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Queer Shows Tracking List

To watch:

Slo Pitch

Trigonometry

Black Sails

Queer as Folk

Vida

Watching:

A League of Their Own (2022) [Feb- 2026]

The Sex Lives of College Girls (2021) [Feb- 2026]

Hacks (2020) [April 2026- ]

Watched:

Heated Rivalry (2025) [Jan 2026][Re Feb- 2026]

#taking recommendations #maybe I'll add movies

I've mentioned previously briefly how I wasn't sure what to think of the use of the "all the things she said" song in heated rivalry given its controversies. Jacob Tierney addresses some of those thoughts here:

The key thing he said that tipped me over to his side is his recognizance of the fact that it is a song made by folks who are now explicitely anti-gay, but that the song has become an iconic gay song no matter what they think, and that it's now even more gay from his usage of it in heated rivalry.

They skirt around a bit about where the money for the song usage goes -- who knows whether they truly don't actually know, joking that it goes to Putin, or if they are just avoiding it.

I was glad to see the usage of the song somewhat addressed, where it appears like they didn't use it fully ignorantly but rather it was a weighted decision.

#heated rivalry #jacob tierney #all the things she said #im not fully one hundo convinced but at least some things were assuaded

Wife indeed

#hacks #hacks hbo #ava daniels #s2e3 #the captain's wife #hannah einbinder #some of these could be icons ....#couldn't find a set or gifset to reblog so did it myself #tbf i didnt want spoilers so looked up hacks season 2 lesbian cruise lmao #maybe one day ill edit the episode title out of my square crops #wowie wowie baddie

Hacks s2 ava on the cruise while she gets her nails fixed by deb. Wowie wowie baddie

#hacks hbo #hacks

"At least they get to shake hands this game and go and play golf now" - my partner's dad allegedly

#oilers lb

The way people are acting in the oilers lb I thought the game was already over. My surprise when I turned the tv on and there 15 minutes left and they're ""only"" 2 behind

#oilers lb

Forgot to mention that we started watching hacks last week. Just finished the first season today. I <3 a show that centers women.

#hacks hbo #hacks #is there a fandom for this show

# connor storrie and # heated rivalry are trending separately btw

#the power this man has #heated rivalry #connor storrie #gotta be constistent #if you saw this post already with hw yeah you did #theyre both going off

I am fond of this trending preview. It makes me laugh how little-shane with pengu looks mad between Hudson and sharpay at the pool. They're like his babysitter.

#hudson williams #heated rivalry #sharpay evans #theyre both chilling and having a good time looking hot by the pool and their ward is angry drowning or is trying to play lol

I hope they paid hudson williams a million dollars for that ad bc I really wouldnt have watched it nor briefly considered a peloton if it weren't for him

#I Need To Get Jacked #hudson williams

One thing hr did for me is really confirm (not that I needed confirming) or showcase once again or emphasize how ace I am. As I notice how differently I react to the show & the actors' other endeavours compared to my peers in this space.

#heated rivalry #hudson williams #connor storrie #queer #asexual #me 🤝 alysa liu in the madwoman music video #i understand the appeal the way i understand the appeal of a painting in an art gallery #but some of these reactions im like hmm. i am not experiencing the same lmao #to be clear i loved hr & i like checking up on hw+cs

# hudson williams and # heated rivalry are trending separately btw

#the power this man has #hudson williams #heated rivalry

Is anybody tracking how many days out of the year / how many hours out of the year #heated rivalry is trending because I feel like it's crazy

#heated rivalry #first time actually looking at the trending tab daily #is it usually like this for other fandoms

milominderbindered

being trans in the corporate workplace rlly should be paid at time and a half just to account for all the bullshit u have to deal with on a daily basis. get she/her'd constantly despite the fact i look like a bridge troll, and then also have to sit there clicking in my little spreadsheets while office conversations happen across my desk such as 'if you think about it, wives are always the admin department for their husbands! any time we have to send an email to a man we should copy in his wife to sort it out for him 🙂‍↕️ haha!' like that's not the plot of a horror movie 🤐 can we get straight women out of there 🤐

#Pronouns right beside my name on teams calls with my andro face aND YET #one time i watched a recorded meeting i wasnt part of where my coworker called a spreadsheet i inherited and worked on my 'baby'#while keeping accidentally shehering me and i felt such a sense of disgust and 'dont do that'#vomits #agender #nonbinary #its a horror when youre awake and aware of the fakeness of social norms and rules but realise most people arent #and are still living with those constraints unaware and suffering without knowi ngf

[Write more write longer write just to write even if no one else reads you will read it again so just write and write and write and write and ]

#write

Just realized that the whole bids for connection thing of relationships applies to friendships.

A bid for connection is somewhat self explanatory; it's a 'reach out' to someone, in casual conversation, where the other should respond. If they don't, they've rejected the bid, and if this happens recurringly, it may lead the 'bidder' to feel neglected, and their relationship may strain.

The classic example is somebody looking out the window, seeing a bird and saying so (the bid), and the other person either ignoring them (rejecting the bid) or answering in whatever way ("oh what kind of bird?" / coming to the window to see; accepting the bid).

A healthy rate of bid acceptance is at least 4/5. Some can slide, but bids need to be overwhelmingly accepted, on either side of the relationship bridge. Otherwise, resentment may build and degrade the connection.

I learnt about this through the lens of life partners / romantic relationships. But I just realised today that it also applies to friendships.

Posting on your Instagram is a bid for connection. If your closest friends don't interact with your post, when you know they've been active, it may feel like a bid rejection. Saying something in a discord chat is also a bid for connection. If ignored, it may come across as a bid rejection. Where this to happen consistently, without other bids for connections getting answered, the friendship may feel like it needs a reevaluation, feeling grown apart or distant.

#said in my tags but it's its own post now #is this how all my friendships died. i felt like my bids for connection went unsanswered so stopped trying #and they never picked up on the other side #or i reevaluated and realised we arent as close as i thought #and the friends i still have are those that do respond to my bids and who send bids my way #its a framework #mypoast #aromantic #asexual

Bid of connection to my friends went unanswered and I haven't posted in the chat since

#what can i even tag this with #asexual #aromantic #bc i literally just realised that the whole bid for connection thing re romantic partners is something that very much applies to friends #and that that is why i dont feel close to some of my friends #its a core building bloc of any relationships INCLUDING friendships #this is a re a specific chat in our discord server lol i still say stuff sometimes in other chats and they are still friends

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