Coloring Your Life,We Are An Architect

Psychological Student of Andalas University | interest on human being and design | Just let my tumblr be my "secret box"

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Know yourself.

Act on knowledge.

Observe.

Focus.

Persevere.

Manage change.

Make friends.

Care.

Judgment matters.

Laugh.

- Life is Short

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Like a career, long term relationship success requires perseverance and flexibility. People live happily ever after only in the movies.

- Peter Atkins

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Problems are much easier to deal with when they're still small than if you you've let them grow over time.

- Peter Atkins

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How do you determine what you passionately want to do?

- Life is Short

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Greed is a hole you can never fill

though there are definitely a lot of people who try

- Peter Atkins

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Do what you think is right.

Don't follow other people blindly.

Be honest and keep your word.

Admit your mistakes.

- Peter Atkins

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Character is like a tree, and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.

- Abraham Lincoln

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The biggest mistake men make when they think about getting married is they assume women won't change; the biggest mistake women make is they assume they can change men.

- A well known joke

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I try not to obsess on the past, but to learn from it. I try not to worry about the future, but to prepare for it. And while it's difficult sometimes, I try to take pleasure in the moment, even when bad things happen.

- Peter Atkins

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Showing need is a precondition of strength rather than weakness

- How to Find Love

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If we understand ourselves properly, we will know that there are many side of us that need improvement.

- How to Find Love

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the way we approach love as adults is highly shaped by how we experienced love as children

- How to Find Love

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Whatever we choose will be a bit wrong, the real skill is not always to strive to make better choices, it's to know how to make our peace with our necessarilly bad choices. we should with cheer accept that we never had ideal options in the first place.

- How to Find Love

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we're big now. we have the capacity to cope very well. we'll be sad for a while but won't actually be destroyed. we are no longer the children for whom loss was unbearable.

- How to Find Love

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Everyone is both ok and sometimes a bit awful, we are bit weak, bit sly and bit foolish, but so is everyone. we are of course all deeply flawed.

- How to Find Love

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Some of the qualities we find most attractive in adults are those that were manifest in our caregivers from childhood. the affection of our partners can end up tinged with a feeling of familiarity. in their arms, in emotional sense, we come home.

- How to Find Love

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If we inted to get better at relationship, we must attempt to examine the calls of romantic love rationally

- How to Find Love