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Pushing through art block with Maya

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♡ SBS Gayo Daejeon ♡

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The content I’m here for

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who is he

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The captain

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When there’s 2 balloons, a cherry blossom petal, a villager wants to talk to me, a bug is nearby, and I still need Blathers to assess my fossils:

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you ever just hand things to ur pet to sniff so they can feel included

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Millenial: “Don’t say g*psy or r*tard. They are slurs, just like the n-word, which you also shouldn’t say.”

Boomer: “More PC crap? They are not slurs you are just a snowflake.”

Gen Z: “Okay Boomer.”

Boomer: “SLUR! That’s a slur and you can’t say that!”

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thats exactly what happened

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Sex tip: If he’s pressuring you to do anal, buy a dildo the same size as his dick, and ask him to do it first. If he’s scared of the pain- case closed. There’s absolutely no reason that he should expect it to feel any differently for you. If he says that it would be emasculating, belittling or ‘gay’, then that man is a misogynistic homophobe, and you better run for the hills as fast as your legs can take you.

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I’m screaming

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Take it like a man

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What if he says yes

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then you start making memories

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We’re homophobic if we don’t wanna take a dildo in the ass now? 🥴

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You’re homophobic if you say it’s “gay, belittling or emasculating” to receive anal. And you’re misogynist/a shitty person if you have to use pressure to get your partner to do it, but you don’t want to do it yourself because you’re afraid of the pain. Don’t ask anyone else to go through what you’d consider painful for your pleasure if they’re not into it and don’t use pressure.

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And like, actual decent men may, because of the way our society is set up, need that object lesson.

If you present the dildo to him and say “you first” and he says “eeeeh, I don’t really want to?” you can say “Okay, that’s fine, I won’t force you, but I don’t really want to, either. So don’t I deserve the same respect I’m giving you by not pressuring you into it?”

If he argues or says “it’s different” or makes excuses? DUMP HIM. he is not safe and you should move on.

If he says “oh, fuck, I didn’t think of it like that, it’s ok if you don’t want to we’ll do other things”, then he’s at least got basic decency and you can test him for more intensive limits at your leisure.