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Updated Library For Kinksters
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For “Daddy”
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows You…
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesn’t Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
Library: Collaring
Welcome to the Collaring Section of the Library For Kinksters. Check back often as the library is updated frequently.
NOTE: In areas of gender or identity most articles are transferable. Articles on subs apply to anyone regardless of gender, etc. The same is true for Dom/Dommes - all articles about Doms applies equally to Dommes.
Collaring
Collar Gallery
Collar of Consideration
Collaring: No, it isn’t just a fashion statement in BDSM
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
What is collaring?
Library: Littles, Subs & Slaves
Welcome to the Littles, Subs & Slaves Section of the Library For Kinksters. Check back often as the library is updated frequently.
NOTE: In areas of gender or identity most articles are transferable. Articles on subs apply to anyone regardless of gender, etc. The same is true for Dom/Dommes - all articles about Doms applies equally to Dommes.
Littles, Subs And Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things a Dom Expects A Sub To Know Without Being Told
10 Things a Dom Needs…
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
10 Top Little Space Activities
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
12 Things Every Submissive Should Know
12 Traits of a True Dom
16 Things That Make Me Feel Little
21 First Steps for Daddy Dom & little girl
26 Baby Girl Jobs
40 Things To Do With Your Stuffies
50 Great Rewards For Your Little Princess
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
101 Little Space Activities
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
A Little’s Masterpost
A Man Who Knows You…
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Activities Littles Can Do Without Caregivers
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Becoming A Sub: The Starter Guide
Bedtime Rituals
Bedtime Stories For Littles
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coping with Emotional Sub Drop
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Daddy Is NOT Always Right
DDlg Masterpost
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Fun Bentos To Try
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Get Your Little to Go to Bed: A Guide
How to Interview a Dom/Master Prospect
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
How to Spot a Fake “Daddy”
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Littles vs Ageplayers: Why they aren’t the same
Non-binary pet names for littles
Novice Submissives
On Being a Woman and a Little
Pet Names For Littles
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Phrases that little me loves to hear
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
So, What is a ‘Little’? An Essay…
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Sub Frenzy – A Seductive State of Potential Trouble
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive’s Owner Manual
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Submissive Traits - Leadership
Submissive Traits - Service
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
Websites/Pages You Can Get Stuff For Your Little On
What is a Little?
What is a Middle?
What is the definition of a Baby Girl?
What do you do when a submissive says a safe word?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
When your Daddy is having a bad day
Why I call him Daddy
Wonderful World Of Littles
Words Have Meaning - Submissive and Slave Explained
Your Rights As A Submissive
Library: Aftercare
Welcome to the Aftercare Section of the Library For Kinksters. Check back often as the library is updated frequently.
NOTE: In areas of gender or identity most articles are transferable. Articles on subs apply to anyone regardless of gender, etc. The same is true for Dom/Dommes - all articles about Doms applies equally to Dommes.
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Aftercare Kits
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Different Kinds Of Aftercare
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
Providing aftercare to your Dominant/Top
Responsibility of Aftercare
Some thoughts on aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Repaired Library For Kinksters
Please every reblog this just in case my three new backups fail…
Welcome to the Library For Kinksters. Check back often as the library is updated frequently. NOTE: In areas of gender or identity most articles are transferable. Articles on subs apply to anyone regardless of gender, etc. The same is true for Dom/Dommes - all articles about Doms applies equally to Dommes.
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Aftercare Kits
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Different Kinds Of Aftercare
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
Providing aftercare to your Dominant/Top
Responsibility of Aftercare
Some thoughts on aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Collaring
Collar Gallery
Collar of Consideration
Collaring: No, it isn’t just a fashion statement in BDSM
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
What is collaring?
Consent
50 Facts About Rape
Consent & BDSM
CONSENT IS MANDATORY AND NON-NEGOTIABLE
Guide to Consent
Stoya’s guide to sexual consent in porn
What Is Consent (video)
Dommes/Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
10 Considerations for Aspiring Dominants
10 Reasons you Suck as a Dom
10 Rules For A Dominant
10 Things About Littles
10 Things We Subs Need From You But Won’t Say Out Loud
10 Tips For Spanking A Little
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
50 things a Caregiver could do for their little!
100 Nonsexual Ways to Make Me Feel Little
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Adorable names for the little man in your life
Alternative Names For “Daddy”
Alternative Domme Titles
Are you a Dom?
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Caregivers On A Budget
Conditioning Submissives
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dom Drop
Dominance and Self-Control
Dominants Need Training Also
Ethics of Dominance – New Submissives
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How to be the Perfect Daddy in 10 Steps!
How to Find a Submissive
Ignoring in a D/s Relationship
Ignoring your little is never OK. Period. Point Blank.
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
Long Distance Help For Submissives
Male Dominance - Reality and Fiction
Master List Of Punishments and Rewards
Neglect Of A Little
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
Punishment Management: A Guide To Unruly Submissives
Punishments for littles
Qualities of A Successful Dominant
Questions To Ask Your Little
Rewards Of Having A Submissive In Your Life
Rules For Owning A Catgirl
So You Think You Are A Daddy Dom?
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Daddy Dominant’s Creed
The Dominants Creed
The Dom Commandments
The Gift Of Dominance
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
Things You Can Do to be a Better Daddy
Tips for Taking Care of a Little When They’re Sick
Traits of a Genuine Dominant
Websites/Pages You Can Get Stuff For Your Little On
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What is a Dominant & how to be a good one
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
What To Do When Your Little Has The Grumps!
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things a Dom Expects A Sub To Know Without Being Told
10 Things a Dom Needs…
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
10 Top Little Space Activities
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
12 Things Every Submissive Should Know
12 Traits of a True Dom
16 Things That Make Me Feel Little
21 First Steps for Daddy Dom & little girl
26 Baby Girl Jobs
40 Things To Do With Your Stuffies
50 Great Rewards For Your Little Princess
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
101 Little Space Activities
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
A Little’s Masterpost
A Man Who Knows You…
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Activities Littles Can Do Without Caregivers
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Becoming A Sub: The Starter Guide
Bedtime Rituals
Bedtime Stories For Littles
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coping with Emotional Sub Drop
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Daddy Is NOT Always Right
DDlg Masterpost
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Fun Bentos To Try
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Get Your Little to Go to Bed: A Guide
How to Interview a Dom/Master Prospect
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
How to Spot a Fake “Daddy”
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Littles vs Ageplayers: Why they aren’t the same
Non-binary pet names for littles
Novice Submissives
On Being a Woman and a Little
Pet Names For Littles
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Phrases that little me loves to hear
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
So, What is a ‘Little’? An Essay…
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Sub Frenzy – A Seductive State of Potential Trouble
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive’s Owner Manual
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Submissive Traits - Leadership
Submissive Traits - Service
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
Websites/Pages You Can Get Stuff For Your Little On
What is a Little?
What is a Middle?
What is the definition of a Baby Girl?
What do you do when a submissive says a safe word?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
When your Daddy is having a bad day
Why I call him Daddy
Wonderful World Of Littles
Words Have Meaning - Submissive and Slave Explained
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance & Online Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Kink And The World Of Warcraft
Long Distance Relationships Ideas
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
Meeting For The First Time
Online D/s Relationships - A Personal View
Punishments for LDR DD/LG (CG/L) Couples
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Things To Help Long Distance Relationships
Ways a Dom can be more involved in his submissive’s daily life.
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Make Cool Again
10 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship
10 Tips For Keeping Your Love Alive
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Building Trust in Relationships
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Crucial Ingredients for a Great Relationship
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Dangers of Dom/Sub Gravity
Date Night In A Jar
Depictions of D/S as Unromantic
DD/lg In Public
Dominance, Submission and Freedom
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
Forming A D/s Relationship
Great Idea For All DDlg & CGl Relationships When You’re Together
Green Flags For Relationships
Importance Of Communication
Is Your Partner Having A Bad Day? Here’s How To Help
Help for When a Relationship Ends
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How to Create a Winning Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
How to Recover from a Broken Heart
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Importance Of Trust In A Relationship
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner - Part 1
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 2 - My Partner is Not Interested
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
LDR: Tie A Yellow Ribbon…
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Perfect Date Check List
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Science Behind A Happy Relationship
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Faces of D/s
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Unusual Date Ideas
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesn’t Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Rope Tutorials
Shibari Tutorial: Box Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Coin Basket Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Consequence Collar & Cuff
Shibari Tutorial: Corset Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Dragonfly Sleeve
Shibari Tutorial: Frog Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Hand Ties
Shibari Tutorial: Hip Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Hitachi Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Hog Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Lover’s Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Pearl Harness & Wrist Cuffs
Shibari Tutorial: Rope Ladder
Shibari Tutorial: Side-arm Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Samurai Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Tortoise Shell Body Suit
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
BDSM & the Law
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
BREAKING BONES AS PUNISHMENT IS NOT KINK, IT IS ABUSE
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Guide To Choking
Infographic: Difference Between BDSM & Abuse
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
Limits in BDSM
PSA: Be Cautious When Choking
Red Flags in BDSM
Safety Before Suspension
Safety when looking for a Potential Dom/me
“Tumblr dom” versus Daddy Dom
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
21 Tips to Keep Your Shit Together When You’re Depressed
7 Tips for Being a More Likeable Person
7 Tips for Leading a Fulfilling Life
8 Powerful Steps to Positive Thinking
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Positive Body Image
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Truths To Live By
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Ways To Show Love To Someone With Depression
13 Things mentally strong people avoid
15 Important Life Lessons
35 Practical Tools for Men to Further Feminist Revolution
Alternatives To Negative Feelings
Anxiety and BDSM
Avoid Some of the Main Brain Damaging Habits
Battling the complications of varying emotional states
BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
Body image & BDSM
Characteristics of Genuinely Low Self-Esteem
Communication Tips to Save Relationships
Dalai Lama’s Guide Rules For Living
Dealing with Feelings of Shame and Worthlessness
Declutter Your Life
Do You Love Someone With Depression?
Good Habits to Develop
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How To Be Yourself
How To Cope With Jealousy
How To Cope With Test Anxiety
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
How To Ignore Haters
How To Increase Your Patience
How to Let Go of Fear of Abandonment
How To Make A Gliitery “Calm Bottle”
How to Overcome Apathy
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
How to Succeed at School
How To Take Care Of Yourself
How To Trust Again
Is BDSM normal?
Living a Life that is Meaningful
Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Overcoming Fear
People You Need In Your Life
Psychologists Say Coloring Is The Best Alternative To Meditation
Qualities of a Winning Personality
Quick and Simple Guide To Anxiety Disorders
Science Of Happiness
Self-Care Masterpost
Self Help Masterpost
Slut Shaming Explained
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Taking A Look At Depression
Tips for Getting What you Want out of Life
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
Tips for Overcoming Shyness
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
Tips for Showing Kindness
Tips For When You Feel Angry
Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Things To Do When You Are Sad
Very Brief Guide To Self Care
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
When You Feel Fed Up
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Sex
10 Chastity / Forced Denial Benefits
10 Traits of a Blowjob Queen
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
50 Things Public Education Probably FAILED To Teach You
Anal Sex - An Owner’s Manual
Basics of Breath Play
Butt Stuff - A FAQ For Anal Play
Changing the way your cum tastes
Chastity Control…
Comprehensive Sex Ed: The Basics
Contraceptive Masterpost
Disability and Sexuality Resources
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Edged Beyond the Point-of-No-Return
Fellatio Tips - It ain’t all about sucking
Fetishes Explained
Girl-on-Top Cunnilingus
Head-Play: Excellent Masturbation Technique!
How I Became a Queer Heterosexual by Clyde Smith (1997)
How to Have a Female Orgasm That Lasts 15-Minutes
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How to Properly Edge Him
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Managing decreasing libido in D/S
Perfect, Real-World Blowjob Technique Part 1
Perfect, Real-World Blowjob Technique Part 2
Perfect, Real-World Blowjob Technique Part 3
Philosophy Of Denial
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
The Neurobiology of BDSM
Unsung Virtues of Hard, Fast, Quick Sex
Why It’s Important For Her To Cum First
Why Some Pain Helps Us Feel Pleasure
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
All About Violet Wands
Basic Types Of Ball Gags
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Dildo Types
How to make a Hitachi Magic Wand Chair
How to make an ice dildo
Kink On A Budget
How to hide a suspension point in your celling
Lube Compatibility: Sex Toys & Safer Sex Barriers
Nipple Clamp Gallery
Pet Ear Gallery
Safety Guide to The Violet Wand
Tail Butt Plug Types
Types Of Wax For Wax Play
Vaginal Juicers: A Buyer’s Guide
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
10 Tips when Spanking a Little
15 Points of a BDSM relationship
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
A List Of Books About BDSM
An Instructional Guide to Kinks, Fetishes and the World of BDSM
Age Play: A Short Guide
Asserting Ownership - Posing
Basics of Domination and Submission
BDSM Contracts
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
BDSM Roles
Common BDSM Roles
Direction and Acceptance
Discipline & Punishment
D/s and Kink
First Things First - A BDSM Checklist
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 3 - Structure and Discipline
FAQ For Newbies
Female Orgasm Control
Female Stimulation and Forced Orgasms
Forced Orgasms, With Love!
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Jelqing
Guide To Spanking & Impact Play
Guide To Subspace
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
Hand Signals For Subs
Hazards of Ignoring in a D/s Relationship
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Choose and Use a Safeword
How to get your Sub in subspace, a guide for beginners
How to Lace Up Your Corset - A Helpful Infographic
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Ignoring your sub is an act of abuse
Infographic: Anatomy Of A Spanking
Infographic: Tips On Breath Play
Introducing your partner to a new fetish
Introduction To BDSM
Kinky Sex And Bondage Tips For S&M First Timers
Learning To Trust Your Instincts
Matters of the D/s Heart: A Serious and Long Overdue Conversation
Mixing Vanilla with the D/s Spice - Opening Pandora’s Box of the Heart
Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Pet Play: How Kittens Can Annoy Their Owners
Pet Play: How To Make Pet Food For Your Pet
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Rape Fantasy & Resistance Play
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Remission, Revitalization and anchoring of life through D/S
Safewords and Safesigns 101
Safeword Basics
S&M for beginners: Easing into a new situation
SF’s Guide To Safewords
Should you mix personal fetishes into punishments?
Slave Position Training Map
Some Thoughts On Rules
Sting Levels of Impact Toys
Submission Training With Love - A Vanilla Perspective
SubmissiveFeminist’s Guide to Behaviour Modification
Switching It Up
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Thoughts on Correction
Thoughts on Protocol - “The Invisible Leash”
Topping from the bottom
Training in D/s: Why? (1 of 3)
Training in D/s: How? (2 of 3)
Training in D/s: Thoughts & Concerns (3 of 3)
Trust and D/s
Wax Play Tips
Finding Direction
Since opening a Tumblr account a month ago, I’ve struggled to define why exactly I have one at all. I am the young man who eschews the more popular social media sites like Twitter and Facebook for lacking practical value and bring a drain on otherwise valuable time that I could be investing into work or real relationships.
So why am I here? Why am I spending time reblogging pictures and gifs? What’s the point of it all? Sure, it’s sexy but sexiness alone isn’t purpose, I have plenty of that in real life.
So why?
I’ve spent time pondering that and came to the conclusion that without purpose, I should stop doing this all together. Stop wasting my valuable life. After introspection I think that what I would like to do is to try and give something back to the community and lifestyle I love so dearly.
How?
Well I think that one of the greatest problems we face is a lack of mentors or training for young dominants. Let’s face it, lots of people, especially young men, are drawn to domination. But so many things stand in their way of gaining the education necessary to truly be skilled.
Being a dominant is so much more than barking orders, and ruthless punishment and being served constantly. On the contrary, true dominance, in my opinion, is about giving. Providing as close to everything a submissive woman needs. The strength, security, trust, confidence, communication, knowledge and leadership that she desires to feel fulfilled.
Unfortunately, most young men either don’t look at it that way, or due to a lack of training struggle to fulfill their lofty aspirations. As a member of this community I feel the call to give back what little I can.
Clearly I am an imperfect vessel for this. At 31, and with only 12 years of training and experience under my belt, I’m still far closer to a novice than a Master, a fact I acknowledge with complete humility.
But I will make the purpose of this blog to be serving my fellow young men, and all new dominants. My views on some subjects will be supported by many and my views on others reviled. Your mileage may vary. But I promise to always do my best to explain and articulate those beliefs with explanation. I welcome respectful questions and critiques. As stated before, I am an imperfect vessel, flawed as we all are. I hope that I can learn as much from all of you as I am capable of helping others learn.
To men new to dominance; please do not hesitate to reach out to me. I promise to always treat you with respect and pledge to do my utmost best to help answer any questions you may have. If I cannot, I’ll try and point you toward someone who can. No question is too big or too small.
To women who would like to ask questions about dominant men or myself - again, please do not hesitate to ask. I’m not a woman and for as much as I believe I understand what you’re going through - I do not. I am a man, and a dominant, not a woman or a submissive. But maybe I can help with an issue you’re having with your dominant man.
To all of you, thank you for everything you do. I look forward to serving you all with humility and respect.
So much more where this came from. Go follow @onceuponsirsstarrynight
Thoughts, @instructor144
This exemplifies the best of “paying it forward.” There is so much bad and even dangerous information out there. Young Doms and subs, never be afraid to leverage the hard-won experience (I won’t use the word “wisdom”) of your elders. We made mistakes so you don’t have to.
What a little slut.
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These Are The Rules
These are the rules. They are simple. You are mine.
Mine to dress or undress as I will. Mine to caress or spank, to photograph, expose, love, take, rough or soft or rougher still. Not just for an hour or few, but for a night, two, the weekend. Every hour. Every minute. You will obey. You will be loved and love me just, exactly, as I wish.
And when we are done, you will be afraid, less of me, than of yourself and the desire awakened within.
These are the rules.
The Morning After
Baby Girl: *walks into the kitchen, still drowsy* Good morning Daddy...
Daddy: Oh there's my princess, I was just about to make breakfast.
Baby Girl: *sits down at the table, but doesn't say anything*
Daddy: Baby, are you feeling okay?
Baba Girl: *shrugs*
Daddy: Uh-oh, I thought this might happen. You still feeling the effects of last nights scene?
Baby Girl: *slowly nods*
Daddy: Okay baby, come here *picks up his baby girl and takes her to the family room where a sippy cup of water, a heating pad, ice pack, and blanket lay waiting* I thought these may come in handy.
Baby Girl: *nuzzles into Daddy's chest*
Daddy: *sits Baby Girl down on the couch then takes off his shirt* Princess, Daddy needs to check the condition of any possible marks left from last night. So we need to get you out of your jammies, okay?
Baby Girl: *nods* Otay Daddy
Daddy: Such a strong little girl *kisses her forehead before stripping her tenderly* Can you stand up for Daddy?
Baby Girl: *does so* How does my bum look Daddy?
Daddy: *checks the bite marks, hickies, and bruises* I think we should ice it again, but you'll be okay. Come here baby. *sits on the couch*
Baby Girl: *lays on Daddy's bare chest and nuzzles in*
Daddy: *places the ice pack on his girl's bum before wrapping them snuggly in the blankie*
Baby Girl: Wait...if the ice back is for me, why do we have the heating pad?
Daddy: *slides it under his lower back* It's for me, Daddy is old *winks and kisses her forehead*
*45 minutes of intense cuddling later*
Baby Girl: *running her finger over the hickies and scratches she gave Daddy last night* We had fun last night, didn't we? *blushes*
Daddy: Of course we did munchkin. *plays with her hair*
Baby Girl: So if we did, why do I not feel well even after the aftercare you gave me last night?
Daddy: *looks down at his girl and smiles* Because princess, sometimes people just need more aftercare and that's okay. But are you feeling better now?
Baby Girl: *kisses Daddy's chest* Of course Daddy! *beams up at him*
Daddy: Good *hugs her tight*
Baby Girl: *stomach rumbles*
Daddy: I think it's time for breakfast, do you think we should have waffles or pancakes?
Baby Girl: PANCAKES!!
Daddy: In the shape of dinosaurs?
Baby Girl: *astonished* You can do that?!
Daddy: I can certainly try *chuckles and kisses his princess*