Dating Napaasa at Naiwan

My Condolences to anyone who losts me.

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“Mahal ko kasi eh"

Pwede ba? Its 2021 and that concept is too outdated. Hindi yan sapat na dahilan to compromise on someone na di ka kayang i-appreciate, pahalagahan at mahalin. Kung always ka nalang magsesettle sa salitang yan, isipin mo kung worth it pa ba, baka kasi ang 'ending, ikaw nalang ang nagmamahal. Sya, matagal ka ng binitawan.

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After all the sacrifices, and the pain you’ve endured, sometimes it still isn’t enough.

When your efforts aren't met with the results you deserve, self-preservation isn't selfish—it's necessary. Don't lose your pride trying to fix something that refuses to be fixed.

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Parang totoo nga no?

Christmas doesn’t feel as merry as before.

Hindi ko alam kung tumanda lang ba tayo… pero parang konti na lang ang nangangaroling, hindi na ganun karami ang Christmas lights sa kalsada, hindi na bongga ang parties, hindi na ganun kabigat ang Christmas rush at sales—and for some, pati bonuses, wala na rin.

Maybe nasanay lang talaga tayo sa Pasko nung bata pa tayo—simple, inosente, at punong-puno ng excitement. But let’s not forget the real reason for this season: JESUS—the greatest gift ever given to humanity, salvation o kaligtasan.

Its always theseason of giving and loving, kaya kung kaya mong magbigay ng kahit ano, maliit man o malaki, basta galing sa puso—ibigay mo with love and compassion. And in other way around, be grateful for the everything around you: people, experience, family, friends, co-workers, and loved ones who still make this season feel warm and meaningful.

May the spirit of Christmas be still with us.

Merry Christmas po! 🎄✨

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After i watched Issa’s pressman seat interview with Karen Davila, I feel guilty knowing i am in this relationship that started in the wrong situation—blurred lines, unexpected sparks, and choices I could have turned away from. I know it was wrong. But how could I walk away when the love and attention I gave made him feel alive, gave him reasons to see things differently, and helped him believe the world still had more to offer? What I gave him was something he needed, something he lacked in his now past relationship.

I’m not trying to justify the mistakes we made. I just want to walk as clean as possible from here on, and fix things little by little. I pray that when karma hits me, it sees that I acted out of love—love for someone who needed it, for lives and connections that crossed paths for a reason.

To those I disappointed, I am sincerely sorry. I know I wouldn’t tolerate this if it happened to someone else, yet it happened to me. I don’t know what comes next, but I believe there’s still a reason why He allowed this.

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𝗠𝗮𝘆𝗼𝗿 𝗠𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴 said it straight: 𝙞𝙛 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙘𝙤𝙧𝙧𝙪𝙥𝙩 𝙜𝙚𝙩𝙨 ₱1𝘽 𝙖 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧, 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩’𝙨 ₱2.7𝙈 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙡𝙚𝙣 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙙𝙖𝙮.

Imagine? 𝟮.𝟳 𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮 𝗱𝗮𝘆, habang may mga PWD at senior citizens na kailangang kumayod, factory workers na below minimum ang sahod, estudyanteng napipilitang magtrabaho, mga pasyenteng namamatay na hindi nadadala sa ospital, mga gamot at procedure na hindi kayang bayaran, batang nagtitiis sa child labor o minsan pa hindi nakakapag aral, mga pamilyang natutulog sa kalsada, at patuloy na nararanasan nating paghihirap twing may sakuna.

Lahat ng ito, habang iilan lang ang sagad-sagarang nakikinabang sa pera na dapat para sa lahat.

Wake up!

𝗪𝗲 𝗙𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗼𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀. 🥹😭

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Long time no post here on Tumblr! This used to be my diary and safe space, and it feels so nostalgic to be back—sharing my thoughts without fear of judgment, just me in my little Tumblr world. 🖤 Maybe I should start posting here more often again? Kinda missed this. ✨

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Yung simpleng pagtatago? Yung maliit na pagsisinungaling? Yung “accidental” na pag-e-entertain? — that’s the start of micro-cheating. At kung hindi mo mapapansin, it can grow into full-blown cheating.

Kung mahal mo talaga, iiwas ka sa mga tao at bagay na alam mong makakasakit sa kanya—o mas malala, magdudulot ng overthinking o self- doubt. Kung hindi mo na mahal, iwan mo. Kung hindi na worth it, tigilan mo. Kung hindi ka na masaya, ihinto mo.

Yes, separation is painful pero, mas masakit ang hiwalayang may kasamang panloloko—it will leave them wounds that's never heal and trauma that will echo every night, making them question their worth and blame themselves.

Cheating is always a choice. No one deserves it—in any form, in any way. 🍃

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𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘄 𝟮𝟲:𝟭𝟰-𝟭𝟲 —Judas sold out Jesus for 30 silver coins. A betrayal that led to the greatest act of love: the crucifixion and our redemption.

𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀, 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗴𝘂𝗶𝘀𝗲. If Judas hadn’t betrayed Jesus, the path to salvation wouldn’t have unfolded the way it did.

In our own lives, God allows us to feel pain—betrayal, heartbreak, loss—not to break us, but to position us for something greater. People leave. Plans fall apart. But often, that’s just the end of a chapter... not the whole story.

We all meet our own “Judas” at some point.And when we do, may we remember:Even betrayal can lead to a blessing.

To all the “Hudas” out there—thanks for the plot twist. God’s still writing our happy ever after.

Can i say? 𝙈𝙜𝙖 𝙃𝙐𝘿𝘼𝙎 𝙆𝙖𝙮𝙤!

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If not now, when? If not you, who? 🫵🏻

We are the only ones who are responsible for our own happiness. No matter what society told us to be the norms. No matter what others will tell us, and no matter what the standard is, break free and make your own happiness! Sabi nila we only live once, but in reality we live every day, yet die once. Go and chase your dreams; go with what makes you confident and happy! Unleash everything that will hinder you from reaching your full potential.

We regret only the things we didn't try!

If you're looking for confirmation? Yes! Eto yon.

I check out mo nayan, bilin mo nayan, kasi deserve mo yannnnnn! 💋

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Always remember that healing is linear.

One day you're good, one day you're not. There is no perfect formula that can fit all. No matter what our friends told us, still we’re responsible with our own process. Healing depends on your willingness to move forward, and sometimes you need to feel so much pain, even anger and tons of bad experiences, to realize the need to let go.

As long as you know your boundaries and your limitations and you manage your expectations, little by little, you can do it!

Healing dust for all in need! ✨

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Hello

Hingi lng ako ng advice. Nagkaron ng gf halos 6yrs kami kaso nakipaghiwalay muna siya sakin kasi nagkaproblema kami. Bigyan ko daw muna siya ng space. Sabi ko sknya maghihintay ako kelan niya ako babalikan. Hanggang ngayon hiwalay pa din kami bihira na po kami magusap kasi baka makulitan kasi siya sakin na kakatanong ko. Ngahiwalay po kami nung sept po.. ano po ba dapat kong gawin. Btw magbff po kami same sex. Sabi niya nun ndi nman daw agad nawawala uung love. Ngayon po binago niya na yung nickname nmin sa messenger. Nasaktan po ako. Hindi po soya nagrereply. Hindi ko po alam ano ang iniisip niya dhil bihira po kami magusap simula nung naghiwalay kami.

So anong gagawin mo? Magmumukmok ka? Titigil ang mundo mo? Magpapaka depress? Waggg! Mahirap pero kailangan natin umusad

Oo, tama sya hindi mawawala ang love, pero it will transform with other form, and maybe sa ibang form kayo mas mag click. Ang dapat mong gawin ay ibaling mo yung atensyon mo sa mas makabuluhang bagay. Do things that will upgrade you! Invest with yourself and be back on track na ulit. Life will not end dahil lang natapos ang isang relasyon.

Sorry nalate ako ng reply, kung okay man na kayo edi goods. Kung hindi? You will find something better 🌸❤️

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Why life is hard? Bakit walang nag mamahal sakin?

Maraming nagmamahal sayo, hindi lang sa paraang ineexpect at gusto mo. Love is not linear, it can be in any form, but we have certain expectations that were expecting kaya ending? Di natin naaappreciate yung mga bagay na nasa harapan natin and looking for what is lacking.

Mahal kita anon!

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Stop being okay with things you're not okay with.

Tolerating entails accepting, and accepting things you're not okay with means compromising. We got devalued because we allowed them to treat us less; we accepted the barest minimum, and we always gave chances to people who didn't value us, our effort, and our existence just because we were afraid of losing people who were not afraid of losing us.

If you won't speak? Then it will be a never-ending cycle. Stop compromising your worth with people who don't see your importance as you see them. I'd rather burn bridges than be disrespectfully stepped on.

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Sinasabe ko sa inyo, kung hindi nyo na mahal, iwan nyo! Wag kayong unfair. Wag kayong kupal na porket ‘di ka na masaya, ‘ di kayo okay o nagsasawa ka na? Magloloko ka. E sya ba? Araw araw ba syang masaya sayo? Araw araw ba syang okay? Pag ganyan, Iwan mo ng maayos, sabihin mo rason ba’t ka nagsawa, saka ka maghanap ng ipapalit. Hindi yung habang kayo mag e-entertain ka ng back up mo. Anong klaseng pagpapalaki sayo ng magulang mo? Tinuruan ka ba nilang maging madamot? Maging sinungaling at selfish? Diba pagnaglalaro tayo sabi nila “o pag tapos gamitin ligpitin ng maayos ha?” Ganon din sana sa relasyon, ligpitin ng maayos hindi gagaguhin. Kaya madaming ‘di na naniniwala sa pagmamahal kasi ikaw tong naranasan ng masaktan, nananakit ka din ng ibang tao, ta’s sasabihin mo di mo sinasadya? You don’t know how much pain people suffer after being lied and betrayed, how much composure they should earn just to continue living, and how much courage and tears she burst, just to keep going. Have some basic human decency to treat other people like human, not things.

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I have an Ex, and we have the same circle of friends so lagi parin kami nag kakasama sa sessions and gala. But he always look at me the same way he used to look at me and I'm so confused about him. What should i do?

Dont assume unless otherwise stated eka nga. Te kung bet ka nyan at same circle naman kayo syempre mag aask yan sa iba if your available to pursue you hindi yung ganyang nagpapakiramdaman kayo. Magpaganda ka, akitin mo sya para mas lumagkit titig nya so that he can’t resist to ask you again! Ganyan umatake hindi yung titigan, alang mangyayare pag ganyan! Laban Abante Babae! Ekk

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Minsan kasi we are the one who causes ourself pain. Tayo lang din naman yung dahilan ng mga bruises and heartbreaks natin. Tayo yung gumagawa ng mga anticipations natin over small gestures na ginagawa nila. Tayo yung nag aassume dun sa care na pinapakita nila. Tayo yung nagbibigay kulay sa pagiging naturally kind nila. Tayo yung gumagawa ng disappointments natin sa pag eexpect sa mga bagay na dapat gawin at iasal nila towards us. Tayo yung uhaw na uhaw sa external validation mula sa iba. Tayo yung seek nang seek ng care and love mula sa paligid natin. Tayo yung ayaw magpadaig at always gusto nasa taas kasi yun yung akala natin na dapat. Tayo yung mas mahal yung pride at mas iintindihin yung sasabihin ng iba, kesa sa totoong magpapasaya satin. Tayo yung habol ng habol sa mga bagay o tao, na sa umpisa palang e ayaw naman talagang magpahabol. Tayo yung asa ng asa na wala namang dapat asahan dahil una palang ‘wala naman talaga.

We always tend to defy gravity, which is supposedly NOT. 🥀

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Obsessed with making myself better. Hi? 👋