we're not kids anymore.

if i look back, i am lost
Today's Document

祝日 / Permanent Vacation
Alisa U Zemlji Chuda

Andulka
Jules of Nature

pixel skylines
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her

oozey mess
Cosmic Funnies
NASA

izzy's playlists!
I'd rather be in outer space 🛸
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YOU ARE THE REASON
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
almost home

roma★
sheepfilms
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@elliotsbenson
When someone says that they understand your pain cus’ their ship broke up, but your ship hasn’t even made it to first base yet and it’s been 24.. years.. like, NO SHARON YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND.
elliot stabler istg if liv didn’ kiss you i will
HOLY SHIT, IT WAS THE ORIGINAL ONE
MAKE A WISH
the first post ever on tumblr
I WAS EXPECTING IT TO BE A REMAKE OF SOME SORT HOLY FUCK
WHO THE FUCK KEEPS BRINGING THIS BACK
World Heritage Post
like actually though. i’m in AWE of the notecount.
reblog to give your friend a bad day
this is the monalisa of tumblr
“And to your right you’ll see the colour of the sky post, and tumblrinas desperately trying to scroll down to it’s end.”
this is it, this post started it all
NOW THAT TUMBLR HAS ANNOUNCED TO SHORTEN LONG POSTS, REBLOG TO TORMENT YOUR FOLLOWERS ONE LAST TIME
are you kidding me? you have half the nypd out on a goose chase with you and all you end up with is a dead ci?
“DON’T EVER FIGHT MY BATTLES FOR ME”
yeah, except you’re hot brunette captain named olivia benson
This is very important
Elliot Stabler is in love with Olivia Benson. PASS IT ON
if you didn’t find this hot, idk
sir elton john looking good here
Christopher Meloni and Mariska Hargitay attend the 74th Primetime Emmy Awards Governors Ball in Los Angeles on September 12, 2022
Mrs. Stabler Will See You Now.
Illicit Affairs x Exile EO EDIT
“And that’s the thing about illicit affairs
and clandestine meetings and longing stares
It’s born from just one glance
And it dies and it dies and it dies
A million little times”
“You’re not my homeland anymore,
so what I’m defending now?”
One thing abusive parents love to do is make you paranoid about how everyone else is judging you. You’re constantly being fed lines about what people will think of you, how horrible of an impression you’re leaving on everyone, how you’re embarrassing yourself, they manage to paint a picture in which nobody on earth could ever think anything good about you, and you’re a disgrace no matter where you go and what you do. They will reinforce this with comparing you to your cousins/relatives/random people, to show how you’re just, the worst of everyone.
Now none of this is actually true, what they’re doing is implying that everyone has the same pathetic need to judge that they have, and they’re comparing other people’s best points to whatever the hell they imagined your worst points are (and those are usually a lie, you’re fine the way you are.) Point of this is to make you feel unsafe anywhere you go, to never be able to feel like a secure part of society, so you have nobody to turn to except to them, and never develop trust in other people at all.
The consequences of this type of abuse can go from social anxiety to complete paranoia, you can end up feeling anxious and uncomfortable in public, constantly looking at yourself thru other people’s eyes, imagining what they thoughts about you are, worrying about everything you do and say and how harshly it could possibly be judged. It can end up with you completely abandoning whole sets of behaviours, desires and dreams just because they could possibly embarrass you, you can end up setting up such high standards for yourself you can’t possibly fulfill them and end up paralyzed in life, all in terror of being judged, criticized, and in the end - completely humiliated, unwanted and abandoned by the world. This act of sabotage is cruel and vicious thing to do to you, it can force you into fear so great you end up giving up who you are to escape pain, and that’s a lot of damage to do to a person.
Now I can’t tell you how to fight it, because the world is scary, being judged when you’re alone and isolated is scary, being viewed as a failure and having your value reduced to nothing even by strangers is scary, but know this: It doesn’t matter that much if people are judging you. Most people wont even judge you, because they don’t have that urge to put someone down to feel better about themselves, there’s a lot of people who aren’t the same level of pathetic as your parents. Your parents are only projecting their ugly disgusting personalities on everyone else. Normal, good people, will only care that your heart is good and you aren’t trying to cause them any harm, and beyond that they will find you good and welcome in their lives - which is how normally things should go. And those miserable piles of horseshit who will take any opportunity to judge anyone - are mostly too big of cowards to actually walk up to you and say it to your face. You could be doing whatever you want and they’ll leave you be because they know they have no influence, no right to stand in your way. For most of situations that terrified me because I felt I would be harshly judged, and even harmed, it turned out I could do whatever I wanted, and nobody on earth would say or do anything - parents were only ones who felt entitled to passing judgment. Shame on them.
So I’m dreaming of a day Chris and Mariska host @nbcsnl and made this. your move, SNL.