hey dude as a fat person it makes me really uncomfortable to see that you have a âfat kinkâ?? i donât really think you should be fetishizing peopleâs bodies like that.
This is such a confusing ask to me. I'm not fetishising any body. I'm literally just drawing a video game character that I like fat.
I am signing in again after years because I remembered this ask, and something bothered me, so I am going to say a few things.
It's perfectly healthy and ok to have a fetish.
Literally watching porn is a fetish. When you boil it down to its core, a fetish is literally finding something hot and attractive. Which everyone on the planet does.
Also, why is fetishising fat people bad, but then I never see any complaints for things like extreme muscle or thin bodies to the point it causes anorexia? Remember that abs aren't a sign of a strong person. It's a sign of someone who has starved themselves to the point their abs are visible. That is a damaging form of fetishisation that has gotten to the point of a societal norm.
Let's address this ask directly, the fact that you feel, AS A FAT PERSON, that finding you attractive is bad. The other option, as of current, is being hated for it, being slated for the sin of having a body. Is that how you want to be treated?
If you, as a fat person, think those who find you good-looking are bad, then you have been brainwashed by fatphobes.
This also applies to fat positive people who like to group fat fetish content with Pro-ana content because of the choice few who take pics of strangers. We are not all like that, and to compare us to that is insulting.
