💁🏻How do I look? Why do people are always asking how do they look? Maybe because they want to be presentable in any occasion, maybe they are conscious about they’re look or wearing, or! Maybe because they doesn’t want to judged by others. Let’s talk about from head to toe look. All of us want to hear compliments like “You’re so beautiful”, “hey! You so look handsome today”, “You have tantalizing eyes”, “You look so stunning”, “oh! You’re really hot today”, and lastly “You’re so perfect!”. All the words that I've mentioned are the words that you want to hear, right? But before you hear all of those words. Let me give you some tips how to look presentable. First, your hair should be manageable. Girls have different preferences, they either want it long, short, curly, or straight depending on their mood and occasion they are in. On the other hand, most of the boys stick to one hairstyle as they are conscious trying a new one without the assurance that it would fit their personality. But there are some who follow the trend. They are mostly from our generation. The only common thing boys will agree is that they don't want anyone touching or messing with their hair. Second, your face should always be fresh and smooth especially girls who wear makeup such as, foundation, eyelashes, eye shadows, mascaras, and lipstick. Girls usually wear make-up because we want to hide our blemishes like pimples, eye bags, and marks on our face. I have cousins who go to derma clinic weekly. I remember when they brought me there once and asked me if I want to try their facial treatment, I said yes. That is one of the wrong decisions I made because when it's already my turn, “Oh my gosh! Sobrang sakit”, that was my reaction while crying. After that I can’t feel my face, I do not know what came into my mind since then. I promise to myself, I won’t let that happen again. That’s my first and definitely my last try. How about boys? Are they also concern with their face? I actually don’t know, but I asked one of my friends, and he definitely said “yes, of course inaalagaan ko ang mukha ko, tulad ng pag-aalaga ko sa girlfriend ko” and I was like okay. Third, who wants to be physically fit? Have you already tried to work out and spend time to the gym just to be fit? Yes! I experienced that last semester break, I was on a diet having a rule of no rice in 2 weeks. I also jogged from 5 AM until 8 AM everyday yet my body still looks the same. Lastly, when it comes to over-all look, who do you think are more sensitive, girls or boys? If you would ask me, I would say that both of them are sensitive to criticisms from other people. We believe on them easily and have the mindset that anything they have said are true. Thus, insecurity starts there. Whenever peole throw judgment on you like: “it didn’t fits you; you look ugly on your dress; you’re not pretty; or you’re trying to be perfect but you’re not, you get hurt. You get insecure to the person who’s much prettier and handsome than you, or much intelligent than you. Don’t deny it, it’s normal. We have insecurities everywhere. Did you ever ask yourself, “Maganda ba ko? Gwapo ba ko? Bakit ganun ang ganda niya masyado? Admit it, you already thought of that before. And you can never change the fact that, it’s already there in the first place. The only thing you can do is accept the fact that there’s no perfect in this world. Cause if you let yourself to be insecure all the time you will never be happy and contented. The last that I want to discuss is self-consciousness. This is my topic before it ended to physical appearance. Did you remember, before sir allowed us to interview each other just to improve our topic? I will never forget this person that I’ve interviewed before.We both have the same experience. I asked what she is conscious about, and she said her pimples, which I’m also concerned about. I asked her why, she replied “Kasi mukha ko yung hinaharap ko sa tao, kaya minsan nakakahiya kapag nakatingin sila sakin." Yes, that’s true. And when they look at me like I did something wrong with him/her, but the truth is they just checking on my pimples. And I was like “ano problema neto?”. Sometimes I feel discriminated, kidding aside. Sometimes I feel so down cause some people are telling me “Bakit dumami pimples mo? “Hala ang chaka muna” “Sayang ganda na sana may pimples lang” and I was like “Pinaghirapan ko kaya to, at least halatang nag-aaral” (with smiley face). The best part in this speech, first, if you really want to be skinny, physically fit, over-all perfect, etc, do your best to achieve your goals, don’t stop until you make it because I believe in the saying that “Lahat ng bagay pinaghihirapan”. Second, you don’t have to be insecure, cause you have your own capability in doing things that others can’t do. You also have a unique personality, face, and style that others can’t have. And lastly, don’t be conscious about yourself. Stand straight, show them that you don’t care about their opinion, and you don’t care about your look because everyone is unique in their own way. Now you can proudly says “I’m confidently beautiful with a heart” by Pia Wurtzbach.
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