Dumbasses in Love

Former Destiel blog; now whatever gay shit my hyperfocus fancies. Recently acquired by the ADHD community. aro/ace spectrum because slightly bi but only in theory lol; technically agender but don't give enough of a shit to label as such. she/her/hers.

[lesbianeddiediass]

The thing is when people say that Eddie wouldn't care about being gay or whatever he is does have some truth to it. However when he first figures out he likes men I think he will have some issue with identifying with who he is. Not because of internalized homophobia or anything, but because Eddie has always known who he is. He is was a husband, a father, a veteran, a firefighter, a friend. Now he has this new, undefined label because he really did love Shannon (however that love maybe construed), and he is struggling because there is this new thing he doesn't know. And I think that is what will make him spiral — not him liking men, or being in love with Buck, but not knowing something about himself.

[dumbasses-in-love]

Also he's fucking ace. That reaaaaaaaally complicates things.

[thebuckbuckgoose]

Buddie Texts AU | Pt 1/?

[dumbasses-in-love]

I swear to god they're three mins away from doing an avenue Q

[sluttyquarantinetheory]

The concept that married people live longer is interesting. I'm sure there is some merit to the idea that if you're married there is someone there to nag you about going to the doctor, but I think much larger factors are having the finances of dual incomes and access to an immediate support person.

Surgeries require having a designated person to look after you. Many injuries require driving to somewhere like an emergency room which can be hard to do if you are the one injured. If you're home with the flu, it's hard to tell when it's bad enough to go to the hospital without another person checking on you. And if you pass out it requires another person to find you like that to get medical aid.

You can prop it up as the benefits of marriage, but I think there's a much deeper discussion to be had about how we've built society around marriage as an inevitable conclusion and neglected to build support systems that function outside of romantic pairings.

[dumbasses-in-love]

Isn't this about married men specifically? Pretty sure I've recently heard about this study being done and the outcome was that unmarried women love longer than married once. So for that to be true and the "married PEOPLE love for longer to be true" men must be living a lot longer when they're married to tip the scales like that.

[buckslasagna]

holy shit okay….

[dumbasses-in-love]

Maybe it will hit his heterosexuality for once

[cannibalchicken]

[thenightetc]

@argumate

[argumate]

you verb noun?

[redfagdiver]

You verb noun? You verb noun like the comparison? Oh!! Punishment for title! Punishment for amount of time!!!!

[thisishowyoumakemovies]

You deconstruct meme? You deconstruct meme into its base parts? Oh!! Explanation for readers! Explanation for one thousand reblogs!!!!

[76ello]

Miette, the gift that keeps on giving.

[diaz911]

I can't get over Chim, Maddie and Athena all collectively not doubting for a second that an injured Eddie will jump out a window and go on the run from the police to find Buck like everyone knows what those two mean to each other it's not even a conversation worth having it's a given that Eddie will do whatever is in his earthly power to do to find his man and they all know it and dammit that has to mean something.

[dumbasses-in-love]

Remember when Athena and Buck when Maddie and Doug? Something's different here.

[bucksbabybelly]

Schrödinger’s buddie: not canon but also canon enough to get hate crimed in small towns

[brittany-murphy]

9-1-1, Mother's Boy (S09E13)

[dumbasses-in-love]

Can someone please edit this with Mika's Ice Cream in the background please and thank you ever so many

[shnehollander]

Eddie Diaz 9-1-1 S09E13

[dumbasses-in-love]

9-1-1 nbc, buddie

[always-rolling-my-eyes]

Imagine if the entire Nashville crew thought Buck and Eddie were a couple this whole time 😂

[dumbasses-in-love]

except they haven't met a gay person in their lives ISTG

[sheepstiel]

so we get to watch misha collins experience workplace homophobia once again

[dumbasses-in-love]

It's fine, since apparently he's straight now

[countthelions]

WIKIPEDIA IS 25 TODAY MAKE SOME NOISE!!!!!!!!!!!! [Their celebration article here]

[countthelions]

there is not NEARLY enough noise on this post !!! CELEBRATE ITS BIRTHDAYYYYYY

[dumbasses-in-love]

I love how AI has beaten Wikipedia to the "don't believe everything you read on the Internet" prize

[kaity--did]

millennial cringe

The online obsession with "cringe" is an alt right pipe line that I refuse to fall victim to. If you cringe because of how I live and love that's a deficiency in your personality not mine my sweet anon

Also you're on fucking tumblr.com the millennial cringe general store like be so fucking for real right now

[kaity--did]

Big "bitch what are you doing at the devils sacrament" energy rn

[dumbasses-in-love]

[lazarrusrising]

You can be bisexual if you're god but not if you're god's special little princess because that would mean the reason you don't want to fuck him has everything to do with him and not with you

[shnehollander]

Evan Buckley 9-1-1 | 9x02 “Spiraling” bonus:

[kosmicznacebula]

it's always a good day to complain about English speakers

[fthgurdy]

Important addition: Maria Skłodowska-Curie was born during partitions, which means Poland didn’t exist, which means her insistence that she was Polish was a significant act of defiance against the occupation, which means that you should respect that instead of arguing that ‘well she had French citizenship’. She couldn’t have Polish citizenship despite being Polish, that’s kinda the point she was making by keeping her maiden name and naming a chemical element she discovered ‘Polonium’ .

[morepopcornplease]

HOW TO PRONOUNCE: Skłodowska

L with a dash through it (ł) makes a “W” sound. and W makes a “V” sound.

skwo-DOV-ska

[thesaltofcarthage]

thank you for the pronunciation guide!

[dumbasses-in-love]

Reblogging because PRONUNCIATION GUIDE (no but seriously thank you. I really hate it when people just shout at other people to do better, to somehow magically know better.)

[hecateisalesbian]

happy pride everybody

[dumbasses-in-love]

you have zero right to make me cry like this. why are they all funny but this on is heartbreaking. rude.