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[laylacreates]

Reblog if…

Reblog this if you have any of these:

Depression

Bipolar

Autism/Aspergers

ADHD

ADD

OCD

Anorexia

Bulimia

Schizophrenia

Borderline personality disorder

Anxiety

Dementia

PTSD

Paranoia

Stress

Anger issues

Tourettes

Any one that has any of these, just know, you are not alone, no matter how much you think you are not worthy. You are still human.

[rexisky]

“Intelligence is the ultimate aphrodisiac”

— Timothy Leary

[poems-and-word]

[poems-and-word]

[etherealspotlessmind]

Naaaahhh

[etherealspotlessmind]

Hollywood celebrities who don't like Trump, you are welcome here in the Philippines. 😍😘😘

[etherealspotlessmind]

Sunset and best friends

[bhryn]

I’m a flipflopper between crazy extrovert you would be embarrassed to hang out with due to complete lack of shame/tact/awareness and introvert you have to haul bodily out of blankets and feed and remind them they’re part of the human race. I have no inbetween. I think it can be hard on my friends, but I do love them and anyone who bothers to say hi to me, knowing they can either get instant replies or replies a week later when they’ve forgotten about what they said. Sorry guys. Sorry <3 *shamefaced*

Moral of the story: don’t be afraid to message me. I will always (eventually) message back and I love anyone with the courage to say hi. Also cookies. I’m a true ENFP ambivert haha.

[madhause]

Ambivert:

-Generally, you’re always happy to meet new people, but you’ll probably be uncomfortable if you have to do it without any of your existing friends with you.

-When a topic of interest comes up in conversation, you’re more than happy to talk in great detail about it. But as soon as that’s done, you’ll happily sit listening to the conversation without saying another word.

- You can often go out and have hours of fun being the life of the party, but suddenly find that your energy has dropped, and all you really want to do is go home.

-When you see things written about being an introvert, you start to relate…but then discover that you relate to the extrovert ones as well.

- Small talk is something that annoys you, because while you can do it, there are instances when it feels a bit insincere.

- Some weekends, you just need to spend some time hanging out on your own. Too much time spent alone can leave you a bit downcast, however, and you’re concerned that it’s not very productive.

- Thinking before you speak isn’t a problem for you…most of the time.

-You have a tendency to balance out whoever you’re with – if you’re with someone loud, you’ll be quieter. If they’re quiet, you’ll compensate for that.

-You’re known to be quite intuitive and good at picking up signals that other people can miss.

-Often, you just find yourself observing what’s happening around you. And at other times, you’ll be getting involved in the moment. So in the right context, you love attention, but more often than not, you don’t want to be the person everyone is looking at.

[etherealspotlessmind]

introvert/extrovert

Aries: extrovert

Taurus: both

Gemini: extrovert

Cancer: introvert

Leo: extrovert

Virgo: introvert

Libra: extrovert

Scorpio: introvert

Sagittarius: extrovert

Capricorn: introvert

Aquarius: both

Pisces: introvert

[cockdaddykaren-deactivated20210]

Extroverted Introverts: Ten things to know

Also known as an ambivert, an extroverted introvert is someone who exhibits qualities of both introversion and extroversion.

1. Their spot on the spectrum changes with their environment.

Your ambivert friend may be loud and gregarious around their family, but quiet and thoughtful at the office. Seeing them in both situations may feel like meeting two entirely different people.

2. Talking to strangers is fine – but don’t expect them to keep it to small talk.

Although an ambivert can hold up their end of a conversation, talking about the weather will not be enough to engage them. Their social energy is limited enough that they won’t want to waste it on meaningless chatter. They will likely push the conversation into deeper territory or bow out entirely.

3. They like to be alone – they don’t like to be lonely.

There is a big difference between the two. Choosing to sit at home with a tub of ice cream and a book feels fantastic. Sitting at home because nobody called them back feels sad and lame.

4. Getting them out of the house can be a challenge.

If you catch your friend on a highly introverted day, you may just be better off leaving them at home. They might manage to be social, but they’ll just be thinking about their books and their couch the whole time.

5. If they’re new, you can find them in the back of the room.

An introverted extrovert will approach new situations with cautious excitement. If they know someone in the group, they will likely cling to them a bit as they become comfortable. If they do not, they might waver on the edge of the crowd, slowly getting used to the water rather than jumping in all at once.

6. They’re selectively social.

They don’t mean to be snobs. They just have limited social energy and prefer interacting one-on-one or in small groups. For this reason, they can only afford to invest their social time and energy in those who they feel truly connected to.

7. Making friends is easy. Keeping them is hard.

They like talking to people, but they value their alone-time, as well. This can make maintaining a friendship tricky. If your ambivert friend makes an effort to consistently invest time and energy in your friendship, be glad. You are truly special to them.

8. Their social desires change with the breeze.

They might be desperate to hang out with you on Friday, but then not answer your call on Saturday. They’re not mad at you. They’re just super comfortable in bed watching films.

9. They can talk to you for hours.

If you manage to catch them in a one-on-one situation, an extroverted introvert will just not shut up. Once their interest is engaged, there’s no stopping them.

10. Listening is great too, though.

Sometimes they want to be a part of the action, but their social energy levels are too low for them to contribute in a meaningful way. Listening allows them to get to know you without burning up their social fuel. They also know its value from their chattier moments when they are desperate for an ear.

[lifeisthefight-deactivated20190]

So, if you are too tired to speak, sit next to me, because I, too, am fluent in silence.

R. Arnold (via lifeisthefight)

[brimay]

all of my fellow introverts and old souls, please remember that there is no shame in:

not enjoying parties 

preferring a relaxed conversation to a big social gathering

not drinking or smoking 

thinking a lot 

listening instead of talking

not seeing the point in skipping classes

needing time to yourself

[mynamenotmystoryy]

For me this is numb.

when you’ve been through so much bullshit in your life, that you just become numb. You start to monitor your emotions until you’ve been doing it for so long it’s just automatic. You stop caring about things to the point where you practically have to force yourself to care about what you know you probably should care about. You are so chill about everything because there is no need to even exert the energy when you know it’ll turn out bad anyways. You can’t even describe your feelings anymore, so you begin to question if you even feel anymore. At this point are you living? Or are you just functioning?

[depressedparalysis]

[chl-e]

I say I don’t want to talk about it. Actually, I do, but I’m afraid of your reaction. I’m afraid you’ll never see me as an equal again. I’m afraid of the pity in your eyes when you realise how screwed up I am.

Unknown (via angelswan101)

[chl-e]

Suicide is stupid? You wanna know what is stupid? Hurting someone so much emotionally, that they think suicide is the only answer.

Macklemore (via angelswan101)