If you are one of those people that comments/sends messages to a life partner (gf, bf, spouse) of a celebrity or social media person saying that they shouldn't date said celebrity but their co-star or any other person you ship them with (or a book character that doesn't even exist) just know that I immensely dislike you and have no respect for you whatsoever.
You don't know these people. Even if he or she is your favorite actor/singer/artist and you have been a fan of their work for years you still don't know them and you certainly don't have the right to send threats or other kinds of hateful messages to their loved ones just because you're jealous or you think they would make a better couple with someone else.
You simply don't have the right and if you don't understand that please unfollow me.
Lucas Jade Zumann is not Gilbert Blythe (Shannon Sullivan is a real life person)
Amybeth McNulty is not Anne Shirley
Bob Morley is not Bellamy Blake
Eliza Taylor is not Clarke Griffin
Josh Hutcherson is not Peeta Mellark
Jennifer Lawrence is not Katniss Everdeen
Taron Egerton is not Rian
Nathalie Emmanuel is not Deet
Harry Styles is a real life person
Louis Tomlinson is a real life person
Zayn Malik is a real life person
Niall Horan is a real life person
Liam Payne is a real life person
Taylor Swift is a real life person
Eleanor Calder is a real life person
Shawn Mendes is a real life person
Camilla Cabello is a real life person
I was triggered to write this post because it has been bothering me ever since I joined my first Fandom years ago and I posted about this topic multiple times on social media already. Hopefully someday there are going to be enough people to understand where I'm coming from. The ultimate straw for me this time was seeing hateful, body shaming and jealous comments on Shannon Sullivans instagram (Lucas Zumanns gf) on which I mostly saw stupidity and jealousy. Saying Lucas should date Anne instead of Shannon is pure stupidity. Anne is a book character and Shannon is a real life person. You can ship shirbert like I do as well but there's a line between shipping characters and actors.
Be respectful please and if you don't have anything nice to say think about saying nothing at all instead of trying to make someone else's life miserable.
I wish people were more respectful, nice and polite to each other.










