Jaded.

Madi. 26. She/her/they/them. Let’s dance, it’ll be okay? Spin that record babe)

[elixirtolinger]

Mmm mmm

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[keepcalmandcarriefischer]

Hey! I know a lot of people hate Valentines day and each has their own reasons. If you don't want to "celebrate" it this year, may I suggest an alternative?

Celebrate Oregon's Birthday instead!

We have a 2 sided flag! Is that weird??

We have everything from beaches to forests to ice caps to sand dunes to rivers and lakes!

Just spend the day thinking about how much fun it is to go hiking and quietly humming "happy birthday!"

[elixirtolinger]

Excellent.

[sehomes]

[lesbiansgoal]

Be honest:

[elixirtolinger]

Ummmmm shit

[elixirtolinger]

Was looking through old messages on here and I had posted on a GWLG page and if I was attempting to flirt with you in 2017 I’m so sorry. Although flirting with me post pandemic might actually be just as cringe.

[the-plus-size-lesbian]

[weepinghollow]

picnics during late winter/early spring 🌻🌿

[starryxsapphic]

I want to go on a date to a coffee shop with a pretty girl and hold her hand as we walk through a park on a chilly fall day. I want to watch how the sun reflects off her hair and makes her look so ethereal.

[elixirtolinger]

This is sweet 🥺💕

[theriseofmysoul]

[elixirtolinger]

Had a meltdown. Trying to do skincare and recover.

(feat. My greasy hair and burnt chin)

[elixirtolinger]

Watching my parents get divorced after 27 years of marriage will go down as one of the hardest things I’ve had to endure. I’ve always heard people talk about how adult children who deal with their parents divorce find it easier. I disagree, there are just different circumstances that come with being younger or older. As hard as I try to stay out of it feel impossible at times.

[wyomingatheart]

[magicalbedtime]

You can't heal someone who is too comfortable with the state of being broken.

- Keiravanderkolk

[elixirtolinger]

I remember always telling my best friend that his mother would never be the mom he wanted. I never understood the weight of those words. I’m 26 now and one of my friends from work is telling me the same thing. I don’t know if I’ll ever accept it. I think I’ll always hope that mom will finally be my mom and uplifter and not someone who wants to compete with me. I’m so tired. Tonight my mom told me that I am who I am because she CREATED me as if her DNA fought all my battles to this point for me. I have to accept the magnitude of the trauma that she’s put me through and I don’t know when I’ll be at peace with knowing that she’ll never acknowledge the things that she’s done. They never talk about how painful unconditional love can be.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

If there's one single lesson I want to pass on to young people who are just starting to explore dating and romance, it's this: Do NOT trust significantly older people who show sexual and romantic interest in you. Do NOT give them the benefit of the doubt. Yes, I'm sure that you're mature for your age and smart, but even so, if you're 15-18 years old (or 18-22!), you're in a different phase of your life and personal development than someone who's in their late 20's, 30's, 40's or 50's - and if someone with so much more life experience, independence and social power chooses to go for someone who's barely an adult, it's in 99/100 cases not because this young person is an exception, but because they're actively attracted to and interested in abusing this imbalance of social power, independence and life experience. I am not saying this as a prude who won't allow people to live their lives, I am saying this as someone who spent her late teen years convinced that "age is just a number" and who got hurt badly as a result. So dear young people, please don't fall for this charade. Please explore romance and sex with someone who will actually see and treat you as an equal.

[elixirtolinger]

Ooof. Should have listened to my best friend when I started to date an almost 40 year old when I was barely 21

[cur-vy]

[cur-vy]