Mela

[egosavior]

I already miss living on my own.

[egosavior]

It's my 13 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

[theambitiouswoman]

If you’re desperate for love, you’ll convince yourself to overlook red flags. You’ll excuse bad behavior & minimize your own needs just to have someone. When deep down, you know you’re settling. That’s what desperation does, it tricks you into believing crumbs are a feast

But when you’ve built a life you actually like & you’ve invested in yourself, created routines, friendships, passions and a sense of self worth, you’re no longer choosing out of lack. You’re choosing from a place of strength and clarity. You can actually look at a partner and ask yourself if they add peace, happiness and depth to the life you already love or if they take away from it

If you’re not afraid of being alone, you’re not rushing into situations that drain you. It means you won’t tolerate people who can’t meet you where you are. And it means the love you do accept will be real not just a bandage for loneliness

Build your life first. Make it so good that anyone who wants to be with you has to be a true addition, not a replacement for your own happiness

[egosavior]

11 years on tumblr lol

[fleur-aesthetic]

instagram | katrin_im_garten

[yourlilbrunette]

[sleepyberry]

[happyheidi]

𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘤𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴

[positivelypositive]

🪻

healing is personal...

...and it's a process.

you don't have to share it. you don't have to hide it. you don't have to speak about it. you don't have to do it a particular way.

all you need to do, is acknowledge it from time to time. let yourself feel it. affirm it to your mind, even if it's only 1% better right now.

don't ignore the efforts of your existence ✨

[theambitiouswoman]

Learn the skill of delaying your response when faced with someone who is intentionally trying to provoke you. Refuse to let others dictate your mood. Take charge of your emotions. You decide when, how, and whether you want to to react. You control yourself, no one else does.

[frachella]

[uptional]

[crooksh4nks]

[open]

[1010ll]

[eliminated]

[neckkiss]

INLOVE