New World

The future is unclear; however, we must make the impact now.

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Living for today and embracing the fact that there will be a tomorrow.

In a moment of despair, you turn to him and say why me? Why now? Each moment of our lives is a test that we must measure for ourselves. We must rise to the challenge of today. Exceeding the expectations of tomorrow. I have faith that there are signs are all around us that we miss or fail to see when we are busy asking why rather than why not. Today is one day in the game of life take it for what it is a challenge that you will have rise to and met in advance of your next challenge. Adulthood is filled with times of stress and not knowing what tomorrow brings in the moments of today that make you wonder why me, why now. Now is the time to test and build yourself for tomorrow as there is no need to put off until tomorrow what you can be done today. Tomorrow is a new day with its own challenges that you will only add to if you plan to delay what you must do today.

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Twenty Favorite Queer Men Centric Movies

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YES… THIS! More of this!

[eltonhuttonme]

Suicide

Suicide is the only escape that can be seen by someone in their darkest hour when they have reached their lowest point. However, the act itself takes so much strength that it is beyond me how someone can actually do it. I have my moment of weakness when I thought that I could just end it all and then I think why I would let those who oppressing me win.

To go against every ingesting in your body in order to end your life takes will and determination. I refused to use my strength to end my life but rather to make my life matter. I wanted to make sure that I touch a life everyday so I smile and make others around me laugh. I make sure I find something to laugh about every day. Never taking the small things for granted, fortunately I never had to deal with bulling or it was something that I never paid much attention to because of the way that I was raised to understand that what someone says means nothing to my overall life.

I take nothing that I have been given for granted each day or opportunity. In time you will find that the best thing for you to do with your energy is to apply it toward making yourself someone better because while you maybe being bullied now but how long could that possibly last through considering your overall life. This is short-term in economics you learn about opportunity cost and this torture is a cost for the opportunity to become a better you in the future.

Think about it the human body is built to attempt to stay alive. That is why when you are sick your white blood cells increase to combat the cold virus. When you are in a high stress dangerous situation adrenaline kicks in to assist you defend yourself or someone else. We are built to live until our bodies can no longer fight.

So keep that in mind and fight for your life and just think what does this person mean to mean at the end of the day. How are they going to affect the outcome of my life, they will not be at the admission desk when you apply for college, they will not be the HR manager at the fortune 500 company that you submit your resume to when you graduate. Think about how much your life can affect others. Think about how you can touch others with your wisdom, with your words,

with your love. Every day is a gift and it is yours to live do not let others feel that they can take your gift away.

[eltonhuttonme]

Moving Past the Past and Into the future-11-21-2014

I have lost you. In a day you were here and the next you are gone. Why have I lost you I wonder at night as the days past in between you and I where could we have done wrong. I use the past as a learning experience and I choose not to live there any more. I wanted you to do the same make a future for your self rather than dwell on the past as you did time and time again. Once you are able to be present there is nothing greater than knowing that today marks the start of a new chapter a new lesson. I believe that we all have to write the pages of our lives and until you take the pen and make the changes to your story you will continue to be a victim of your past as you choose to relive every moment at the hands of someone else. When you are able to start a new chapter one that you have decided  to pen I will be here to explore the adventures to come. I wish you all the best in what you are and what you choose to become.  

[eltonhuttonme]

Moving on 11/08/2014

The wounds from loving you have held me back making me feel damaged and unwanted is what you are good at. In everyday life I walk through with a smile seeking the good in the moment and only at night when I am alone am I able to examine the damage done to my heart. I have only really loved you beyond any normal measure. I have not been able to allow myself to fully fall in love again finding that the emotion only leaves me vulnerable to more heartache and pain only makes me dread the thought that you would possible be the only other person that I will ever really love.  The thought is just damaging wishing that I can find someone to love me at the cure of who I am is going to be a major undertaking.  

[eltonhuttonme]

Time to Heal-09-13-2014

I have taken the time to think over life and how fragile it truly can be. You have to enjoy the moment that you are able to share with others and look forward to all that life has in store for you. In life we have to make choices and I choose to believe that each life has its own purpose and when you have served your purpose you are given some extra time to share that you are and what you are with someone else and then you pass. We are all going to be remembered by someone and this how I think we all do it. In time you have affect some many people’s lives and sadly you don’t really fully understand how much until it is too late. Take the time to share your love and appreciation for others while time allows it. You never know when or what someone else’s purpose is.  I know that even in the short time that I have been on this earth that I have touch many hearts because I am able to share who I am with those I love my heart is open to love and they all feel & embrace the love that I have within me. I love and thank you all for your love and support and I look forward to loving you all and protecting you from what I am able to and when your time comes that I will be able to see you once more. It is with love that we live forever, so I know that I am immortal because I have more people that love me than hate me and appreciate those that hate me all the same because I know it is there lack of knowing me at my core that cause them to hate their own idea of who I am and in time they will learn from those that know me that my heart embraced and share my time.  

[eltonhuttonme]

Love-09-13-2014

I have found you more than once. I have search high and low for you only to lose you to doubt. If only I could find the words to say that I miss you without just saying that I miss you. My heart can only skip so many beats before it will not beat in rhythm with you anymore. I want our hearts to be so in sync that they only erythema is the ones caused by our love. The greatest things comes to those who wait so I wait until I find the type of love that moves mountains. Until the time comes that my heart and yours are at one I hold onto the faith that I am meant to find the kind of love that you could only dream about. We take one day at a time and please stay true to your course and know that you should wait until you find me love and know that there will be obstacles and that you will overcome them as I have. Living, loving, laughing. 

[eltonhuttonme]

Love and all it has to offer-09-13-2014

I find love to be so elusive. It takes time to experience and can fade with the passage of time with the wrong person. I believe that when you fall in love with someone that is meant for you that you will fall deeper every day. When love calls your heart you have to answer taking into consideration that love comes at the ultimate cost. This cost is dependent on you; however, if you have to change who you are for the love of someone that you think that you are supposed to love rather than them loving who you are they are in love with an idea. I have found that it is easy to sell yourself short because you feel that you have to change in order to be with someone that you feel you could love forever, when in reality you are only in love with the thought of love rather than actually being in love with the person next to you. Love is a full appreciation of someone else; love is not given in parts or for a price. The only price that should be paid is devotion to the person that you have given a part of your heart too. Since love is limitless you are able to grow in love.  

[eltonhuttonme]

History is a lesson not an excuse

It is important to know where we have been and take notice if how far we have come. But it is important not to blame where we have been for where we are now. Each day is a gift and if we are always dwelling on the past we can never get to the present of each day and the opportunities that they each bring.  http://youtu.be/Rs0qqcshqo8

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[eltonhuttonme]

Marriage

I recently watched “Jumping the Broom” and it reminded me that this nation has been one that is built on the oppression of others. I am a first generation American; however, I have grown up in this country and have learned some of America's history in addition to some things being universal. I have taken some notes and noticed a few things and I wonder why it is that we all so quickly forget that the bible has been used as a weapon toward many groups of people. Women, do you forget that it was used to explain why you were a second-class citizen and why all your rights derived from your father or husband.  

Next, African Americans this same tool was used to explain your treatment. Do you remember a time when you as a whole were the property of your slave master and not allowed to marry at all? It is amazing that we continue to use this wonderful instrument as a weapon against that which we do not' understand. While you are supposed to believe that god created, all of his children in his own image and makes no mistakes. In the next breath, you are casting judgment on the souls that he placed on this earth. I live by simple rules treat others the way that you would want to be treated and if you have nothing nice to say do not say anything at all. Not to say I have never provided my opinion whether it was positive or negative it was always at the request of the person.     

In addition, to the fact that there is supposed to be a divide between church and state why should you enjoy the benefits of the state and nation for your religious marriage; think of this as a challenge that I would like you to really consider following up on. If your marriage is based in faith alone than your contract is between on you and your partner and god, your souls have been created for one another. I am all for those that want marriage to be a religious institution; however, you will need to in order to have your marriage recognized have to form a civil union in order to enjoy all of the protects and have the protections of the Federal government and state. If you want to break, your union has any of the judicial protections you have to form a contract with the state and government. When god binds, you need to seek his approval to separate. 

 However, I want to challenge you to ask a couple that has been married for years what it is that make their marriage works. I am sure that their faith is a part of what assists them in making it work. In addition, it takes communication, sacrifice and mutual respect for one another. I want to challenge those that were married in a church by a religious leader of whatever denomination to tear up their marriage license after all at every wedding they say that what god brings together let no man break.  

I do not understand how those who sin can cast so many stones. There are those that want to speak on things that they just do not understand and it is so sad to think that I could be one of those people so I want to challenge those that believe, I do not like to think that someone should be in a marriage in which they are being beaten and or abused. That is they only reason that I deem appropriate to separate not to say that I do not believe that anyone should enter into the holy institution such as marriage only to separate over something that is a petty as money.   

We forget the first lesson from the bible about the fact that GOD gave his only son to atone for the sins of others. He knows that we are imperfect that does not mean he does not love every single one of his creations.  God is the only one that can cast judgment as to the location of someone's soul.  

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Tyler Oakley (version 2 - original)

[eltonhuttonme]

Your Pain

Our minds are in the same place in time and our bodies occupy the same space yet our thoughts are different we have different passions and life moves for us in different directions.  We take the time to notice what is important to us with the understanding that we know and respect the difference. I want you to be able to grow and move in a direction more suited for who you truly are. In time your wounds will heal and love will come along buy your first love should always be you first and for most. If you can't love you than your love for someone else is invalid. You don't love them but the image of yourself that you think you see in them the image that you would like to be able to project.  ‪#‎loveislove‬ ‪#‎samelove

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Gay Couples React to Anti-Gay Marriage Ads

I’ll be stalking some peeps who reblog and share :) 

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NEW VIDEO: “Getting Intimate With Darren Criss”

Thanks for the amazing month of support, y’all. 20 collaborations, which you can check out HERE. If you like this one, push REBLOG. I’m stakling and following people who do!

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Cleaning

clean bathroom tips

organize your closet

how to fix a leaky faucet

how to keep a clean kitchen

removing stains from your carpet

Money

how to coupon

what to do when you can’t pay your bills

see if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill

how to save money

How to Balance a Check Book

How to do Your Own Taxes

Health

how to take care of yourself when you’re sick

things to bring to a doctor’s appointment

what to expect from your first gynecologist appointment

how to make a doctor’s appointment

how to pick a health insurance plan

a list of stress relievers

how to get free therapy

how to remove a splinter

how to avoid a hangover

Emergency

what to do if you get pulled over by a cop

a list of hotlines in a crisis

things to keep in your car in case of an emergency

how to do the heimlich maneuver

Food

recipes that take 30 minutes or less

Yummy apple thing

Brownie in a cup

Cookie in a cup

French bread pizza

Egg tacos

panera mac n cheese recipe

different salad recipes

harry potter recipes

healthy recipes

various cookie recipes

chocolate cupcakes w/ eggless cookie dough topping

s’mores pie 

nutella hot chocolate

peanut butter nutella swirl cookies

cookie in a mug

starbucks holiday drinks

fruit leathers 

brownie in a mug

how to make ramen 1000x better

eggless cookie dough (not to bake, just to eat)

make recipes using things you already have

how to put together a very fancy cheese plate 

make different flavored lemonades

various desert recipes

make tiny chocolate chip cookies

20 dishes every cook should know

learn how to make your own tea

Macaroni and cheese in a mug

Study snacks (2)

40 on-the-go breakfast recipes

Home

what the hell is a mortgage?

first apartment essentials checklist

how to care for cacti and succulents

the care and keeping of plants 

Getting an apartment

Job

time management

create a resume

find the right career

how to pick a major

how to avoid a hangover

how to interview for a job

how to stop procrastinating

How to write cover letters

Travel

ULTIMATE PACKING LIST

Traveling for Cheap 

Travel Accessories

The Best Way to Pack a Suitcase

How To Read A Map

How to Apply For A Passport

How to Make A Travel Budget

Better You

read the news

leave your childhood traumas behind

how to quit smoking

how to get a book published

how to knit

how to use a polaroid camera

how to solve a rubik’s cube

how to stop biting your nails

how to stop procrastinating

how to stop skipping breakfast

how to stop micromanaging

how to stop avoiding asking for help

how to stop swearing constantly

how to stop being a pushover

learn another language

how to improve your self-esteem

how to sew

learn how to embroider

how to love yourself

learn how to do yoga

100 tips for life

learn how to make your own cards

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I’ve been living on my own for almost 4 years now and I have like 50 tabs open.

Bless the person who put together this post, it ought to be made into a pamphlet for everyone in highschool/college.

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