Experimenting-life

I live in india, have my own biases about how I see the world. My opinion are not so common, so don't make opinion based on my thoughts.

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Read one quite something for me. I have this habit of perfection

Have to remember this now

It's never going to be perfect

Set a deadline, and deliver

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After getting cheated for product I purchased based on some offer. I realised how good as businessman you are, how noble you're thoughts be, customers will always be ruthless.

It's not because of you or because of customer personality, it's because what they face in daily life and kind of people they come across, you need to realise that, it's all their experience.

Basically selling on offer shouldn't work because customer are your bosses, since they give you salary and business but they have bad experiences and some are just human (making more of loopholes).

Even if you want to tread to that road, you should know it going to be hella ride, be prepared to rides of waves coming to you.

If you think of future: your vision, inorder to make it happen, be ready for rollercoaster ride, it's not gonna be fun or easy and far far from it. If you seriously want to do that, I think one should be aware of this cost he is going to pay. If you're passionate enough, it's worth the ride.

Remember it's not fun or easy, it would be ruthless, unforgiving.

Extras:

While writing this up, I realised that if you're want to be noble side of business you can't cater to poor people as those people will find loopholes on system as their priorities are survival, which makes them do things, you don't think of. Unless you go on chinese model, buy and forget. Once transaction is over, it's done. No support no coming back.

Business should be top to bottom like Elon Musk did, top tier get good reviews and make best products and then finally mass market when most of things are figured out.

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If you don't kill lion, it doesn't mean lion won't kill you

These are few rando quotes somewhere form internet, don't even remember the sources, had changed how I see life, human society and respond to situation that come to me.

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Sometimes result of doing right things isn't happy.

For me till now, doing the right thing and making people around me happy had always gone in sync, but 25 yrs in life, this isn't anymore.

Now in my life, I'm moving in a phase of life, where doing things right does not always make people around me or me happy.

Probably this is what means growing-up.

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Formula for achieving *vision*.

In order to make/create something the main ingredients forme are.

Passion : I really need to passionate about it, i should really want that thing/goal to be done, this is most critical component for me to achieve anything. This alone doesn’t decide if I would be able to achieve/execute my plans, but this is like fuel for my journey, the fuel that takes me through dark nights, even when water goes beyond my head, this fuel/desire will takes me through the darkest hour

Hard-work : I can be really passionate about something, really want it from my heart and soul, but if behaviour is like lazy sloth(not sure ref is appropriate) there is nothing that would be done. Because work is how things are created, work is how Coliseum was created, this is how google’s base algorithm(PageRank) was created

For me these are tools need to check for starting our journey, There are few more tools required ahead, but starting with these two tools is key to start, and not knowing more is key for your first journey/sail .

Rest of tools will automatically come to you and you will to figure them out of your experience which will come from walking by these two tools.

Note: I write thing for myself.

[politijohn]

Merry Christmas to everyone except higher education institutions who charge students outrageous fees on top of overpriced tuition

It’s time for tuition-free universal education.

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why things are called free, there in nothing as free. Teachers aren’t free, exams aren’t free, desk aren’t ....  .. More appropriate would be it should be shared by tax payers money if we want it that way.

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> Born too late to explore earth, born too early to explore space..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UDVtMYqUAyw&list=PL1UdON4NwEcyDY7uHF66QFXlMfYZHKOP4

[joanna-lannister]

You’re hurt. It doesn’t matter. You’re bleeding.

quote by @queencersei from perihelion; chapter 14

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This also has been part of life...

Seeing various things in life, life is moving ahead. I need to be more attentive in my approach to life. But this also has been part of life.

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Not cracking the JEE

I didn't got into JEE, i have never cracked any exam that is super competitive.

This thought came into my mind whole I'm flying to Singapore and guy next to me was seeing movie chichore and few minutes into movie there was a scene in which a child preparing for JEE was scared of result. He had prepared a lot and his father was AIR 384. This all recalled me of my life how it had been.

Writing it out today to see what is inside me.

So i never understood what engineering was, not while was in college. I realised it about 2-3 years in my job, not clearly remember when i did but it is somewhere long after college.

I had passion for medical, my maa used to fall sick because of those headache. We went to most of places we did Ctscan, MRIs and lot of others, no concrete results. She used to say she keeps on hearing some hissing sounds in her head.

After all those troubles probably i was in 6-7 by then, i started reading about biology because seemed door to me for solution for my maa. I took it up upon me to find the solution for this.

I as kid, never got interested any thing. Flips were the things I like doing, and front flips, side flips were things i used to do. Back flip never came to mind, never saw someone doing it that time. Cricket I remember was the thing in my mind. I used to try playing shots while pooping in morning, but for biology i remember creating dairies and notes which i had never done before.

In tried to read books of biology that were taught in BSc biology, and i did fare well in classes but eventually in 11th I had to take up maths instead of biology because studying medical was very expensive in India.

After this i never got interested in anything, i remember solving maths problem never understood the concept it just was just formula and proving things. Never understood what was significance of anything. Never got feel for it, why we are doing this, where does this lead to. Same was for physics, until 4 yrs after engineering, i never understood what is electricity and magnetism properly.

But things don't end for me over there, now i understand what engineering means, what industries mean. Now I'm more than interested in pursuing these. After long time, i feel on same lines, this time not sure how to crack that area, but have to figure it out. Journey has already started, let walk more in it.

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By being entrepreneur you do not become boss for yourself, the boss changes from few people to whole new customer base you have.

Imo if my reason to become entrepreneur is to become your own boss, I'm probably going in wrong direction.

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Time to change, not a nice guy now

Just want to put it as note to myself.

I'm changing now, as I grow older as team-player, people are going to push their agendas, at times they will have to go over you. If you be nice guy again, it not going to work.

"Nice guys" term imo is the word used for people who do not take stand for themselves. I have been nice guys most of the times, but I think it has to change within me now. I have to start taking more for me now. It doesn't mean I wouldn't caring for people around me, it means atleast in *workplace* for starters will not be a yes-man or will not just allow people to stand over me.

Will try to help others but won't be stupid enough to make them stand on me. It would mean, I wouldn't be as nice of a guy, as I was. Used to help others before me, that has to change now.

As in flight they say, don't try to save others before you. Put your mask first and then help others. Have to start giving me a bit more priority now.

Let's see how changes go in life now.

[philosophybits]

“If you’re lonely when you’re alone, you’re in bad company.”

— Jean-Paul Sartre, Essays in Aesthetics

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So true, can't agree more.

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Gotcha when thinking from others perspective

When you think from others perspective, you actually think, what you would've done/thought in situation that other person is in. So even if you're thinking from other side, you basically think from how you are.

This is common mistake, and solution for this I realised was only that

1. You know that other person quite well, good enough to make judgements on their behalf, because this is what you are doing

2. Other option to take person on their face value. Ask them up and just believe whatever they say. You will fall sometimes but in long-run this is easier and simpler approach. Eventually you'll know to trust person on face-value or not.

In my opinion this make life easier to work-on.

Note:

I write mostly to keep notes for myself. If it also helps you, happy to help :)

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This is the first note/post, not sure how much identity I can hide. Not want to show, who I'm in real life, because some of my opinions go a bit out of line.

In pursuit to improve myself with discussion, with people of various opinions.