the stars fell. they walk with you.

my suggestions

[deadman-suggestions]

i will find the energy to go on. i will feel the sun break through for the first time in months, warming my dust coated ambitions, i feel the silence drown out and replace with the hum of a gentle afternoon

[fallingstars-suggestion]

there are no words to explain, the absolute relief, the revelation, of thoughts i used to think, while crying softly.

if only i could wash, all that past gloom away, just from the tears of it.

for now, i only want to encourage myself to relish those feelings, i used to suppress.

for now, i couldn't imagine, in a million years, this being wrong.

[deadman-suggestions]

the moon shines reverently. starlight beams fill the air with lightness, a stillness that brings safety. it is so easy to forget the world is built upon softness like this

[fallingstars-suggestion]

i'm in the process of breaking off a four year relationship with my partner. he's my best friend, but the relationship isn't healthy. for logistical reasons, we won't be able to really break it off until this summer, but the longer it goes on the harder it is for me to deal with it. there's nobody i can really talk to about this because all of my friends are his friends too, and there's nothing i can keep from him. i don't know if you have any advice for this, but if you do, it can't hurt

i don't have any idea when you sent this, i haven't logged into this account for a while. but please, if you see this, message me. i just broke off a 10 year relationship myself and i'd love to talk.

[fallingstars-suggestion]

something is better than nothing, always.

if you're struggling with a project - try naming a word document, making a list of things you want to expand upon, or doodling for a while - it's still progress that will help you a lot when you start work again tomorrow.

if you're having trouble cleaning yourself - a swig of mouthwash, a wet wipe, a change of clothes - is enough to make you feel more comfortable in this moment.

if you haven't eaten in a while - a glass of water, a snack, or a dollar menu item - will keep your energy up until you can revisit the idea of a large meal.

if you stayed up too late and have somewhere to be in a few hours - just close your eyes for a while, doesn't matter if you don't actually sleep - any rest you can manage will ease the upcoming day.

if you've been sitting or lying for a while - try a pace around your room, maybe just getting up for a moment, or asking someone you trust to move your limbs with you - it will help your circulation and perhaps improve your mood, too.

if someone important is waiting on your response - a quick text that you're not feeling well and will answer in more detail shortly - will keep others in the loop and will ease your own anxiety immensely.

if laundry needs to be done - try just collecting dirty clothes off the floor and putting them in a hamper, maybe even just doing one load, and throwing the clean clothes on a chair afterwards - will make that pile smaller and less intimidating.

if your whole home is messy - cleaning off your kitchen countertop or something else small - is one less thing you need to do later.

it's okay to tackle small tasks. it's okay to skip some steps. it's okay to make things a little less overwhelming for a future you. something is better than nothing.

[fallingstars-suggestion]

you always deserve rest, regardless of what your day entailed. so close your eyes, breathe deeply and slowly, and relax a bit. sleep soundly. tomorrow will be better, and i can't wait to see you then.

[fallingstars-suggestion]

you should be proud of yourself 💙🌌✨

[fallingstars-suggestion]

another star dies. and you begin, anew.

[fallingstars-suggestion]

my life has never been easy. my life will never be easy. but it is worth living, still.

i love with my entire heart, and people love me with their entire hearts.

and this love i have for life, it was enough to keep me going. it will be enough to keep me going.

[fallingstars-suggestion]

[id: a discord message of someone with the nickname "big spitty lizards" says: every day i'm reminded that lgbt love exists and life is worth it and everything is going to be all right. the message is reacted with four gay pride hearts. end id.]

[wizardwritings]

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just anything, really! :)

[just-a-bird-in-a-sweater]

You are not alone. There are people who understand you. There are people who enjoy your company. There are people who care about you, people who love you, people who respect you.

You may feel alone right now. And that's okay. Just know that you won't always feel this way. There are people out there that want you to be happy. Because you deserve to be happy.

[fallingstars-suggestion]

[id: a discord message of someone with the nickname "big spitty lizards" says: every day i'm reminded that lgbt love exists and life is worth it and everything is going to be all right. the message is reacted with four gay pride hearts. end id.]

[suggestionsofkindness]

Just because you have to start the day later than expected doesn’t mean it’s wasted. Also getting 1 or 2 things done is still getting something done, that you then do not have to worry about another day. 🌸

[aerisuggestions]

What is one thing you can do right now to help yourself feel a bit more comfortable?

[just-a-bird-in-a-sweater]

I'm sorry you had a bad day. But look! You made it through! You made it through the day and now you can get some rest. Try your best to relax and take deep breaths. Tomorrow might be better. Just keep going.

[deadman-suggestions]

There is time in this world and my body will pull itself through