1 - Are you interested in any reality TV shows?
>> Some of them do look interesting but I just never get around to checking them out. But a lot of them are competition-based in some way (even if it's just, like, social posturing) and I'm very uninterested in competition. Shows like Naked & Afraid seem intriguing because of the "wow, how on earth will they survive xyz??" aspect, and sometimes I find shows like Milf Manor fascinating in much the same way that I find nature documentaries fascinating. Ultimately, the interest always wanes because it's just not that engaging for me personally. I have never watched more than like 3 episodes of a reality show, I just get bored and move on.
2 - When was the last time you made plans with someone? What are you going to do with that person?
>> The last time I made plans with someone was in May. We went to the goth dance night for my birthday.
3 - How often (if ever) do you use moisturizer?
>> On my whole body, once or twice a day (depending on mood). But I use it as-needed as well (usually on my hands after washing them). Being dry is the bane of my existence.
4 - Name five things you can touch from where you’re sitting right now:
>> Body pillow, phone, vape, bag of chips, sunglasses.
5 - Have you had any of your wisdom teeth removed? What was the reason? (eg. infection, impaction, lack of space).
>> I had all of them removed because they were crowding my mouth and I was constantly biting my cheek and shit.
6 - What was the reason for your last hospital visit?
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7 - Where was the last place you had an itch?
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8 - If you’re on a long car journey, would you rather drive or be the passenger?
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9 - What’s the earliest time you’ve had to wake up for work? What about the latest time you’ve clocked off for the day?
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10 - Do you use a laptop, desktop, tablet or phone to take your surveys?
>> I use a laptop.
11 - Are you fussy when it comes to how your surveys are formatted on your blog?
>> I am. LJ is perfectly fine with this; Tumblr however has notoriously janky formatting so I can only hope for so much, but I do my best.
12 - How old were you when you first got internet access at home? Was it broadband or did you have dial-up first?
>> I was eighteen and it was dial-up.
13 - When was the last time you painted your nails?
>> It's been a while because I always completely forget that it's an option. My nail polishes are probably no good anymore anyway, I've had them for years.
14 - What’s your typical order when you go to Starbucks (or wherever your favourite coffee shop is)?
>> My typical order varies depending on location. At one local coffee shop I always order either one of their seasonal special drinks or an ube matcha. At another local coffee shop I always order a matcha latte or some kind of black tea latte. If it's a coffee shop I've never been to, it will still depend on what they have on their menu and what I'm in the mood for.
15 - What’s your favourite thing to have on toast?
>> Hummus, or butter and cinnamon. Depends on the kind of bread.
16 - Do you have any debt? If so, are you on top of paying it all back?
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17 - What was the last thing you purchased with a credit card?
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18 - Have you been to college/university? If so, has your degree been useful to you or was it a bit of a waste of money?
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19 - How often do you travel by public transport?
>> Not terribly often, but that's because I rarely go anywhere, lol. When I do go places that are too far to walk to and Sparrow isn't going, I take public transport.
20 - Do you have an instagram account? If so, how often do you post on there and what kind of things do you post?
>> I do. I have posted exactly three times and they were just simple photos with a short caption. The main reason I have an account isn't to post, it's so that I can look at stuff on Instagram (it won't let you see hardly anything without being signed in), and also to follow people I know IRL who have accounts on there.
21 - Are you close to your extended family? Do you wish you were closer?
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22 - Do you prefer to give your pets human names or not?
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23 - Do you like having ice in your drinks?
>> I don't. The coldest I like a drink to be is chilled.
24 - When was the last time you went to a BBQ restaurant?
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25 - When was the last time you re-arranged the furniture? Is this something you like to do often?
>> I don't rearrange the furniture in my room, it's already in the perfect configuration and unless I get some other piece of furniture that requires me to move other things around, I'm probably never going to change the layout.
26 - Have you ever used a fire extinguisher? Would you know how to use one without reading the instructions?
>> I have not and I do not know how.
27 - What’s the worst thing you’ve ever had to deal with at your job?
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28 - What was the last thing you used your mobile phone for?
>> Uh... to look at the weather app, probably.
29 - Did you used to play The Sims? What version or expansion pack was your favourite one to play?
>> I've played 2, 3, and 4. I think the life & death one for 4 is my favourite expansion pack of all time. I also tend to favour the ones that add magic or fantasy elements to the game. The adventure one in 3 was really neat, I liked the tomb-exploring minigames and such.
30 - What was the last thing you used a lighter for?
>> To light incense.
1 - When was the last time you lost your voice?
>> That hasn't happened since... high school? I know I've been to a lot of concerts and stuff where this has the potential of happening, but I still can't recall a time when I actually lost my voice as opposed to just having a sore throat the next day.
2 - How long have you owned the device you’re currently using to take this survey?
>> I've had this laptop since 2019.
3 - Have you ever given yourself a piercing? Where? If not, would you?
>> I pierced my own ear a few times. That strikes me as a particularly young thing to do, I know much better now.
4 - Would you ever consider opening your own business? What would you do?
>> I have subzero interest in business of any kind.
5 - Do you like scented candles? What’s your favourite kind of scent?
>> I do, but I'm particular about them. I like eucalyptus and similar herbal scents, as well as warm amber-y scents.
6 - What’s your favourite kind of mint? Do you prefer strong or mild?
>> Just regular peppermint, I guess. Or whatever it is that's on the mint plant I have. I like it to be on the milder side.
7 - What subscription services do you use?
>> Paid? I use Flixtor for all my streaming needs. I also use YT Music sometimes but I have a cracked version so I don't pay for it.
8 - What was the last thing you bought off Amazon?
>> Valerian root capsules.
9 - When you last went food shopping, what did you buy? How much did it come to?
>> A lot of things. I don't remember.
10 - What’s your most hated household chore? What about the least hated?
>> Anything involving the bathroom and half of the things involving the kitchen. I am least off-put by laundry, because it's very low effort and doesn't involve touching anything gross. Also, I like to fold clothes. Floors aren't so bad either, especially now that I have a cordless multi-surface vac and one of those flat mops with the cleaner-spray thing and detachable washable pad.
11 - What kinds illnesses or conditions run in your family? Have you been diagnosed with any of them?
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12 - Are you the kind of person who only runs if they’re in danger?
>> Pretty much, lol.
13 - If you could own any breed of dog in the world, what would it be and why?
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14 - What’s your favourite kind of fruit juice?
>> Pomegranate is pretty good. So is mango. I just like juice.
15 - What did you order the last time you went out for a meal?
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16 - Aside from the essentials, is there anything you carry with you at all times when you leave the house?
>> I think everything I carry is essential.
17 - Who were the last five people you spoke to via text/message?
>> Sparrow, that guy whose name I've forgotten and don't feel like scrolling to the top of his messages to find out, uh... oh, Ariel... yeah, I don't remember who else.
18 - What was the last play or musical you saw on stage, if any?
>> Phantom of the Opera, like 8 years ago.
19 - When was the last time you got sunburnt, if ever?
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20 - What’s your favourite thing to order at a breakfast buffet?
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21 - Are you into the whole matcha trend?
>> I'm into matcha, trend or no. I love the way it tastes. I got some from a local place but now I have to get the whisk and stuff to make it with and I can't afford that right now so it's just sitting there... mocking me... :(
22 - What brand of phone do you have? Would you change it if you could?
>> Samsung. I don't want to change phones. I'm so tired of having to buy new phones.
23 - Are there any TV shows or movies coming out soon that you want to see?
>> Always. I can never remember them off the top of my head, though. I wait for them to pop up on the "new episodes/new movies" sections on Flixtor and then go "OH YEAH :D"
24 - Where do you get most of your clothes from? Would that change if you had more money?
>> Thrift shops. It would indeed, but I'd have to have a lot more money.
25 - Have you ever ridden an animal that wasn’t a horse or pony?
>> I've never ridden any animal.
26 - Do you agree with breeding different species together, like tigers and lions for example?
>> Do I agree with it? I don't really care, honestly. It's kind of wacky but it's not bothering me.
27 - Do you drive? If so, how long have you owned your car?
>> I do not.
28 - Do you spoil your pets, if you have any? If so, how?
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29 - What’s your favourite card game?
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30 - When was the last time you showered? When will be the next time?
>> Last night. Tomorrow night.
2. Can you do math in your head well?
>> Fairly well, although I still struggle with percentages sometimes (particularly if it's not 10%, 25%, or 50%), and I don't even bother trying to mentally multiply numbers that have 2 or more digits each.
3. What’s your least favorite chore to do around the house?
>> The bathroom. It is beyond my least favourite, I am viscerally repelled by the very idea. Fortunately I have finally, finally gotten Sparrow to do it (and I just do everything else save for their dishes and their own rooms).
4. What’s your favorite flavor of potato chip?
>> Salt and pepper if I'm eating them with a sandwich, Zapp's Voodoo flavour if I'm eating them alone.
5. Do you ever read the weather forecast?
>> I use the weather app on my phone constantly.
6. Do amusement park rides make you sick?
>> I guess not, considering I did Mission: Space while crossfaded that one time. (I do imagine anything like a teacup ride would make me feel a bit ill, but not majorly.)
7. Who is your favorite Star Wars character?
>> I don't have one, but I think Darth Maul is pretty neat. I'd probably have favourites if I delved into the Extended Universe, but the movies didn't do much for me.
8. What kind of cheese do you put on your sandwiches?
>> Usually Swiss or pepper jack. I go through phases with sandwich cheese; for example, before Swiss, I was all about havarti.
9. What radio station do you listen to the most?
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10. Who was the last person to give you a gift?
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11. How old were you when you got your driver’s license?
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12. What was the first thing you ever learned how to cook?
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13. Did you ever collect beanie babies?
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14. When was the last time you got a haircut?
>> I last buzzed my head a couple of weeks ago. I'm about due again.
15. Have you ever been to a bachelor/bachelorette party?
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16. How many people can you say you TRULY love?
>> I don't feel that way about anyone in meatspace.
17. Where are you most ticklish on your body?
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18. Do you like kids?
>> I do. They're just people writ small, and I don't have any special antipathy towards people no matter what demographic they're in.
19. Have you ever cheated on a test?
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20. Is your next birthday coming up soon?
>> It is not.
21. Have you ever bailed anyone out of jail?
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22. What’s the last board game you played?
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23. Have you ever given someone a fake phone number?
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24. Do you actually eat 3 meals a day?
>> I eat on an intuitive schedule as opposed to a structured one, so it varies. It also depends on how much food there is in the house; right now it's the fallow period before SNAP refills, so I've been eating like one meal a day and then whatever I can scrounge up through the rest of the day.
25. Do you have any bumper stickers on your car?
>> Sparrow is the driver and they have like 7 or 8 bumper stickers.
26. Do you leave good tips when you eat out at restaurants?
>> I leave either 20% or 25%.
27. What’s your favorite thing to eat at bbqs?
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28. Do you still own any VHS tapes?
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29. How many of your friends have you known for at least 5 years?
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30. Are you superstitious?
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31. What was your favorite book as a child?
>> The Phantom Tollbooth, and also everything in Madeleine L'Engle's Time Quintet (well, quartet -- I didn't discover the fifth book until much later).
32. Have you lied to anyone in the last 24 hours?
>> I have not.
33. What’s the most expensive restaurant you’ve ever eaten at?
>> Hmm... maybe one of the Disney restaurants, they're pretty expensive. Or The Boathouse in Traverse City. All of the majorly high-quality restaurants I've been to were paid for by someone else so I don't actually know how much everything cost.
34. How many jobs have you had?
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35. Are you keeping a secret from anyone right now?
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36. What’s the smallest town you’ve ever visited?
>> I'm not sure. I have been to (and in one case, lived in) a few particularly tiny towns.
37. If there was a real Jurassic Park, would you visit it?
>> I have zero interest in dinosaurs, so I wouldn't.
38. Have you ever gone golfing?
>> Hell no. I'd rather sit on a porcupine.
39. What’s your favorite kind of soup?
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40. How old were you when you learned how to ride a bike?
>> I have no idea but I'm going to assume 7 or 8.
41. Do you know any sign language?
>> I know the ASL alphabet, and "thank you".
42. If you became famous for something, what would it be?
I would rather die than be famous, lol. <- literally
43. How many friends do you have that are married?
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44. Do you ever read the newspaper?
>> I don't.
45. When you’re having a bad day, how do you make yourself feel better?
>> Rest a lot. Cuddle with Can Calah. Watch a silly fave show like Red Dwarf. Eat something especially delicious. Make a comforting tea.
46. Do you still have your wisdom teeth?
>> I don't, I had them removed.
47. Did you have a swingset in your yard when you were a child?
>> I did not.
48. Have you ever played poker for money?
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49. You’re making a fruit salad: what kinds of fruit do you put in it?
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50. What are the last 2 digits of your phone number?
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51. What’s the scariest movie you’ve ever seen?
I'm not sure, but a movie that I found really creepy and unsettling that I watched somewhat recently was <파묘> (or Exhuma in English). <- man this movie is SO GOOD
>> Anyway, I don't have an answer to this because I don't have this reaction to horror movies. But I agree that the aforementioned was quite creepy, and so was Gonjiam Haunted Asylum particularly at the end. IME Korean, Japanese, and Chinese horror always has the best and most unforgettable vibes, they really know what they're doin over there.
52. Do you eat your mac & cheese with a fork or a spoon?
>> Spoon. I eat everything with a spoon that I can possibly can, and if I can't then I eat it with chopsticks. Rarely will I use a fork.
53. Where did you have your first kiss?
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54. When you were a kid, were you ever afraid of cooties?
>> I never cared about this sort of thing, it just vaguely baffled me like everything else my peers did.
55. Do you ever go Christmas caroling in December?
>> I don't. I haven't lived anyplace where this is even common.
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What albums are in the running to be your album of the year? }
>> Oh hell yes, fun formatting. We definitely do not do that enough as a society anymore.
I haven't really heard any new albums this year, I don't think. Nothing that stands out, certainly.
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What was the last thing you did alone that you thought would have been more enjoyable if you had someone to do it with? }
>> I rarely think this, it's usually the other way around. 💀
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What was the last thing that made you go, ‘okay this is becoming addicting or unhealthy in some way, i need to quit’? }
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‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What personal project/hobby have you been working on lately? }
>> I am still in the middle of that jigsaw puzzle I've been doing.
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { How do you feel about the popularity of GLP-1s used specifically for weight loss? }
>> Wack. I don't have a more elegant opinion than that, I just think the whole thing is fucking wack and I'm tired of hearing about it. Tired of hearing about weight loss in general, in fact. Fatphobia is a sickness and I hope the United States gets better soon 🖤
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What TV series have you been into this year? }
>> I got back into Archer recently, lol. Really random old fave to get back into, but I'm glad to be back into it. Cape Fear just wrapped up and that was solid, love having one of my favourite actors play one of my favourite characters, that's always a delight. I finally started watching Evil again after dropping it a couple years back (for no reason, really, I just do that sometimes) and man that shit is SO GOOD. God, it's so good. Uhh... hmm. I've been watching a lot of things, honestly, I always am. Oh, on the anime front, I have started Witch Hat Atelier and it's so pretty. Also Qifrey 🥰
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { How have your feelings/thoughts about AI evolved over time? }
>> I had fun with it a lil back in the "fever dream" era when everything generative AI put out was weird and trippy. Now I swear to god I'm going to blow up Silicon Valley. SICK OF IT. SICK OF IT ALL
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { Has your taste in music stayed consistent throughout your life or do you dislike songs you once loved? }
>> It's been consistent in the sense that I've always loved some kind of dramatic-ass music. I started with gospel and Earth Wind and Fire and pop divas like Céline and Mariah and honestly becoming a rock fan/metalhead was bound to be the next step if you ask me. At no point in my life have I ever stopped liking what I used to like, I've always just gotten to like more and more things. The songs I loved when I was like 10 are still songs I love now (At the Stars by Better Than Ezra is still in frequent rotation in my library and that was my favourite song in 1998).
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What was the last thing that happened that made you want to complain? }
>> They're building a fucking whole ass house across the street from me and it's so annoying. Just nonstop sound for like 6 to 8 hours every weekday. Also now I can't sit on my stoop and chill in the morning like I sometimes do. (I can, physically, it's just not the conditions I find relaxing at all so there's no point.)
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { Do you have nostalgia for the y2k aesthetic? What are some y2k things you especially like? }
>> I don't, but I can see why people would. That was a pretty fun aesthetic. I particularly like the see-through tech and the "futuristic" vibes.
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { Have you been collecting anything lately? What about specific items you’ve been shopping for in general? }
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‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { Is there any internet drama/scandals/topics du jour that you have opinions about? }
>> Not really, I just be watchin with my metaphorical opera glasses on like 👀🍿
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What is something unusual that turns you on? }
>> As a staunch xenosexual with the kind of kinks most people prefer not to bring up in public, I think just about everything that turns me on is unusual from a human perspective.
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { Who are some sources you trust to give you nuanced and accurate information/news? }
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‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { What was the last new technology you encountered that genuinely surprised you in some way? }
>> I don't even think I've encountered any new tech recently. I'm kind of allergic to new tech at this point because it always just straight up sucks. 😑
‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { When was the last time you felt like you were part of a group/connected to other people? }
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‧₊˚ 🎀˚₊‧ { If your friend invited you over to their place to listen to a new album release would you go? What if they invited you to watch a movie together at home? If not, what would you like to do with a friend at their home? }
>> I mean, I guess. It's not a situation I can properly imagine myself in but I also can't imagine why I'd refuse, yknow. I like music and movies. Those are some of the main things I like, in fact.
What was the highest place you've ever jumped from?
>> I have no idea.
Have you ever gone swimming in a river?
>> I've gone almost-drowning in a river.
Is there something you really want to buy at the moment?
>> Groceries, honestly. But that's going to have to wait. The gas bill is going to fuck us over big time for a few weeks.
Would you ever consider culinary school?
>> I would not.
What was the last souvenir someone got you?
>> I got a souvenir for myself in Punta Cana (a cute tank top), but they were paid for by Sparrow's mother, so I guess that still counts.
Do you have a favorite remix of a song?
>> I have a few, but it's hard to remember them off the top of my head.
Has the power gone out recently?
>> It hasn't.
Do you like driving at night?
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What do you think is the most saddest sounding instrument?
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Do you really pay attention to the ratings on movies?
>> I really don't.
Have you ever snuck in to a theater/dance/bar etc?
>> I have not.
If given the chance, would you go to Ireland?
>> Maybe. But I'm also satisfied just looking at photos of it from my comfortable couch where I didn't just spend hours on an airplane and hours in airports to get there.
Are you afraid of standing on the edge of hills/skyscrapers/cliffs etc?
>> I am. What if a really, really big gust happens at that very moment???? If there's any sort of railing or whatever, though, I'm fine.
Do you have a favorite species of wild cat (tiger/lion/cougar etc)?
>> I do! I really like clouded leopards and snow leopards.
Do you have an absolute favorite name (boy or girl)?
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Are you good at pronouncing foreign words?
>> I don't know. I have no idea what phonemes I'm pronouncing wrong or straight-up cannot hear at all.
When listening to music, do you usually tap your foot etc to the beat?
>> Sometimes. I'm most likely to nod/bang my head.
Have you ever literally cried on a friend's shoulder?
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Would you ever consider being a DJ at a party if you were paid?
>> I don't DJ, though...
Do strapless bras work for you?
>> I wouldn't wear them. They're too unreliable in my experience, and even if they are, I'd spend too much energy worrying about it anyway.
Has anyone told you that they wanted to marry you/were planning on it/etc?
>> Clearly.
Do you feel comfortable enough to wear short shorts?
>> I do. I like them, they're cute on me.
Have a favorite actor/actress from Old Hollywood? (Marilyn Monroe, etc)
>> Ingrid Bergman and James Stewart.
What's your opinion on people who stretch their ears?
>> I think it's cool. I had stretched ears at one point, and I'd do it again if I felt motivated enough (it's an intensive process for sure).
Do you think tattoos are expressive art or unattractive?
>> I think they're neat.
What is your school mascot?
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Have you ever seen a bear in the wild?
>> I haven't.
What's the book you're currently reading?
>> The Vampire Lestat and WoW: Beyond the Dark Portal.
Can you recall the most disturbing movie you've ever seen?
>> I'm not sure what that would be. I've seen a lot of the movies that you tend to see on those "Top 10 Most DISTURBING Movies!!! 😱🙈" type listicles, but I'm not disturbed by movies so I am not the right person to ask if they're disturbing or not.
Has anyone you know gotten mono?
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Have you ever picked an apple off the tree and eaten it?
>> I have. It was an incredible experience for me at the time, lol (had never had freshly-picked fruit before).
Can you say yes/no in different languages?
>> I can.
Out of the traditional superheroes, which one is your favorite?
>> How traditional are we talking? Like... been around since the Golden Age of Comics? None, they didn't start making superheroes I like until the Silver Age. I think the oldest superhero that's a fave of mine is Iron Man.
Ever peed in your pants after the age of 10?
>> I have.
Had any surgeries? What kind?
>> Only oral surgeries.
Do you like to see it snowing outside?
>> It can be nice. But I would be happier with never seeing snow again.
Do you tell your family you love them enough?
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Do you like getting jewelry or do you not wear any?
>> I love jewelry.
When you were in high school did you ever have bomb threats?
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Did/Do you get school cancellations because of snow?
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Would you consider anyone your best friend?
>> I wouldn't. I'm not even sure what a best friend relationship would feel like. I can't imagine it.
Who knows ALL of your secrets?
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Do you think Santa is stupid or do you like that type of thing?
>> I don't think any folklore is stupid. I do much prefer the pre-Coca Cola versions of Santa. I also enjoy various cinematic representations of him, especially in Klaus and Rise of the Guardians.
Do you watch a lot of NFL football?
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Have you ever used the word ‘lame’?
>> Sure.
Do you eat dinner with your family every night?
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Did you have a job before you were in college?
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Are you failing any of your classes at the moment?
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Have you ever thought about what it would be like to have a baby right now?
>> I do not think about this.
How are you feeling today?
>> Pretty good. The heat waves have finally stopped (for now...) and I'm enjoying this more normal summer weather. Especially since I finally got around to putting the window screen in.
Have you ever kissed someone and regretted it later?
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Do you lift weights?
>> I don't.
Have you used Limewire before?
>> I used to use it religiously.
Are you/Were you in a band? If so, what was your band name?
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Are you on birth control?
>> I am. I haven't had a period in nearly a decade and my life is vastly improved for it. Hopefully I will never have one again.
Have you ever tried cocaine or heroin?
>> I've tried cocaine. It didn't do much, though. :(
Do you know what a kettle weight is?
>> I do.
Do you have any siblings? Younger or older?
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Does your phone slide or flip?
>> Man, those were the days.
Have you ever had a one night stand?
>> I've had many.
Are you craving anything right now?
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Do you or any of your friends have children?
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When’s the last time you smoked?
>> A cigarette? I had a clove or two within the past couple of years, I think, but I haven't had a regular cigarette since last decade.
Who is your last sent text to?
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Do you hate one word texts?
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Have you ever eaten at Chipotle before?
>> I have.
Do you own any volleyball spandex?
>> I'm not even sure what that is.
Does your breath need to be freshened?
>> I don't think so, but I am experiencing that weird taste in my mouth that I've been having on and off since starting my med. I'll probably pop some gum in a minute.
When is the last time you went to the doctor?
>> I had a telehealth visit earlier in the week.
Do you swear often?
>> Damn fuckin right I do.
Is the taste of alcohol appealing to you?
>> It is. It's one of the things I miss about drinking (the other thing is trying fun new cocktails/brews), so I do indulge in a small drink occasionally. But I've also noticed there are more NA spirits and beers and wines on the market lately, so that's blessedly an option as well.
Do you own any shirts with a peace symbol on it?
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Have you ever dyed your hair light auburn?
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Do you have fair skin?
>> Decidedly not.
Ever had ice cream dots?
>> I have. I think they're fun.
Do you have your national flag hanging up anywhere outside your house?
>> Fuck no.
Would you ever go to Japan?
>> I suppose. I'm a little iffy about going to another country where I don't know a lick of the language, though.
What was the last thing you went to Walmart for?
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What are you doing right now?
>> This...
What should you be doing right now?
>> Nothing.
Ever gotten in a car accident?
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Are you afraid of getting your heart broken?
>> Of course not. I'd have to form an emotional attachment to someone first, and that's highly unlikely to happen. Other people seem to have that happen constantly? so I could understand why they'd be afraid of heartbreak.
Who did you last ride in a car with?
>> Sparrow.
Why did you last cry?
>> I don't even remember. It's been a while.
Are you hungry right now? If so, what are you craving?
>> I am not.
Are you tired?
>> I am not. I slept straight through the night, for once.
Have you ever been in a choir?
>> Only in school and maybe church.
Do you have a Twitter?
>> I do because you have to have an account to see most things, and sometimes I want to be able to look at some drama or sexy artwork.
What did you eat for breakfast today?
>> Multigrain toast with roasted garlic hummus and everything bagel seasoning, and then cottage cheese with diced peaches.
Do you like the color of your eyes? If not, what color would you want them?
>> I do.
Could you go for some hot cocoa right now?
>> I'm good.
Do you like when people play with your hair?
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When was the last time you went ice skating?
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Describe your retainers to me, if you have them, that is.
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Would you like for someone to call you right now?
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Do you like to brush your teeth?
>> Hell no. I do it anyway, but it's so tedious.
What time is it?
>> 09:21.
Have you ever had a surgery?
>> Only oral surgery.
Give out your phone number over the internet?
>> I have. But most of the time I just talk to people on some kind of internet service (Discord, IMs, etc) so it's not necessary. It's really only necessary if you don't have Discord and it's likely you'll be sending me time-sensitive messages when I'm going to be away from my computer, for example if we're coordinating a meetup. I've had to tell multiple people that I do not have FB Messenger on my phone and you couldn't pay me to download that mess.
Do you look older or younger than you actually are?
>> Someone a couple of days ago assumed I was in my 20s. I think it's often a combination of people not really knowing what people at different ages look like, the fact that I don't dress conservatively, and the majority age group of people that tend to go to, say, queer social events, lol (they tend to skew younger).
When is the next time you’ll be up on stage?
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Where did you spend your last birthday at?
>> Home, except for dinner at a nearby restaurant.
What is the last show that you watched a full episode of?
>> Archer.
Do you know anyone who lives in Utah?
>> I used to. They've since moved.
Is there anything you need to work on doing soon?
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Do you get your feelings hurt easily?
>> I don't.
Do you, or do you know someone who has taken karate lessons?
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Were you ever a boy or girl scout?
>> Briefly.
Which season is your part of the world currently experiencing?
>> Summer.
Do you ever read your texts and forget to respond to them?
>> This never happens to me with messages or DMs or anything. First of all, I usually reply when I receive them, but even if I am preoccupied at the time and have to reply later, I don't forget about it. I am the most reliable and consistent texter/messager you'll ever deal with.
What was a show that you enjoyed watching a kid when you were home sick?
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When’s the last time you traveled out of state/province? Where to?
>> The beginning of this month, to the Dominican Republic.
Does anything on your body cause you chronic pain? Any chronic illnesses?
>> I do not have any chronic conditions or pains.
What is your favorite Thanksgiving food?
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Would you prefer cake or pie as a birthday treat?
>> Spice cake. Pie would also be acceptable.
Have you ever been in a band with your friends (not the class)?
>> I have not.
What is something annoying about the person you like/love?
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At what age did you get your first period/have your first wet dream?
>> Eleven or so.
What is something that makes you feel old?
>> Nothing can make me feel old. I don't feel any age at all. Also, this is almost always meant to be a negative feeling and you can't convince me to feel negatively about ageing.
Do you remember where you were on 9/11/2001?
>> I do, I was in class.
Do you think that snow days won’t exist now that we have virtual learning?
>> I have never done virtual learning, so I don't know how that works. I'd assume it eliminates the need for snow days, but like I said, I don't actually know.
Whose wedding did you last attend?
>> Eleven and Michael's.
How often do you change/wash your bedding?
>> Either once a week or once every two weeks, depending on season and how much I've sweated at night. I wash my pillowcase every week regardless.
Do you have much of a sweet tooth?
>> I don't, I rarely crave sweets and even when I do want something sweet, I think my sweetness tolerance is significantly lower than the average USAmerican's. (This is probably because I wasn't allowed refined sugar as a child. The one thing about my childhood that actually benefited me in the long run instead of the opposite.)
Have you ever had to call 9-1-1 for someone else?
>> I have.
What do you dip your French fries in?
>> Ketchup, usually.
What’s the last book you started reading but couldn’t finish?
>> One of the Horus Heresy books. It was just too boring for me.
When’s the last time you experienced a panic attack? Over what?
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Have you ever used anything unusual to masturbate with before? If so, what?
>> Unusual to whom? I've used pillows and plushies but I don't know how common that is because I don't go around asking people about their habits in this area.
What’s your favorite sports ball?
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Have you ever peed in the water at the beach?
>> I have not and I would not. That's just indecorous.
How long do you think you could tread water for?
>> Zero seconds.
Have you ever been the victim of a hate crime?
>> I have not.
What would you rather be doing, other than this survey?
>> I want to do this, so I'd rather be doing this. Other activities I am equally happy to do right now are playing video games and browsing tumblr.
Have you ever scored a winning goal for a team you played for?
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Would you be interested in creating a street mural?
>> I am not interested in this because I am not a visual artist.
Have you ever participated in LARP'ing?
>> I haven't had the opportunity, but I'm intrigued by it.
Have you ever gotten a divorce?
>> I haven't and I hope I never have to. It just sounds so goddamn complicated and annoying.
How young do you feel is too young to get married?
>> 1 year old. 🤷🏿♀️
At what age would you let your child start picking out their own clothes?
>> If I were to raise a child, they could start picking out their own clothes as soon as they start expressing the desire to.
What is one thing that you would never pick up from the supermarket?
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What’s the last food that you prepared for yourself?
>> I had cottage cheese with mango for breakfast. I was trying out mango as a possible pairing but it turns out I don't like those flavours together, so I'll go back to peaches for now.
What’s your favorite type of cheese?
>> My preferences depend on what it's being paired with.
Do you prefer “regular kissing” or French kissing?
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Did you used to bite others as a child?
>> I don't have any recollection of doing this. It doesn't seem like something I'd have done at all.
Are you more likely to give a hickey to someone else or get one?
>> Get one, I guess? I'm not really interested in hickeys.
What is something you fail at, no matter how hard you try?
>> Video game theorycrafting/build-making. I just don't think I have the head for it. I do keep trying it though because it's really low-stakes to just mess around with builds in a video game, and I enjoy trying to do it (I always learn something in the process). If I fuck it up I can just start over, or find a build online and use that instead. Games are the best thing to fail repeatedly at because you have infinite do-overs (as long as you have the game) and there's no consequences for fucking up. Great for building tolerance to failure and frustration.
When was the last time you swam in a pool? 🏊♀️
>> I was last in a pool a couple of weeks ago. I discovered that I'm really buoyant which is probably another hindrance to me learning how to swim (it's harder to control my body in the water because it just bobs around so easily and that's kind of nerve-wracking).
Would you rather have an indoor pool or outdoor pool?
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What was the last thing you said out loud?
>> I was commenting to myself about all the actors I recognise that show up in Venture Bros because I was looking at the cast list.
Do you think you could ever be an opera singer?
>> Of course not, I wasn't ever trained for that.
How often do you eat bread? 🥖
>> Pretty much daily.
When was the last time you looked in the mirror and thought you looked pale?
>> I don't ever look pale.
Have you ever wanted to be a nurse? 👩⚕️
>> I have never wanted this.
Who or what do you worship?
>> Myself.
What was the last thing someone made fun of you for?
>> The only person that comes close to making fun of me is Sparrow because we banter like that sometimes.
Do you own a mini sewing kit that you use for altering clothing? 🧵
>> I do have a mini sewing kit but I haven't used it yet. It comes in a pink heart-shaped case ^^
Do you know a Ted?
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Do you own a beret? 👩🎨
>> I do not.
When was the last time you wore a beret?
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What is one thing you have found to be a bore?
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Where do you keep your out-of-season clothes?
>> I don't have a special place for them, they just stay in the same place year-round.
If you had to pick your top three favorite colors, what would they be?
>> Yellow, pink, and oxblood.
How many inches do you normally have to hem up your pants? 👖
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What are three things you would buy if you were rich? 🤑
>> An entirely bespoke/custom-tailored wardrobe, professionally-painted portraits of myself and ornate frames to put them in (frames are wild expensive, I've learned), and linen sheets.
How many times in your life have you been stung by a bee or a wasp? 🐝
>> Zero.
Have you ever swam in one of the Great Lakes?
>> I haven't swam in it, because I can't swim, but I've been to it.
….and if so, how many of the Great Lakes have you swam in?
>> I've been to Lake Michigan.
Do you believe in the devil? 👹
>> Not in the sense that I feel like he has influence over my life and the state of my soul.
What is one thing you wish were more easily accessible?
>> Healthcare.
Do you enjoy playing icebreaker games when you’re in a group of people you just met?
>> I don't, I find them all either boring, irrelevant to me, or just exasperatingly corny. I know why they exist, I just don't like them. I prefer to learn about people the organic way.
What is your favorite icebreaker game?
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What is one thing you find serene?
>> The wetlands area at Blandford Nature Center.
Have you ever chopped something with an axe? 🪓
>> I have not.
What is your favorite genre of music?
>> Metal.
What is one thing you like that tastes sour?
>> I just like sour things in general.
Do you think "Sour Patch Kids” sounds too much like “Cabbage Patch Kids”?
>> TOO much? No.
Did you ever own a Cabbage Patch doll when you were a kid?
>> I did not.
Do you like the candy Sour Patch Kids?
>> I don't, I find the texture and flavour to be far too mid.
What was the last song you listened to on repeat?
>> I could have sworn I played a song and then played it again before moving on recently but Last.fm isn't telling me what it is.
What is one mistake you’ve made that you hope to never repeat?
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What was the last thing you baked in the oven?
>> It's been too hot for the oven lately. I baked a Stouffer's veggie lasagna in the toaster oven recently, though.
Have you ever been to a track meet? 🏃♀️
>> When I was a child.
What do you call the bathroom?
>> Just that.
When was the last time you made guacamole? 🥑
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Do you know of any schools that have the beaver for a mascot?
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Have you ever stayed in a suite?
>> I don't think so.
Anything exciting taking place today?
>> Not at all.
What are you craving?
>> Fresh air, but the AQI is still high.
Is there anyone in the room with you?
>> There is not.
Who did you last hit?
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What was the last thing you did before bed last night?
>> The normal nighttime ritual (skincare, brushing teeth, etc).
What’s your biggest fear?
>> Incarceration. Like, I'm afraid of death and all, but I'm pretty damn sure I would rather die than spend life in prison.
Laptop or desktop?
>> Yes. (I have both.)
Do you have an iPod?
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Do you have a fan on in the room you’re in?
>> I do.
Do you have a wallet?
>> I do, it's a Polly Pocket one :>
What are you sitting on?
>> Couch.
What’s the last thing you had to eat?
>> This veggie rotini freezer meal.
Do you like grapefruits?
>> Not especially, but I don't hate them either.
Sweet or sour?
>> Sour.
Have you ever had the Reese’s PB Candy Bars?
>> I would not want to try this.
Do you know who Shawn Michaels is?
>> The wrestler? I vaguely remember him. He was in D-generation X with Triple H and they did that "SUCK IT" thing and that's all I remember.
Who do you turn to if you need help?
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Are you more dependent or independent?
>> I used to be more counterdependent than anything else. I don't have a support system so I am still more independent than anything, but I also can't support myself financially so I am permanently dependent from a practical perspective. It's an interesting paradox.
Does the time 2 o'clock have any significance to you?
>> It does not.
Do you like bagels?
>> I do.
Are there any stuffed animals in the room you’re in?
>> There are several.
What do you think of guy’s who wear eyeliner?
>> It is entirely unremarkable to me.
Favorite tv show?
>> X-Men '97.
Who was the last person you talked to on the phone?
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Where’s your mother?
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Do you know who the strongest man in the world is?
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What’s the best time you’ve had in the past week?
>> Last Monday I went to Trader Joe's and that's always fun. Mostly because I rarely have a chance to go there.
Have you ever been in a fist fight?
>> I have.
Can you cook?
>> I can.
What time is it?
>> 12:02.
Do you love animals?
>> I don't love animals. I might feel fondness for a specific animal or species of animal but otherwise I am emotionally neutral towards them.
What color are your eyes?
>> Dark brown.
Who’s one person you care about more than yourself?
>> Impossible.
How many hours of sleep did you get last night?
>> About 7.
Are there any pets you’re wishing for?
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Whatcha gonna do now? =]
>> Look at my tumblr dashboard for a bit, maybe. Or watch the TVL season finale. Yeah, actually, I should probably get that done.
1. What were you doing the last time you spent a night away from home (or wherever you regularly reside)?
>> I was at a resort in Punta Cana. It was a somewhat novel experience but I am so, so glad to not be constantly wet anymore. My god, that humidity was brutal.
2. Have you ever been diagnosed with anything unexpected, mental or physical illness? How did you finally find out?
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3. Where do you like to sit when you’re on the computer?
>> I sit on the couch. Sometimes the stationary bike (like I will be in about an hour). Sometimes I am not sitting at all (treadmill).
4. Does it ever bother you when you can’t remember all the details about a book you’ve read?
>> It does, but also I never remember details about anything because I read and watch and play so much shit.
5. Who was your favorite character in the last movie you watched? What about in the last book you read?
>> American Beauty is a masterclass in unlikeable characters, so, no one. I guess Janey was the least irritating/infuriating/weird (derogatory). The last book I finished was Interview With the Vampire and those versions of the characters are just not my favourite in general. I was pretty much only reading it for completionist reasons (I would have just started with TVL instead but it'd bother me if I did).
6. If you keep lists, what kind of topics do they cover?
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7. Do you feel as though you’re good at understanding/communicating with animals?
>> No better than anyone else, I'm sure.
8. When was the last time you changed your mind about something? What happened to change your mind?
>> I had to change my mind every time I thought about going outside the past few days. My house is stuffy as hell right now but at least the air in it is breathable.
9. What are your dreams like? Do they have ongoing plots, or are they mostly random nonsense?
>> They do have ongoing plots with callbacks and motifs and everything. Sometimes they have random-nonsense vignettes, though. This is just what little of them I remember, though, there might be even more going on that I don't know about.
10. What is the biggest decision you’ve made in the past year?
>> Starting a DNRI.
11. Are photographs important to you? Do you like to take a lot of pictures?
>> They're not as important to me as they could be. I like to take photos but I always forget to because it's clearly just not a priority to me. But I'd like to make it more of one, because my long-term memory is shite and it'd be good to have an external visual-memory bank of sorts.
12. Would you rather hike through the desert, the prairies, the forest, or the tundra?
>> The forest.
13. If you could reconnect with someone from your past, who would it be and why?
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14. What’s outside the nearest window?
>> The fence and house next door.
15. If there are any animals around you, what are they doing?
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16. What movie/show ‘emotionally scarred’ you as a kid?
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17. On a scale of 1-10, how into Beanie Babies were you? How many did you have? Which was your favorite?
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18. How often do you reread books? What was the last book you reread, and what made you pick it up again?
>> Rarely. I am currently re-reading Dune, because it's been a while since I first read it and I have way more understanding of the universe now, so the book is making way more sense to me this time around.
19. What was the last book you couldn’t finish? What made it so unbearable?
>> It was some Horus Heresy book. I just didn't like it and didn't care about anything that was happening and I wanted to move on to the next book in the series.
20. What has changed the most for you over the past year?
>> Mostly my mental/emotional state has gotten a lot less turbulent and my relationship with my selves has improved.
21. Describe an inside joke you have with someone?
>> I can never remember these at random like this.
22. What was the last game you played? Was anyone else playing with you? Do you prefer to play games alone or with others?
>> World of Warcraft. I played alone, and I prefer to play alone.
23. If you could somehow magically live anywhere (top of a mountain/bottom of an ocean/etc) where would you live?
>> The surface of the Sun.
24. What is the longest distance you’ve walked in a day?
>> I have no idea. A few miles, I assume.
25. Do you prefer homemade food or restaurant food?
>> Yes.
26. What was the last new food you tried?
>> A passionfruit tarte, from Trader Joe's.
27. What is your most recent regret?
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28. Would you rather it be sunny or cloudy most of the time (assuming it had no real effect on anything else)?
>> Sunny.
29. Do you ever express yourself creatively? In what ways?
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30. What was the last unexpected thing to happen to you? How did you react?
>> I was so sure TJ's would be out of my ultimate fave of their seasonal items by now, the horchata ice cream, but they had it in stock! I was so hype.
How did it feel outside today?
>> I don't know how it feels because I'm not goin out there. The AQI is out of control right now. I opened my front door for .02 seconds just to see and it smelled like an entire bonfire was happening on my front stoop.
Are there any animals in the room with you?
>> There are not. Well, there might be a spider or three in here.
How did you spend yesterday afternoon?
>> I played some Rogue Trader, watched a movie, and messed around on tumblr.
Are any of your siblings taller than you?
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Name a song that reminds you of a past relationship:
>> Schism by Tool.
When did you last have a nightmare?
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What’s the goriest thing you’ve ever seen?
>> I look at gory things fairly often, so I don't know.
Have you or do you attend pep rallies regularly?
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Have you ever seen a building on fire in real life?
>> I have.
Have you kissed anyone and their first name started with an F, D, or L?
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Have you ever been in therapy for anything?
>> I had to go for benefits reasons in the past. I've never had the experience of choosing a therapist that I liked and going because I wanted to go. It was always for the sake of convincing the government that I'm truly insane so they'll pay me, or keeping a bed in a MICA shelter, or whatever.
Do you think clowns are creepy?
>> I don't. I'm disinterested in your average simplistic primary-colours children's-party clown, I just think they look silly but not in the fun way. I like the more classical clown designs a lot, though.
If you had to write an essay about a popular song… what would that song be?
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When did you last have some fruit?
>> I had canned peaches with cottage cheese as part of my breakfast.
What’s something you have to look forward to?
>> Playing World of Warcraft in about a half-hour or so once my headphones charge.
Is there any part of your sexual/romantic history that you have not told your current significant other about or that you will not tell future partners about?
>> I have no issue talking about my sexual history.
Have you ever developed feelings for someone whose sexual orientation was incompatible with yours?
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How many relationships have you been in that actually got sexual?
>> Too many. Most of those people didn't deserve to have sex with me, if I'm honest.
Who performs the most random acts of kindness out of everyone you know?
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Are any of your pets “overweight”?
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Who’s the most romantic person you ever went out with?
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Last person to tell you that you smell good?
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Last person you told that they smell good?
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What shows do you watch?
>> So many. Right now I'm focused on X-Men '97, Fringe, Evil, Channel Zero, and Elle. Also Cape Fear and The Vampire Lestat.
Is there anything you are craving right now?
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Think back to the last person you kissed, how many times have you laughed with them?
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What are five Halloween costumes that you’d like to wear in the future?
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Who did you have your first kiss with? Do you remember what color his/her eyes were?
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Whose Facebook timeline did you post on most recently?
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Have you ever had a restaurant dish that was made with bugs? If not, would you even want to try one?
>> I haven't been to a restaurant that served any bug dishes, but I would definitely try one if I had the opportunity.
Which edible flowers have you tasted?
>> I don't know what they were called, but I've had edible flowers in desserts and stuff. And dried rose petals in the rose quartz latte from my local coffee shop.
Who was the last non-relative woman you spoke to in person?
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What was the last video you added to your favorites on YouTube?
>> I added a HalluciNation video to the playlist that I have for favourite music videos.
Who was the last person that apologized to you?
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What comes to mind when you think of pregnancy?
>> Parasitism. Also that one Aeon article that talked about how brutal pregnancy is on the carrier, because of how resource-demanding a human foetus is. That was a fascinating read.
Do you prefer bar or liquid soap?
>> Liquid.
Do any of your family members have an upcoming birthday?
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What is your favorite flavor of Jolly Ranchers?
>> Cherry.
Is your favorite animal endangered?
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Are you better at writing fiction or non-fiction?
>> Fiction.
Have you ever dated someone one grade/year above or below you?
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What is the middle name of the last person you texted?
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Have you ever come close to drowning?
>> Twice. I don't like what it's done to my relationship with water. I'd like to learn how to swim but first I have to not implicitly assume the water is seeking to kill me the second I drop my guard.
So… remember Girl Scout cookies? Any favorites you had/have?
>> The lemon ones.
Why did you ignore the last person you ignored?
>> I actually set someone to "ignore" on Discord the other day because I realised I have never once been even slightly interested in anything they were saying and I was kind of tired of seeing their comments. I didn't realise the ignore feature had been added recently but I saw it when I went to block them and decided to try that because that's actually exactly what I wanted to do, lol.
Which cartoon character would you want to keep as a pet?
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Do you like chocolate milk?
>> I have never had it and I assume I wouldn't like it (based on the fact that I don't like milk chocolate, which I assume is conceptually the same thing with the ratios changed in favour of milk, which I also don't like).
What is something you hate, but wish you loved?
>> Cleaning.
What’s the cutest thing your S/O does, but denies it’s cute in any way?
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Who have you hugged in the past month?
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Last bad news you heard?
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Have you ever dined alone at a restaurant?
>> Of course. I think it's weird that so many people haven't (same thing with going to movies or concerts alone).
Have you seen a baby being born in real life?
>> Haven't.
Do any of your exes know each other?
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Have you ever changed in front of the last person you kissed?
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Do you have any goats?
>> I don't.
Do you hang out with your sibling’s friends?
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Have you experienced any severe side effects of medications?
>> Thankfully not.
On Facebook, do you have people listed as your siblings who aren’t really your siblings?
>> I do not.
Have you lost any close family members to cancer?
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Do you know anyone who doesn’t have a middle name?
>> Online, yeah.
How often do you check your emails?
>> Whenever the little notification flag on my Gmail browser extension pops up.
Would you want your kids to have your hair color?
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Have you ever had a big YouTuber reply to a comment you left on their video?
>> I have not experienced that because I don't comment on big YouTubers' videos.
Have you ever given a lap dance?
>> I haven't, but I've been given one (once seriously, once for the lulz).
Personally, do you think you have a nice smile?
>> I do. I look like a ray of sunshine when I smile.
Do you have a nervous twitch?
>> I don't.
Have you ever taken care of a drunk friend?
>> Many times. Although my more hands-off approach to care was usually just making sure they don't stumble into traffic or leave their bag full of expensive items somewhere in the street. Maybe pop down to the bodega and get them a baconeggncheese and a Gatorade. Most everything else they could just deal with the consequences of themself once they sobered up. They're grown.
How about a hungover friend?
>> Oh, I guess I addressed the hungover bit already, with the sandwich and Gatorade.
Does the idea of snow peaked mountains and a large lake sound appealing?
>> Eh.
Pick any number that has personal significance to you?
>> 9 and 19.
Have you ever lost your luggage at an airport?
>> That's never happened to me.
Have you ever been on a rollercoaster that actually scared you?
>> Rollercoasters do scare me, but not in a way that makes me unable to get on them. I just quietly freak out on the incline, and then when it actually kicks off I'm fine. I just don't enjoy the anticipation (which is why I avoided Siren's Curse, but I do still want to get on it at some point). It's a bit irritating, if I'm honest, because I am very aware of how safe rollercoasters are and I do enjoy them very much as a concept (I follow like 10 coaster POV accounts on Tiktok, lmao). I'm sure if I rode them more often it'd become less of an issue, since I think it's largely the unfamiliarity of the unique feeling of being on a coaster that sparks my anxiety, but I very rarely go to amusement parks.
Do you know anyone who can fluently speak more than two languages?
>> Not personally, but I follow some polyglots online.
The last person who texted you, have you ever fought with them?
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How many windows are open on your computer right now?
>> One.
Do you have a fairly fast or slow internet connection?
>> Fast enough.
Have you ever gone in a sauna?
>> I have not.
Out of these colors, which appeals most to you: orange, blue, or green?
>> Green.
Have you celebrated your birthday yet this year?
>> I have.
Is there anything you’re saving up for?
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Are you taller than most of your friends?
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Know anyone with a really annoying laugh?
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Have you ever punched someone and broke their nose?
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What is the longest time you have gone without sleep?
>> 3 or so days.
Have you ever been someplace tropical?
>> I was in the tropics early last week.
If given the opportunity, would you act in a commercial?
>> I would not.
You see an ant on the ground, do you squish it?
>> Fuck no. Rude.
Have you ever baked a pie?
>> I have not.
What is your favorite social networking site?
>> Tumblr.
Who was the last person to call you?
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Does anyone in your family tell funny stories?
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Is there a war memorial where you live?
>> I think so.
Has anyone in your family fought in any of the wars?
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Would you make any changes to your current bedroom?
>> Yeah, I need like a dresser or something similar to put my clothes in, and I also could use some shelving. I could also really use some blackout curtains...
Has a stray dog ever tried to bite you?
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When riding a bus, do you prefer to sit up front, down back or the middle?
>> In the first seats of the raised section in the back.
Have you ever been on a cross-country train ride?
>> I haven't.
Are you normally a person to tell people off?
>> I don't see any point in telling people off. It certainly won't make them stop doing whatever pissed me off, so why would I waste the energy? Just seems like a silly thing to do unless you just want to yell at someone to offload your emotions, which isn't really my thing.
Name an object that most would consider odd that’s special to you?
>> I had a cicada molt that was special to me. I say "had" because at some point it just disappeared and I don't know where it's gone :(
Do you currently have any bug bites?
>> I don't.
Is where you live on a boulevard, road, street, or avenue?
>> Street.
Is there currently any caffeine in your system?
>> There is not. Well, maybe there is -- I had a green tea this morning.
Look around, are things organized?
>> As organised as they can be considering my lack of sufficient furniture and storage.
Is there any TV show that ended that you wish hadn’t?
>> The only show I still strongly feel this way about is Carnivale. I'm pretty much over everything else.
Know what you’re planning to do after this?
>> I've got to file my nails FUCKING AGAIN (why do they grow so fast. why.) and then I'm going to hang out on tumblr, probably.
01. How often do you walk around barefoot?
>> Always, as long as it isn't winter. The floors are much too cold in winter.
02. When you eat take-out, do you just eat it out of the containers provided?
>> Sometimes. Other times I will put it in a paper bowl or plate.
03. How do you prefer to travel? Plane, train, driving?
>> I'd prefer to teleport. I enjoy planes but I find the entire process of getting on and off them to be so fucking exhausting.
04. Would you need to sleep with someone before considering marrying them?
>> I married someone I don't sleep with. Being poly, ace, or both opens up so many new options when it comes to marriage.
05. How often do you make your bed?
>> I don't. I turn the top sheet down and let it air out.
07. Do you carry condoms?
>> I don't.
08. Would you date someone who has a hearing aid?
>> I can't foresee this being a dealbreaker, but who knows.
09. If you were to be stuck on a deserted tropical island, how big would you like the island to be?
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10. How organized are the files on your computer?
>> Very. It's a passion of mine.
11. Have you ever been to a strip club?
>> I haven't, and I'm intrigued by them. I think strippers are so cool. The only thing that puts me off strip clubs is the typical clientele (and also the noise level, if movies are to be believed).
12. Have you ever brought home a stray animal?
>> I have not. If I ever do this, you can safely assume I've been body-snatched.
13. Did you have a childhood hero? Were they real or fictional?
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14. If you are put on hold and the music playing is a song you know, do you sing along?
>> I've never heard hold music that was legit songs and not some weird ass Muzak shit.
15. Are you physically strong?
>> Not particularly, but like, I can carry stuff.
16. Would you date someone with braces?
>> I don't know, man. It'd depend on more than just that, I assume.
17. Does scuba diving interest you?
>> It does, but I can't swim so it doesn't matter.
18. Would you ever ask your parents for relationship advice?
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19. Do you think people look up to you?
>> I do not think that because I have no reason to think it.
20. How often do you have trouble sleeping at night?
>> It's likely to happen if I don't take my supplements. This medication is always waiting for a chance to keep me up at night.
21. Can you drive a manual transmission?
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22. Have you ever re-gifted a gift you didn’t care for?
>> Of course.
23. Do you ever rehearse conversations before you have them?
>> I don't; what actually happens sometimes is that I ruminate on confrontations because I'm used to them going badly and I get anxious about having to deal with some bullshit so I try to think of ways to head off the bullshit before it can happen. Which is a fool's errand, obviously. If someone's going to respond badly to a confrontation, they're gonna do so no matter how I word it. But generally, I don't rehearse conversations.
24. You notice someone staring intently at you, what do you do?
>> Stare back.
25. Do you blush easily?
>> I don't blush.
26. Do you get angry at yourself or at others more often?
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27. Can you name five current world leaders?
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28. When taking a cab, do you talk to the driver?
>> If they talk to me, I'm happy to talk back. If they don't talk to me, I'm happy to not talk. It's whatever.
29. Do you like word games like Scrabble or Boggle?
>> They're fine.
30. Would you consider dating a psychiatrist or psychologist?
>> Girl, I'm crazy. Happily so. There's no way I'm dating someone whose job is to analyse and try to "fix" people like me.
1. Do you have a moustache; If so, do you like it, and if not, would you want one?
>> I don't have one and I don't want one. I never liked them much, especially if it's just by itself and not connected to a beard.
2. Have you ever woven anything together, and if so, what was it?
>> Like, plastic lanyard and friendship bracelets and stuff.
3. Have you ever wore a crown as part of an outfit or play-pretend?
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4. Do you tend to like murky places?
>> I've never thought about it. I like swamps and bogs and the like? Those can be a bit murky...
5. Does your area or country get any deer, and have you ever saw any in real life?
>> I've seen many, many deer in real life.
6. Have you ever felt pierced through the heart (either in a good or bad way)?
>> I have, in a variety of ways.
7. Have you had the chance to pet or feel a starfish?
>> I haven't. Just stingrays and small sharks.
8. Do you consider yourself reckless, and do you want to change that?
>> I am not reckless.
9. What's the heaviest thing you can remember needing to carry?
>> Recently I had to haul my new treadmill into the house, that was pretty heavy. Fortunately, the room I put it in is literally right next to the front door, so I didn't have to move it far.
10. Which part of the house do you most enjoy sweeping, and which part do you most detest?
>> I don't sweep, I have a multi-surface vacuum. I used to hate sweeping because it never felt like I got everything.
11. Have you even been stung by anything, and if so, what was it?
>> Mosquitoes.
12. What's your opinions on shredded cheese?
>> I have no opinion on it, it's just a food item I sometimes use.
13. What drink do you usually consider a 'breakfast drink'?
>> Those Bolthouse Farms smoothie type drinks.
14. Have you ever rode in the trunk of a car as a child?
>> I have not.
15. Do you have any ragged clothes or toys that you should get rid of, but aren't?
>> I don't, I get rid of worn/broken things pretty readily.
16. What's the last thing you really felt like you blundered on?
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17. Do you prefer cozy, rustic places, or more ornate, fancy ones?
>> Ornate is more my aesthetic taste.
18. When was the last time you made a deal with someone, and did you both hold up your ends of it?
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19. Have you ever traveled to the Arctic; and if not, would you want to?
>> No thank you. I don't like being cold.
20. Would you say you had rivals in your childhood?
>> The only social peer dynamic I experienced in childhood was being bullied.
21. When was the last time you would say you had a blast?
>> I played about 4 hours of World of Warcraft yesterday.
22. How often do you wear clothing that needs to be buttoned up?
>> Infrequently.
23. Did you like catching fireflies as a kid?
>> I don't recall, but I do enjoy it now. Relatedly, there was a firefly in my room last night... no idea how it got in here but that was wild.
24. Did you go to school with rowdy classmates, or were they more calm?
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25. When's the last you felt like you were in an inferno?
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26. Name three things you feel are puzzling you in your life as of late:
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27. Opinion on onions?
>> I like them in all formulations. I'm out of crunchy onion and I really need to get some, I put that in damn near everything.
28. Were you ever scared of skeletons as a kid?
>> Not to my recollection.
29. What's one of the most valuable lessons you think someone has taught you in life?
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30. Do you prefer to gather at more populous places with a friend group, or vacant places no one goes to or knows?
>> I don't have a friend group.
31. If you were to make up an official award for yourself, what would it be for and what would it look like?
>> This is a fun question but I can't think of anything T__T can I just have a prettiest princess award
What’s your favourite flavour of soda, pop or whatever else you call it?
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What level of brightness do you usually keep your phone at?
>> It depends on what time of day it is and how bright it is wherever I am.
Have you ever attended a religious or private school?
>> The first few schools I attended were Catholic.
Do you have any pets and are they cuddly?
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What’s the worst job you’ve ever had?
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How many cars does your household own?
>> One.
Do you know anyone named Edward or any nickname of that?
>> I know at least one Eddie online. Oh, and Sparrow has a nephew or cousin or something named Edward. Last I saw him was Thanksgiving and he's in middle school so I got a bit of a primer on Gen Alpha stuff. There were many 6-7 jokes to be had.
What time do you usually have dinner?
>> I usually eat my last meal of the day between 18:00 and 20:00.
Are there any cracks or scuffs on your phone?
>> There are cracks in it. I dropped it on the concrete floor in the basement once 😑
What’s your favourite meat?
>> Hmm... lamb? I don't know if I have a favourite meat per se; I mostly have favourite preparations of meats, like preferring beef in a bulgogi or pork belly in a ramen or lamb in a halal plate from the street trucks in Manhattan. Sigh...
Do you need glasses to read or drive or need them all the time?
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How did you celebrate your last New Years Eve?
>> I'm pretty sure I slept through last NYE. If I didn't, then I just snuggled with Can Calah at midnight and then went to sleep.
Is the internet fast where you live?
>> It's no fiber but it's fast enough.
What is your favourite meal of the day and why?
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Do you like long surveys or short surveys better?
>> Medium.
Xbox, PlayStation or neither?
>> I am almost exclusively a PC gamer.
Have you ever been to a cocktail bar?
>> Possibly.
Do you consider yourself a fast typer?
>> I do.
What’s the best amusement park you’ve ever visited?
>> I did like Cedar Point. I think EPCOT is the best I've visited, though.
Do you keep the cabinets in your kitchen and bathroom organized?
>> I don't because they'd just get unorganised again thanks to Sparrow.
Have you ever had a romantic fling?
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Are you a very forgetful person?
>> Only when it comes to long-term memory.
What was the last movie you saw in the cinema?
>> Nosferatu? I think? It's been a while, unfortunately.
How old were you when you got your first car?
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What colour is your shampoo?
>> White, I think.
Are you doing anything tomorrow?
>> Going to hang out at a monthly meetup I go to.
Do you know anyone who’s gotten pregnant over the age of 40?
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Tell me a silly little wives’ tale you believed when you were a child.
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Who does most of the grocery shopping in your home?
>> We do it together. They have the car, I have the list and the EBT card.
Have you ever been approached by someone in public preaching about religion?
>> Sure.
Are you listening to music right now? If so, what’s the theme of the lyrics.
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What was the last thing you had to eat?
>> A pack of airplane pretzels I had saved.
What's your blog title from?
>> I have too many of these to answer for and I don't feel like going through all of them.
What movie have you watched most recently? What did you think of it?
>> Cold Fish. It was interesting and darkly comic, but it was also a bit longer than I'd have liked. Not that I think there were any unnecessary scenes in it, but 2h30 is a lot.
What are you looking forward to right now?
>> Playing more WoW tomorrow.
If you could do anything at all today, what would it be?
>> I can't think of anything I didn't do that I would have wanted to do.
What's your drink of choice? (Coffee/tea order, alcohol of choice, pop, etc)
>> I've gotten into virgin mojitos lately (basically lime, mint, and sugar in water).
What's your hair routine like? Anything special?
>> I buzz it every couple of weeks and wash my scalp with CeraVe anti-dandruff shampoo every few days.
What's your favorite way to travel? Is there a mode of travel you haven't done that you want to experience?
>> I find all travel to be exhausting. I like flying because of the actual flying part (taking off is so exhilarating and looking at the ground from high up is so fun), but I find all the airport bullshit to be annoying. Trains are fun but they take a long time. I don't really enjoy travelling, I just enjoy being in locations. Even then, I'm often thinking about how much I miss my bed and my PC and my routines... so yeah, maybe I just don't enjoy travelling as much as I think I do. :/
Favorite month of the year and why?
>> May because my birthday.
Favorite time of day and why?
>> Dawn.
Do you play or follow any sports? & elaborate on that?
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What kind of music is stuck in your head a lot lately?
>> The goddamn fantasy-haka chant thing from the Dune Part Three teaser. It's been months and it's still constantly getting stuck in my head. And now it's stuck in my head again.
Dishes or laundry?
>> Laundry 100%. It's barely a task to me because the machines do 90% of the work and I like folding clothes.
What's something you learned recently?
>> The Dominican Republic is hella flat.
If you could give a TED talk on anything, what would you talk about?
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What's a piece of advice you find yourself giving a lot?
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What's a piece of advice you would give to yourself five years ago?
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Do you believe in luck and superstition? Do you carry any lucky items or follow any lucky rules?
>> My only understanding of luck is that I have it -- not "good" luck or "bad" luck, but luck in general. Things happen to and for me in interesting twists and turns, and the more I pay attention the more I notice that.
Are you musical? Play any instruments or sing? Would you ever perform for an audience?
>> Not particularly. I sing for fun, but that's it. I have performed in front of audiences before and I don't mind doing it.
Write, type, or speak?
>> I find speaking to be much more difficult than typing. I like to be able to take my time and choose my words and also backspace and reword things before sending them. Speaking can be such an effort just to do it wrong anyway.
If money was no object, would you change your wardrobe?
>> I wouldn't change everything -- I have some pretty great pieces -- but I would definitely augment those great pieces with the more expensive, unique, and well-made ones that I have been coveting for years. I'd also seriously consider corseting at least part-time.
How do you/did you get to school?
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Have you ever been in trouble for something you honestly didn’t do?
>> I have been.
Is the idea of having a secret admirer creepy or romantic?
>> Neither, it's just kind of cute. I wouldn't want them to remain secret, though; I'd like to fully enjoy the adoration.
What was the last song you sung out loud?
>> I don't remember.
Have you ever had to have a pet put down?
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Were you excited to learn to drive, or scared?
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What was the last book you read? Did you enjoy it, or were you glad to be finished?
>> I finished Interview with the Vampire last night on the plane. I am indeed glad to be finished because it's taken me almost a year to get through that book (I put it down for a while and only recently came back to it), but I also enjoyed some of it. Especially the ending. I was just very eager to get on with The Vampire Lestat but I want to read the series entire so I had to sit through the first book first. (Also, being very enamoured with the show, it was really difficult to read book!Louis without show!Louis crowding my mind and reminding me how much I enjoy him more than his predecessor.)
Do you ever wonder what other people are thinking when they stare at you?
>> I do wonder that, especially since it happens so often.
Have you ever gone out of your way to get someone’s attention?
>> This is way too vague.
When was the last time you felt incredibly tired?
>> Yesterday, because travelling is fucking exhausting.
What candy cane flavor is your favorite?
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In your opinion, who doesn’t deserve to be famous?
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Do you get angry when fast food restaurants mess up your order?
>> Sometimes, because it's fucking frustrating, lmao. I can hold two truths at once ("the employee is just a person doing their best and I will not treat them badly because of a mistake" + "I JUST WANTED MY SPICY CHICKEN SANDWICH AAAAUGUGHGHHHGHHH 😭"). If I'm able to properly emotionally regulate that day, then only the former will dictate my actions, but being as I am also just a person doing my best, the latter will sometimes leak through.
Have you ever had a ridiculous hair cut?
>> I have not.
What was your favorite elective class in high school?
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Did you ever wish you could be homeschooled?
>> School was awful but it was also the only time I could escape being at home, so... yeah, no.
Was it hard for you to get up this morning?
>> Surprisingly not. I thought I'd sleep more fitfully because of my disrupted schedule but I hit the vape and knocked the fuck out and woke up fine -- later than I usually do, naturally, but I'd prefer that over waking up before being fully rested.
Have you ever had a dream so realistic you could’ve sworn it happened?
>> I have.
When was the last time you colored with crayons or colored pencils?
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Can you remember the first survey you filled out?
>> That was over 20 years ago, surely not.
Do you have any mental disorders? Do you feel comfortable talking about these disorders, if you have them?
>> I experience symptoms that adequately align with the criteria for ASD and CPTSD. I don't mind talking about the symptoms and their effects on my life and the things I do to work with them, but I prefer to do that without relying too heavily on psychiatric/pathological frameworks.
Where did you go on your last field trip?
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Are you able to agree to disagree? Or do you have to have the last word?
>> Most of the time I just don't care enough about what other people think or believe to put a lot of effort into arguing about it. It doesn't affect me either way, so it's all good.
Do you think you make a good first impression?
>> I could not rightly know.
Do other people’s first impressions stick with you?
>> Sure.
Are your friends who you thought they were when you first met?
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How have you changed in the past year?
>> Well, I'm on a med now.