You Let Me Desecrate You.

NSFW 18+ ONLY | 39 | lesbian | No men, No minors, No terfs

[etoile-dom]

🚫 NO MINORS (18+) 🚫

Seriously if you are under the age of 18 gtfo, DNI, unfollow me and do NOT reblog from me.

Ageless bios get blocked.

[dommehour]

thank you masochists for existing so that people like me can lovingly beat you up

[omwb1234]

If you’re so good at thinking for yourself, why are you choking on my cock like some dumb whore? Oh you don’t need to answer, sweetheart. Just keep making those cute, pathetic noises, my love

[mynameonherlips-deactivated2023]

cuddling and rubbing her back until she falls asleep after fucking her brains out

[bewitching666]

just to be clear, if you’re anti-trans, anti-drag, anti-abortion, this isn’t a space for you, leave.

[angelslonely]

cum for me and let me watch

[wandatoldmetorun]

who wants to be a good girl for me and get on their knees so i can fuck their throat with my strap?

[cnc-pet]

I think it's really important to realize how much of a vulnerable position sadists are putting themselves in when they participate in pain play. This is particularly important in established relationships, as opposed to casual settings, but important in both nonetheless. Also, this post is strictly addressing participants of kink who practice it responsibly and care about their partners.

When sadists do pain play they are having to grapple with the fact that they get pleasure out of causing pain to someone who has put their trust in them. This can be devastating if they feel as though they have in any way compromised that trust. Especially since even people who know about aftercare and try to do it, often overlook the aftercare that sadists, or even dominants as a whole, need. I imagine this happens a lot with pain play scenes, as so much emphasis is placed on taking care of the masochist. Obviously, that's important, but it should not be one or the other. The point I'm trying to get at is this:

Masochists/subs, please remember to give your sadists/doms aftercare. The biological and psychological functions that cause subspace and subdrop can have the same effect on doms. Doms are just as capable of experiencing that rush of adrenaline and endorphins, and just as capable of crashing, once the scene is done. Tell your sadist that you still trust them and feel safe with them. They need to hear it.

Sadists/doms, please remember that there is nothing wrong with having sadistic thoughts and feelings if you're acting them out in risk-aware and consensual settings/dynamics. I think I speak for all masochists when I say that we are so thankful for sadists who participate in responsible kink. Remember that there's more to aftercare than just caring for and comforting the sub. You deserve to be reassured and to receive the care that you need.

[satanslilslut666]

[edgedfox-deactivated20240929]

Also shoutout to Doms with disabilities.

you deserve aftercare. you deserve to have your boundaries respected.

Doms who need to be reminded to take care of themselves, and doms who need to be reminded to take their meds. Doms who need to be drawn a bath or a shower and be helped gently.

Doms who can’t play rough f/or long, and need to take breaks. Doms who need reassurance that the scenes you do are okay, that they aren’t a bad person. Doms who need to use their own safe words because they’re in pain and or suddenly don’t feel well enough to continue.

All doms need aftercare, but some a little more than others. All doms are valid regardless of your physical and/or mental limits.

[deloveusion]

tie her down and make her watch as you jerk off to how desperate her adorable little face looks

[softistdom]

“oh god” sub x “yes darling?” dom

[wlwife]

A sub too embarrassed to grind on their doms thighs so their dom grabs them by the hips and helps then grind their needy cunt against their thigh while praising them and telling them how cute they are.

[homura]

tits or ass? bro her tummy

[cnc-pet]

This is a sadist appreciation post. Thank you for enjoying our pain. You’re not a bad person for being a sadist. Please hurt me.

Thank you

[undead-vices-deactivated2023071]

Grabbing her by the chin after you cum on her face. Dragging her to the mirror.

"Look what a pretty girl you are. That's my precious angel."

[sirslittlethief]

You’re not a bad sub if:

Edging isn’t for you.

Denial isn’t for you.

Pain isn’t for you.

Anal isn’t for you.

Oral isn’t for you.

You’re also not a bad sub if you need to safeword, if your limits are different today, if you have chronic conditions or mental health struggles that limit you more than you’d like.

There’s so many posts that talk about the “ways to be a good sub” and honestly there is no one way and it’s okay to do what’s right for you. You’re not a bad sub at all.