t know anything about:

Listen to what the other person has to say about the topic.

Ask a question about what they said. Asking them to clarify or explain something you don’t understand is great, but any question will do. All else fails, ask them to explain what they like about some part of the topic.

Listen to their responses and go back to step 2.

Do this until 5-15 minutes has passed, then change the subject to a topic of your interest, unless you are actually interested in learning more on this subject, in which case, go on for as long as you like.

Sometimes, they will say something like “I’m sorry to blather on about [topic].” This is an attempt at a conversational dismount. You can either say “no, it was fascinating, thanks” and then bring up your own topic, or you can say “no, it’s fascinating, please keep going” if you want to keep hearing about their topic. Note the tense difference (past -> moving on, present -> keep going).

I just thought I’d write a script for this, because someone who can’t / won’t do this came up in a Captain Awkward column, and listening about topics you have no interest in is a really useful skill to have and not often explicitly taught, particularly to boys and men.

[tfw-adhd]

This is really helpful advice for people with adhd/autism because we’re often not great at social skills and holding conversations

[drchickenslinger]

fuck the autumn

the forceful decay of something beautiful

fuck the fall

the downfall of our love

you tragic, disgusting, toxic animal

[drchickenslinger]

so many people are fake as fuck lmaoo

thank god ive elevated

[cuntaloupes-deactivated20241215]

U ever catch urself clenching the living SHIT out of your jaw for no reason ....calm down queen nothing's happening.......yet

[r4cs0]

Thanks, staff.

[r4cs0]

What a great time to reblog this

[odogaronfang]

[kittens-jpg]

source

[alittledesi]

[nebuvoid]

kakashi doink moment

[nebuvoid]

everyone love kakashi doink moment

[seravph]

I think that in real life…. Relationships r like . Your partner WILL ‘trauma dump’ on you. You will have to perform ‘emotional labor’ for your partner. Your partner will make mistakes. You will also do all of these things. The very nature of love is irrational and problematic and difficult …. To expect a relationship to be free of these things is strange to me…. The point is that your relationship to that person is ultimately worth it, and worth growing with them, helping each other, seeing the worst parts of another person and being able to love them anyway